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Monday, November 5, 2018
Collin spends the weekend with Jon
We hope this marks a transition home to Jon permanently! Sweet Collin looks so happy and healthy.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 320 of 320 Newer› Newest»From Dmasy. Good morning Admin. To you and Gordon. I hope you have a bonding day.
admin, good luck with Gordon ! Love the name. Ah, the puppy stage- adorable but...zany!
Welcome to lucky little Gordon! I love labs. They are so enthusiastic but so so kind and loving.
M.
Wow! Collin sure looks good in the latest Christmas tree pic. Yay Jon, Hannah and the rest of his 'close family '
(unrelated tho they may be)!
Phreddie
Admin...Congrats on your pup! Enjoy!
T...Sympathies on the loss of your husband. My son-in-law lost his uncle on Sunday. Only 58 years old. Way to young.
Formerly Duped...So right about the puppy stage. Our GSD Nina will turn one year on Dec. 2. The sweetest temperament ever but what a wack-a-doodle. In doing research, it is said at this age dogs are in their teenage years. I'm attributing it to that.
Phreddie...That is a great photo Jon posted. Every one looks happy and Colin looks like he has thinned down. His face looks slimmer.
Collin does look thinner AND happy.Amazing what a growth spurt and a bit of hands on time and LOVE will do for a body!
Phreddie
That is a great picture that Jon posted. I’m glad that Collin was able to spend Thanksgiving with family.
T - Sorry for your loss.
Admin - Good luck with the puppy and get a gate to protect your tree if you put one up for Christmas.
The picture was good. No Grinch Kate.
Would someone post a link to the latest Jon, Hannah and Colin photo? I don't "do" Instagram but I do copy and paste quite well. Thanks!
Gee, off IG for over a month and this is all she can come up with? Another shot of her favorite #NookiePookie? Why bother?
kateplusmy8 This pretty much describes our holiday weekend😂.... #Nanuq #Rest #Relax #Enjoy #Thankful 🍂🍗🦃
Both Jon and Colleen posted pictures of the family trip to find a Christmas tree. Smiling faces all around. TFW countered with a picture of NookiePookie sleeping on her back.
Lynn W...Jon's account is public so even if you don't have instagram you can see it. It's Jon Gosselin @jongosselin1.
LOL! Ya gotta love the sheeple. On TFW's recent post someone made the comment "How come Jon has Colin and you never do but you never show pictures of you with him why because he's not perfect" and someone replied "because jon posts pictures so people praise him and kate doesn't because she's not super showy, she doesn't even post pictures of her kids very often". I guess none of them know how to use punctuation or correct grammar.
What a great photo! Collin looks relaxed, slimmer and healthy and most importantly, happy. He does not look drugged or dangerous so I really hope he can count down days left at the facility and come home. Hannah looks good too.And Jon :) I don't think they would taking him tree picking if he wouldn't be there for Xmas.Let's hope it's home for good.
Remember the pompous menus TFW used to show for TG? I think it's in her crookbook.The kids had paper plates though. I guess that feast didn't happen or maybe it was low-key with Jamie there. But she won't have to complain about wrapping Christmas gifts for 8- I doubt H and C are on the receiving end of her list! Her school baking will be reduced too- oh, what will she complain about?
Kate didn't post a picture with people in it because she knew she'd be asked about Hannah and Collin. And I doubt that Cara would agree to pose now that she's old enough to say "no". Mady is probably more interested in content for her own IG. So that leaves 4 kids and a lot of questions, which she's not about to answer. I hope her followers love looking at the dogs, because that's what they're going to get from here on out.
NJGal51 (15)
Funny how both posters have the same writing style there, isn't it? Jon's looking for praise? How does that work when he doesn't allow comments on the post? There was only 1. And the other one, saying Kate isn't showy???? Seriously??? Maybe that poster is thinking of a different Kate.
I had a wonderful Thanksgiving in PA with family! Lots of people, lots of food, and then a trip to Philly to do some Christmas shopping. My fashionista niece informed me that I had to buy a new outfit for myself, and had a list of things I was not allowed to get. No oxford-type shirts, no Breton shirts, no loafers, no cable knit or fair isle-type sweaters, etc. Apparently I'm too conservative in my manner of dress. It took some work, but I finally found something that we could both agree upon.
But isn't that picture of pink Nookie from May 2017 when Kate dyed her pink? How about she post a pic of something a little more recent? Maybe a Thanksgiving pie that she made? Or something.
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Wow, did anyone else notice how much Hannah and Colleen's daughter look alike? They look like sisters!
Collin looks great in that picture. His smile reaches his bright eyes.
Admin, are you feeding Gordon homemade dog food or kibble from the store? I started out feeding Winston high quality kibble but he is allergic to something in most kibbles. He would sometimes itch so hard he would bleed. He was on itch medication but the price went up by $20 last month. So, I decided to try homemade dog food. He no longer itchinch or chews on his paws. I went with a DIY kit from Just Food For Dogs. I wanted to make sure Winston was getting all the nutrients he needed. He gets that with the DIY kit. It comes with a recipe and a vitamin and mineral powder. The ingredients for the recipe are not that expensive. I usually stock up on the chicken for his food when it’s on sale.
Andrea
Layla said... 18
Kate didn't post a picture with people in it because she knew she'd be asked about Hannah and Collin. And I doubt that Cara would agree to pose now that she's old enough to say "no". Mady is probably more interested in content for her own IG. So that leaves 4 kids and a lot of questions, which she's not about to answer. I hope her followers love looking at the dogs, because that's what they're going to get from here on out.
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So true. I wonder if TFMJG can appreciate the irony of the dead ex-husband, her favorite child, and the child she sent away rather than admit she was the one with the problem being the ones to shine the light on and reveal the truth behind her 'brand'.
Formerly Duped said... 17
Remember the pompous menus TFW used to show for TG? I think it's in her crookbook.The kids had paper plates though. I guess that feast didn't happen or maybe it was low-key with Jamie there. But she won't have to complain about wrapping Christmas gifts for 8- I doubt H and C are on the receiving end of her list! Her school baking will be reduced too- oh, what will she complain about.
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Jamie posted a picture of a very nice china place setting with a folded napkin and a name card for her deceased husband and wished everyone a happy Thanksgiving on her IG.
There was another china place setting in the background, but no people in the shot. So no way to tell if it was an old picture or an actual picture of Kate's table at Thanksgiving. She's just as big a game player as Kate so who knows. Maybe Jamie, Kate and Skeevie had the china place settings and the kids were banished to another table with their paper plates.
@Layla The sad part is that if jon hadn't posted any pictures of Collin,these same fans would then be asking"Why doesn't collin want to see his dad"?or"Jon doesn't see Collin or any of his kids."Now that he did,the narrative is now"He's just seeking attention or trying to show off."Its a case of damn if you do damn if you don't.Im not saying i demand to Jon post pictures to prove something but if he wanted to post a picture to show people that he does indeed see his son then go right ahead.It isn't like Jon is posting private info about what collin deals with or anything.
Thank you so Capecodmama! I made a note so hopefully I can find his future posts.
Susan1956 (22)
Kate's "brand" has expired. She played the exhausted-single-mom-of-8-who-does-it-all thing to a hilt, but she can never get those days back. The kids are older and more independent. The twins are adults and Hannah and Collin are gone. She can't whine about how exhausted and overworked she is as her number of kids at home continues to dwindle. She can't avoid real work by saying she'd pay everything to babysitters when her kids are far too old for babysitters (hence her new story about letting her nursing license lapse). There will never be a Kate Plus 8 again because she'll never have 8 kids available for filming again. The dating show is a joke, considering her age and circumstances. Time for her to just hang it up and disappear.
Jamesvader1194 (23)
If Jon hadn't posted a picture, Kate's fans would claim he didn't have Collin for Thanksgiving, and would speculate that C was with Kate, or that C didn't want to see his dad, etc. There is one picture, a message about the tree, and comments disabled. The Kate fans are just mad that they can't deny the fact that C was with Jon.
According to Radar.com the custody case is set for December 4th. I hope the press respect Jon and Collins privacy.
Andrea
I'm watching a British show on Netflix that I can recommend to anyone looking for a suspenseful, well-done production. It's from the BBC & called "Bodyguard" . The acting is superb.
Am I wrong, or has AuntieAnn gone missing again?
Sounds like Jon and Kate are set to appear in court next week over the Collin custody battle.
https://www.inquisitr.com/5180954/kate-gosselin-custody-jon-son-collin/?utm_medium=referral&utm_source=yahoo&utm_campaign=homepage
According to a November 26 report by Radar Online, Kate Gosselin is ready to fight for custody of her teenage son, and she’s not going to give up without trying to get him back under her roof.
Radar also has an article up:
https://radaronline.com/exclusives/2018/11/jon-kate-gosselin-face-off-court-custody-battle-troubled-son-collin/
Wonder if this is true. Would K8 really spend money to force Collin to return to the compound? Or just to keep him from going to Jon?
https://radaronline.com/exclusives/2018/11/jon-kate-gosselin-face-off-court-custody-battle-troubled-son-collin/
jolie (27) ... I'm still here, I'm just relaxing and enjoying the silence coming from Kamp Kate. The sound of crickets can be very soothing.
Kate doesn't post pictures of the kids very often because they're not little kids she can control anymore. Yeah, Kate is not showy. She only got rich off putting her kids on TV while Jon is just posting pictures of his children on social media like millions of other parents do.
It's a blind item but sounds so much like Kate.
https://blindgossip.com/the-shuffled-child/#more-97433
Based on a recent Blind Gossip posted today, I don’t think Jon is going to have any issues getting full custody of Collin.
This famous Mom publicly behaves as if she dotes on her children. However, behind the scenes, it’s a little different.
One of her children has some issues. She sent them to get treated. The child is not progressing as she would like. A recent visit by her did not go well.
She came to visit him. The staff observed that she was very nervous around him. They tried to encourage her to take him out to eat. She said she didn’t have the time to do that, and left within an hour. Afterwards, he was incredibly sad that she doesn’t seem to want to spend time with him. I learned that he has actually been shuffled around to several facilities in the past couple of years.
https://blindgossip.com/the-shuffled-child/#more-97433
Looking at the comments on those articles, you have to admit--people get it. Kate doesn't want Collin, she's just going through the motions to save face, plus she doesn't want Jon to win. If she is able to retain custody, Collin will be shipped off to another facility where Jon can't find him. Jon has been able to visit C and take him home. If Kate still has full custody, then how is it possible for Jon to do that without Kate's approval? Kate would never give her approval for that much contact if it was up to her. Its very telling that C was allowed to leave the facility for Thanksgiving but he wasn't with Kate. Did someone decide it would be better for him to be with Jon, or did Kate just not want to see him? The hearing is Dec 4th, and C will be able to say where he wants to go. You'd think if she really wanted to retain custody, she'd spend some time with him so he'd think she wanted him, but she didn't. Didn't even pretend that she wants him or even wants to see him. So sad.
H still has visits with Kate. I wonder if she'll take C for visitation too, or if she'll refuse to take him. Sadly, I think we already know the answer to that. His feelings mean nothing to her. I bet she still can't figure out why her show's viewers were so upset when he was sent away. She probably blames him for the show ending. She'll never forgive him for that.
Hi Auntie, thanks for checking in, you've been missed. I don't blame you for taking a break, TFW has been very boring lately.
Layla said... 34
Looking at the comments on those articles, you have to admit--people get it. Kate doesn't want Collin, she's just going through the motions to save face, plus she doesn't want Jon to win. If she is able to retain custody, Collin will be shipped off to another facility where Jon can't find him. Jon has been able to visit C and take him home. If Kate still has full custody, then how is it possible for Jon to do that without Kate's approval?
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I'm thinking he got shared legal custody and is now going for primary physical custody.
She came to visit him. The staff observed that she was very nervous around him. They tried to encourage her to take him out to eat. She said she didn’t have the time to do that, and left within an hour. Afterwards, he was incredibly sad that she doesn’t seem to want to spend time with him. I learned that he has actually been shuffled around to several facilities in the past couple of years.
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I still have a handful of folks who are insiders who are kind enough to drop me a note now again but since I don't have a good way to verify the information I don't usually post much of it. It all usually comes out sooner rather than later anyway. But what I was told is that Kate really doesn't visit this poor boy and hasn't for a long time. As in, no visits at all. It sounds like per Blind Gossip's sources she recently made some kind of effort to TRY a visit, but wasn't engaged at all. What a pathetic mother.
This is going to make asking for custody really easy, when Jon is the one actually trying to transition Collin to his home and the other parent hasn't even bothered to see her son most of the time he's been gone.
Lab puppy update. Transitioning to the US has been hard! Today is day three, and for the first time, he nudged a little squeaky toy for a bit then tentatively put it in his mouth. Didn't get the squeaker going, but what progress! I was afraid the poor little guy doesn't even understand what toys are. I can't imagine what his life was like in South Korea.
Would K8 really spend money to force Collin to return to the compound? Or just to keep him from going to Jon?
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Is this a trick question? Yes she would?
Admin (38)
Having lived in Anjongni, South Korea for a year while DH was still in the service, I can absolutely say that dogs there are not treated the way they are here, and your pup may never have had a toy--or a person--to play with before. I remember the locals being absolutely baffled by how Americans treated their dogs, taking them for walks, playing with them, giving them treats. Many houses there had dogs crammed in a tiny cages just outside the door, and those dogs were usually raised for their meat (Gaegogi), at least where we lived. Your puppy is lucky to have been brought here to a loving home. It's all new and strange to him, but he'll come around.
OMG is anyone else's back getting sore from raking?? ANy tips to make it easier?
I hope, admin, now that you are home that you are putting in your share of the raking! We ALL have to do our part to manage our forests. Let's work together! We can do this!
OMG is anyone else's back getting sore from raking?? ANy tips to make it easier?
I hope, admin, now that you are home that you are putting in your share of the raking! We ALL have to do our part to manage our forests. Let's work together! We can do this!
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Brush clearance is mandatory around here once we realized, gosh gee wilikers, simply taking care of your property keeping all the flammable crap off it and cleared away and LIVES will be saved. I'm required to clear brush from my property as is everyone else. It's saved thousands of lives.
That is one contributor to deadly fires. There are many others. The main cause is negligent power plants, but they always get a free pass somehow.
But, sure, it's funny. (It's not. They have to identify bodies by the bits of their TEETH that are left. Grow up.)
Thank you Layla, that is encouraging. I know he had a very different life there and doesn't understand the way he's being spoiled rotten here. Every little thing with him is a huge milestone, even getting him to show the tiniest bit of affection is like watching your baby take its first steps. I actually cried when he tried to play with a toy this evening. We will get there!
Admin, are you feeding Gordon homemade dog food or kibble from the store? I started out feeding Winston high quality kibble but he is allergic to something in most kibbles.
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Andrea, he's eating Taste of the Wild puppy formula and doing well on it. Food has been going so smoothly, which is a blessing because of how much he's struggled emotionally to adjust. We're already teasing him about being a little piggy.
He started off with small amounts of chicken and rice mixed in with his parasite medication, as they recommended this to help him transition from the shock of the flight and the big move here. Day two I introduced some of the Taste of the Wild kibble, and he gulped that down. Every day I slowly introduce a little more kibble and reduce the chicken and rice mixture. Today he's going to get a full 2/3 cup of kibble at each meal. He also enjoys his treats that he gets for doing things that scare him like going outside. He's such a good boy!
There is an article this morning on Yahoo that next week Kate is taking Jon to court to try and steal Collin from him. She just cannot think of what is best for her children for one minute. She didn't want Collin, she threw him away for 3 years and because he looks happy and content with Jon she is suddenly going to court to try and get him away from Jon, not because he loves Collin but because she hates Jon Bitch.
Gordon will adjust, it took Winston a few days.
Admin, will the judge take into consideration the fact that Kate deliberately kept Jon from Collin? The court ordered Kate to tell Jon where Collin was.
Andrea
Admin, will the judge take into consideration the fact that Kate deliberately kept Jon from Collin? The court ordered Kate to tell Jon where Collin was.
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The judge might consider that but regardless of what happened in the past the biggest question is what is in Collin's best interest. Who is he happy with, who can meet all his needs including his special needs, who has he successfully been transitioning home to?
Jon's got that part in the bag.
Admin - I'm sure that you know this, but if Gordon experiences tummy upset you can give him a little plain pumpkin (not pumpkin pie filling). It works wonders. I give my boy a tablespoon every day to keep him "regular and firm". I buy Fruitables which is made for dogs. He also gets two teaspoons of Noosa pumpkin yoghurt for a nigh time snack.
Kylie said...45
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The fact that Kate is fighting Jon’s motion is, I believe, simply for appearances. She has not wanted Collin ever since he was a toddler. Her diaries and even her own book “I just want you to know” confirm it. I am not saying Collin doesn’t have challenges - given his preemie status it’s very likely - but in my opinion lashing out at his mother and siblings is very understandable. What child wouldn’t be angry that they were treated as a pariah by their own mom and their siblings?
I hope Collin can heal from the years of trauma he experienced. Attachment disorders can wreck havoc on a person’s future self - self esteem, trust, relationships, the ability to care for one’s self are all impacted by early childhood trauma. Living with the parent who does want you, the sibling who treats you with respect and dignity is a step forward in that process and I’m confident Collin will be home with his family by Christmas.
Jon and Colleen - thank you for showing Alexis and Collin what good parenting looks like.
From Dmasy --
Admin, I hope you are enjoying the puppy hints and stories.
Our aging Annie gets a tablespoon of organic pumpkin with each meal. She laps it up. It seems to help with tummy upsets.
I adopted a 5-year-old Greyhound several years ago. I can relate to Gordon's puppy uncertainty.
Sam had never walked on grass. For the first few days, he high-stepped it across the lawn in the most comical way.
We had a pond and he walked straight off the end of the dock and sank like a startled rock. Water and snow and being treated kindly were unknown to him.
He never did get over his fear of a garden hose. I think he remembered being blasted with cold water.
Sam had lived in a cage that did not allow him the space to lie down. His first night with me he found a bedroom corner with a bookcase and tried to lean against the wall to fall asleep. I cried.
I suddenly realized why he stood in the hatch of my car the entire 2 hour drive to his new home. He never did learn how to lie down gently. He always sorta' just dropped like a sack of potatoes.
We gave Sam 6 years of a great life full of new experiences. You will glow every time Gordon responds to being loved and learning a new skill..
NOW Kate visits Collin?? Only after Jon files for custody? How transparent and pathetic she is.
Sam had lived in a cage that did not allow him the space to lie down. His first night with me he found a bedroom corner with a bookcase and tried to lean against the wall to fall asleep. I cried.
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Omg, Dmasy. I cried just reading that. How sad. So nice to know you showed him the love he deserved.
She didn't want Collin, she threw him away for 3 years and because he looks happy and content with Jon she is suddenly going to court to try and get him away from Jon, not because he loves Collin but because she hates Jon Bitch.
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Show of hands from anyone who is surprised.
Anyone?
Bueller?
Thought so.
Omg, Dmasy. I cried just reading that. How sad. So nice to know you showed him the love he deserved.
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Ditto. How horrible. My rescue dog has issues but has improved, and it has taken years! She is 3 now and is so affectionate whereas before she was aloof and on guard.She also has finally learned to enjoy a walk and the many sights and sounds and people/dogs who are friendly. These poor dogs- what rotten to the core souls some people have
Oops - I said Alexis but meant Hannah. I was re-reading the 2010 reports about Collin and Alexis being expelled for bullying.
We adopted our rescue pitador when he was 1 & 1/2 years old. When we got him he was so hyper and for several months he’d piddle and become very submissive anytime he met new people. He still does if it’s a large group of people. But he is the sweetest dog in the world and learned very quickly to behave with training. If it were up to me, I’d adopt more dogs but my husband feels one cat and one dog are enough.
I, too, am weeping at these dog stories. I have never met a greyhound I didn’t like. Just wonderful dogs and so grateful for attention and love. Belated congratulations on the new puppy, Admin. You are doing a wonderful thing. My rescue lived in a backyard with no toys and played with rocks and leaves. She was kicked and sprayed with a hose and still screams (seven years later) if you move your legs to fast around her. But she is happy in all other aspects. I’ve also been reading the pet rescues/reunions from the fire on the UC Davis Veterinary school Facebook page and it’s so tragic but also uplifting. For all the mean, rotten people in the world (l’m looking at you, Kate Gosselin) there are wonderful, kind people who love animals and children. I’m a weeping mess today. Sorry for the long post but there are a lot of people/animal lovers on this blog - thank you all!
Admin... Do you think a judge would seriously consider Kates bid for custody of Collin? She has shown nothing but contempt for him in the past..
From Dmasy --
Florida has banned Greyhound racing. By the end of 2020 eleven dog tracks will have closed. As many as 7,000 Greyhounds will need to be re-homed.
As JustMissy (56) said they are a sweet, calm, grateful breed.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/science/2018/11/16/florida-banned-greyhound-racing-now-what-happens-dogs/?utm_term=.5060d592c27f
The above is a link to a bleak article. The fate of those dogs is being debated and rescue organizations are being denied access.
Why?
The article has a photo of a brindle Greyhound with a muzzle. He looks just like my Sam. (Sam's racing name was Diablo. I think he must have been a beast on the track! Since he didn't recognize his original name, I have him the "friendlier" name of Sam. He was named after a Veterinarian who was a friend of mine.)
Just as Silimom (55) -- my hubby is the voice of reason in our small retirement home with a tiny yard. We are down to one 5-pound Min Pin. I think we have room for more, but....
Gordon took one look at my big yard, said, is this all for me? Then, nope too scary I don't want it!
The only time I ever didn't like my yard!
Admin... Do you think a judge would seriously consider Kates bid for custody of Collin? She has shown nothing but contempt for him in the past..
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No I do not, at all.
I hope she would consider a request for child support from Jon, on Kate. It's in Collin's best interest to get some support from her nest egg he helped build.
The wheels of justice turn slowly.
I can't get out of my head that poor poor kid, completely severed from his family for three years and the unbelievable rejection he must have been feeling. And whether he will ever be able to work through it as an adult. He must also have so much anger inside. That sociopathic woman caused it all.
Thank God for Jon and Hannah. I really hope with their love and support he can start the long road to healing. Not sure if the others with her will have that chance. I've always especially worried about Alexis.
Admin,
I had to walk Winston around the yard a few times a day when I first got him. It took time for him to get use to the yard and feel safe in it. I still have to walk him around the dog park perimeter a few times each time we visit before he feels comfortable running by himself.
Andrea
Admin,
I had to walk Winston around the yard a few times a day when I first got him. It took time for him to get use to the yard and feel safe in it. I still have to walk him around the dog park perimeter a few times each time we visit before he feels comfortable running by himself.
Andrea
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I've said "We'll get there" so many times this week that I feel like I should put it on a T-shirt!
Sam had lived in a cage that did not allow him the space to lie down. His first night with me he found a bedroom corner with a bookcase and tried to lean against the wall to fall asleep. I cried.
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Tear. I realize now Gordon is happiest when he has a nice wall along his back. Whether it's the washing machine, walls, back of the couch, he will always snuggle himself up against it.
And just yesterday, me. I became the wall. Progress.
He likes his crate a little too much, so I'm limiting that to only car time right now.
I wish I could have a glimpse of his life before to better understand him now.
Admin, Gordon's preference for walls and his crate does not surprise me. I'm remembering the tiny, walled yards most of the houses in SK had. The dogs would be crammed into a small cage right outside the door, with the house wall on one side and the wall surrounding the yard behind and to the other side of it--so walls on 3 sides of the pen. There was no room for them to play or run, and they never seemed to be let out in the tiny, grass-less yards. They are not allowed in the houses, and food is normally scraps left over from the family's meals. They are not pets in any sense of the word. Gordon is still clinging to what is familiar to him, because that's all he knows. He has to be confused and terrified, and a wall or crate gives him a feeling of security. You probably don't want to see what life was like before for him. It was crowded, dirty, little human contact. No playing, no freedom to roam or walk, no affection. Sometimes there would be dead dogs inside the cages with the others, which would stay there until one of the humans noticed--sometimes that would take days. It wasn't a pretty sight.
Layla, I'm so grateful you are explaining conditions there because I feel like the more I understand what he's used to the better I will be at helping him get used to how things are at my home! Over the many years this blog has been here, we have helped and supported each other through times like these. I myself happened to have not had too many major things I really needed a good sounding board for over those years, blessedly so. Mostly I've been on the "helpers" end as people have faced struggles or major life events. Now, it's my turn to share my journey!
This is an exercise in patience, understanding, smart choices, and above all love. Every day that passes helping Gordon I feel a sense of deep healing about the death of my dog before.
From Dmasy --
Admin said, "And just yesterday, me. I became the wall. Progress."
He must be looking at you with big brown eyes and trying to trust your voice and hands.
Since he is still so young, what you teach him should far out weigh his first few formative years.
It sounds as if he is giving you as much healing as you are giving to him.
Please keep sharing the story with us.
From Dmasy -- I meant to say formative weeks. Not years.
Admin,
I'm glad that experience has been of use. It was awful for DH and me because anywhere we went in town, we saw those dogs crammed in their tiny, filthy cages. We just wanted to go from house to house and let them all out. Gordon is young, but even as a pup, he has been affected by his early surroundings. I never once saw anyone pat or even speak to the dogs--other than yelling. Sometimes a dog escaped and was chased through the streets until caught--and then beaten bloody. It was traumatic for us to see--think of how traumatic is was for the dogs living through it. We were always told not to try to interfere with the locals' way of life--including beatings of people or animals in the street--because American troops were guests in their country. Anjongni was a pretty remote area--at least, it was when we were there in the late 80s. It may be different now, and more populated areas might be different--but that is what we saw. From the news reports about the dogs being rescued from the dog meat farms, it sounds exactly like I remember it.
I remember an adorable puppy our landlord had while we were there. The apartment building had a courtyard, and you entered by reaching under the door and pushing a button. The pup and her mother would run over to sniff our fingers when we reached under the door. They knew the smell of every tenant. Anyone who didn't belong would risk having their hand bitten. Crude security, but it worked. We adored the puppy, and would play with her and bring her treats. The landlord would get angry with us for doing that. The pup's mother didn't interact with people. These dogs weren't caged because they were working dogs. One day we came home and the puppy was gone. We asked where she was and our landlord said she'd been sold "for soup". That broke my heart.
Layla, I read similar things about NC where my dog is from! Heart-breaking. The soup business is stomach-turning.
And Admin, well-said 'Over the many years this blog has been here, we have helped and supported each other through times like these' Tucker's Mom in particular helped me with both my dogs so very much. I miss her.This blog is often where I turn for support and advice.You are all great!
From Dmasy.
Last day of November. I turned the calendar page and saw a month of Christmas activity. I wish all of you pleasant preparation and a holiday to enjoy.
It is such a beautiful time of the year.
Dmasy (#71), I never turn the calendar page until it's actually the first day of the month. Somehow it feels like I'm jinxing the new month if I jump ahead!
Formerly Duped (#70), I think about Tucker's Mom often, and hold out hope that she may return. She was a good soul.
Admin, I hope you and Gordon are continuing to bond and get to know each other and form a lifelong friendship.
Formerly Duped(70)
I'll never understand why people want to do such horrible things to animals. It warms my heart that so many of us on this blog have given loving homes to rescue dogs and shown them what it means to be loved and adored.
I'll be thinking of Golly Gee as I put together Christmas boxes this year. She always inspired us to be better people and do more for others. We miss you, GG!
Our fur babies are so dear to us. Yesterday I had to have my 18 year old cat put to sleep. She was going blind, deaf and could hardly walk from arthritis. I finally realized that I was being selfish in wanting to keep her with me, she was suffering.
This morning with tears, I put away her bowls, bed and favorite bunny. RIP my bundle of fur, I will never forget the times we cuddled on thesofa and your continuous purring.
Bluebird I'm so very, very sorry. I've been there, and I promise that it does get better.
Bluebird...Sympathies on your loss. Time makes it easier but we never forget our fur babies.
So sorry, Bluebird. You did the right thing, as hard as it was. I hope, when the time is right for you, you can welcome another cat in your life.
Bluebird, add my sympathies to the others. She had a good long life with you and you will have special memories to see you through... It's a hard time for sure,though.
Bluebird I'm so sorry you had to lose your beloved cat. We've been there & it's the only downside to owning a pet. It's hurtful to see them go downhill & need to be put out of their misery. Now if only all humans could have the same courtesy.
Bluebird, my heart goes out to you....
Bluebird - It’s sometimes so hard to do what we know is the right thing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Thank you everyone, I know everyone here knows that it's not just a cat that was lost, it's part of a family. I do have another cat JustMissy, she's roaming around the house looking for her friend. I brought the bunny out hoping it gives her comfort.
Hi bluebird. Sorry to hear about your kitty. I hate grief, it's painful.
My little tortie died in September. She was this tiny thing that stayed kitten-size for 11 years. I cried for a week. Like you, I still have her big brother HRH king Charles and we both felt lost without her. Then I started to think how happy she must be now that there are really tall trees to climb and birds to chase and whatever else they do 'over there' and gradually the sadness lifted, the king and I have grown even closer and he gets even more of the royal treatment than he's ever known, and he's loving it. How typical of him.
Time is a healer. Hugs to you, Bluebird.
Gordon had his first vet appointment today and all looks well! We still need the results of the parasite test after he finished his medication, but he has been asymptotic even though he tested positive for giardia just before he left for the USA.
He has his own instagram now, an easy way for me to document his journey and share with family and friends.
https://www.instagram.com/sea_gordon_the_rescue_pup/
Let me add my condolences for the loss of your beloved cat. We've had two who lived to similar ages so I know how hard it is to let them go.
Admin, Sea Gordon is adorable and I hope he continues to adjust to his new life and digs. My DD & DSIL adopted a 2-year old chocolate lab 6 months ago; she "failed" her show trials but all the better to be a beloved family member
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What a sweetie, thanks for posting his IG!
Um Admin, unless I'm mistaken, I think he's got a little smile on his face. What a delightful little guy!
I hope you two have many happy years together.
I read here everyday.. for years. My comment is to ADMIN: your glorious act saving your dog from a life of hell is to be commended... GOD BLESS YOU BOTH... I wish you both a lifetime of unconditional LOVE.
Um Admin, unless I'm mistaken, I think he's got a little smile on his face. What a delightful little guy!
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Deep down he knows he's been saved. Now he just needs to figure out what to do with all this abundant love and care. So many little milestones he reached this week, but so much farther to go. We will get there!
I read here everyday.. for years. My comment is to ADMIN: your glorious act saving your dog from a life of hell is to be commended... GOD BLESS YOU BOTH... I wish you both a lifetime of unconditional LOVE.
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Thank you thank you. Mazel tov to Gordon!
Deep down he knows he's been saved. Now he just needs to figure out what to do with all this abundant love and care.
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The image of Snoopy dancing on his roof just flashed across my mind. 😊
Aww, Admin. He's adorable. How old his he?
Bluebird, I am so sorry to hear about your cat. It's hard to let go, even when we know it's the kindest thing we can do for them. You did the right thing, even though it hurts.
Admin, Gordon is adorable! I love the happy face in the picture of him on his leash. And I love his name! Gordon is my father's name. Good choice.
Admin he's a honey, and I can see his smile too. Bless you for saving him and for giving him a loving home.
Admin, Gordon is adorable! I love the happy face in the picture of him on his leash. And I love his name! Gordon is my father's name. Good choice.
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It was my grandfather's name, and he died less than a month before Sea Gordon came stateside. The family is in love with him already.
Aww, Admin. He's adorable. How old his he?
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I have Korean documents for him. One paper says he was born June 10, the other says he was born July 10! Oops!
The vet said she thinks July 10, but she'll know for sure when his baby teeth come in.
Yes, my dog has a 'different' birthdate than a couple of her litter-mates. They said it was to rush adoptions from Southern kill shelters. Her vaccinations were all mixed up- she was over- immunized and we had to repeat some unfortunately
Bluebird, I am sorry for your loss. My family lost Thomas when he was 22. I grew up with him. I still remember when he found us. We were looking at dogs at the pound when I was 5. All the sudden, a little kitten ran through the dog area and climbed up my dad onto his shoulder. We knew than that he was our cat. He even put up with me dressing him in doll cloths. Still miss him but I know he is waiting for me at the other end of the rainbow bridge.
Admin, Gordon is so lucky to have you as his owner. I know he will thrive with you.
Andrea
When is the big custody case coming up
I hope the custody battle turns out in Collin's favor.
There is a custody hearing today. I hope Collin wins. He deserves to be in a loving stable home.
Andrea
Andrea (#98), thanks for sharing your sweet story about Thomas. Clearly he was a beloved member of your family.
I'm holding a good thought for Jon and C today. They've been through a difficult, painful separation, and how wonderful it would be for them to finally be together again. And if TFW was "awnest" with herself, I bet in her heart she knows her son would be better off with his dad.
That bitch never showed in court to fight for her son...
Jon has custody!!!!
She certainly doesn’t want her filthy treatment of him all over the news... this is the best way to keep it quiet... don’t even show... she didn’t want him anyway...so sad
How do you not show to fight for your son?? Just too cruel for words....he essentially has no mother...this will follow him for the rest of his life
Jon Gosselin Wins Sole Custody of Son Collin as Kate Gosselin Misses Court Appearance!!! SORRY TO POST ANONYMOUS BUT I WAS SO EXCITED ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Yay FOR COLLIN !!!!!
Well, well, who saw THIS coming?
https://radaronline.com/exclusives/2018/12/jon-gosselin-wins-custody-son-collin-ex-wife-kate-gosselin-no-show-court/
US Weekly saying Jon won custody, that TFW didn't show up.
The least kate could do is show her face when the judge strips her of custody. She really doesn’t give a shit about this boy. I hope he can recover from his mother abandoning him.
Just read that Jon won sole custody because Kate didn’t show. Can this be true? Who does that?
I think Kate not showing up in court today proves to the world that she doesn't give two hoots for poor Collin. I am so happy that he will now have the opportunity to live a happy life with his dad and sister. Just when I think I couldn't despise this woman anymore than I already do she does something like this that just confirms by disgust for her.
From Dmasy --
Radaronline chose a very unflattering photo of Kate. They must have thumbed through the Kate file for the "harshest and coldest" picture they could find.
Golly Gee would be rejoicing in this custody outcome!
The article said Temporary. Does that mean she can take him back to court at a date of her convenience to get Collin back?
Excellent news. Now for the other kids... Collin, Jon and Hannah must be thrilled
Who does that?
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Katie Irene Kreider does it, that's who. Not showing up confirms everything we've known about her. We've always said that once the show was over she'd start tossing those kids aside one by one just like she has everyone else that have served their purpose to her. Such are the ways of a narcissist. I wonder who will be next.
Congrats to Jon and Collin and to Hannah and the rest of Jon's supportive family and friends. This is a day of celebration for them.
I would have at least expected her to show her face for the PR value, even though I think it's now crystal clear she never expected or wanted him to come back to HER home. What is she thinking? If she expects to go out and promo her new show (LOL), whenever that may be, how on earth is she going to avoid what will be the single biggest question on people's minds? Or has she just tacitly acknowledged the end of her TV "career"?
Andrea, you were so lucky to have Thomas for 22 years, that's a very old cat. Like you, I'm hoping to see Taloune at the rainbow bridge
The Daily Mail is reporting that, according to US Weekly, Jon has been granted "sole physical and legal custody" of Collin once he is released, which is expected before Christmas. I can't imagine a mother not showing up to fight for her son, and then I remembered that would be Kate now that he is no longer needed for filming. Wonderful news for Jon and Hannah but especially Collin.
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"I BREATHE for my kids." Except for the ones with problems. They're expendable. She didn't even show up in court? Oh, please let this be the final flush that sends this loathsome woman away from the public eye.
I'm thrilled for Jon and C and H.
And, yes, Dmasy, GollyGee would be beside herself with joy!
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