Thursday, August 20, 2015

Josh Duggar: 'I have been the biggest hypocrite ever'

The oldest child of the Duggar clan, whose history of molesting his own siblings brought down the family's show earlier this year, is now mired in another scandal as he admits to living a 'double life' and being unfaithful to wife Anna.


Josh's statement:

"I have been the biggest hypocrite ever. While espousing faith and family values, I have secretly over the last several years been viewing pornography on the internet and this became a secret addiction and I became unfaithful to my wife.

I am so ashamed of the double life that I have been living and am grieved for the hurt, pain and disgrace my sin has caused my wife and family, and most of all Jesus and all those who profess faith in Him. 

I brought hurt and a reproach to my family, close friends and the fans of our show with my actions that happened when I was 14-15 years old, and now I have re-broken their trust. 
The last few years, while publicly stating I was fighting against immorality in our country, I was hiding my own personal failings. 

As I am learning the hard way, we have the freedom to choose to our actions, but we do not get to choose our consequences. I deeply regret all hurt I have caused so many by being such a bad example. I humbly ask for your forgiveness. Please pray for my precious wife Anna and our family during this time." 



http://www.people.com/article/josh-duggar-infidelity-pornography-addiction-statement

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FYI said...

This is pure speculation, but the one thing I noticed in the picture that Kate tweeted is that Collin is the only tup who's not wearing a backpack. Did she make him wear a white shirt and pose for the picture, even though he's not going to school with his siblings? Just so that her "traditional" back to school picture would include all 8 kids?

And what is with the coat rack by the door? Seems pretty odd to have a coat rack on the outside of the house.

TLC stinks said...

Tucker's Mom, ITA that she made darn sure Collin wore a white polo and stuck him in the back so his pants would not show. In Kate's world, it's all about coverup.

Too bad C colored her hair like mommy, but she'll figure it out that it's a hassle. At least it's blond and not purple, blue or pink.

Caroline said...

First day of school pic-- who keeps a broom and a coat rack on the porch? LOL
(Kate too lazy to park her broom in the garage? Is the coat rack fir the hired help's coats and purses?)

And the dog bed looks like it's actually USED-- it's worn down and dirty-- that's the dog's actual bed---not the new, clean ones she takes photos of in the house.
Posters here were right, those inside dog pics

I don't mind the political comments, at least posters on this blog are aware of current events! There's a lot of tv show posts I scroll by because those shows don't interest me. I did try episodes of Breaking Bad and OITNB but didn't care for them. Also watched a few minutes of Walking Dead, perhaps because it was way into series, but it was just too creepy.

Now about Josh........
There's just no words.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Has anyone else noticed that Kate's door wreaths are always off- center? Pet peeve of mine lol.


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Hehe.

She's just sloppy. Tacky. Two kids faces can't be seen in the photo, the wreaths are off center. She's like that gal who always has lipstick on their teeth and chipped nail polish. She's just not very well put together, never has been. Yet she fancies herself sort of the Martha Stewart of mommies.

A new term I saw on the internet to describe people like her I thought was really fitting and great: Country club trash.

handinhand said...

I don't post often so I'm not sure if my opinion should be tallied but I've very much enjoyed reading poster's thoughts on the candidates in the race.

I think over time, perhaps once the field is pared down, Trump will have a hard time sustaining the popularity he now enjoys. Successful campaigns are run with a more measured temperament than I think he is capable of. This is what the public finds refreshing and entertaining about him right now, but that will wear thin once the field is narrowed (perhaps even sooner) and he's required to present solid ideas and logical solutions to issues voters care about.

That said, I love what his candidacy has done for what would likely have been another PC, don't-utter-a-statement-that's-not-backed-by-an-opinion-poll type of race. He is refreshingly different and unapologetically authentic but month after month of this and the Trump novelty will wear off, people will realize he's ill-equipped for the job and his mouth will probably get him in trouble to the point where his popularity will sink just as quickly as it rose.

I think once he goes away, most of the political discussion on this site will as well.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

It sounds like instead of Mr. Duggar Goes to Washington, it was Mr. Duggar Goes to the Red Light District. He's such a pig, her brother is right.

I really don't like how he's isolated Anna up there in some cabin. She needs to be around family and friends right now. Even if she ultimately decides not to leave him, it's unhealthy not to have the support of others right now, and it's unhealthy to shut out other opinions and ideas.

TLC stinks said...

Actually I like her tradition of the first day of school yearly photos. It's a nice way to see how much they change year from year. Too bad she publishes it, though. She's such a martyr with the "prepping" comment. Sheesh. She has it pretty easy with TLC picking up the school supply tab.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...


Actually I like her tradition of the first day of school yearly photos. It's a nice way to see how much they change year from year.


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Doesn't every parent do this???

I didn't see anyone had a problem with taking a first day of school photo. It's kind of sad if you don't! It's the posting of it that's the problem.

TLC stinks said...

ITA, handinhand.

Anonymous said...

Re: Anna Duggar. What family and friends? She's a pawn between both families, and if she has friends, they are in that church circle that denigrate women. Maybe just being with her children, especially her new baby, is what she needs. Of course her a-hole cheating and lying husband is part of the mountain hideaway package. There is no out for her.

OrangeCrusher1

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

She didn't have to disclose all about Collin's problems. I never would have suspected a thing, what with him still in the polo. I would have thought nothing of him having no backpack. I would have assumed it's just resting at his feet or something.

There was just no good reason to talk about that.

Tucker's Mom said...


I really don't like how he's isolated Anna up there in some cabin. She needs to be around family and friends right now. Even if she ultimately decides not to leave him, it's unhealthy not to have the support of others right now, and it's unhealthy to shut out other opinions and ideas.
*******
Hallmark sign of an abuser.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I don't think Anna's family has made her a pawn. I think her parents believe what they believe. I think she has a sibling or two who are not living in outer space, are still religious, but recognize a pig when they see one.

I think she desperately needs to speak with those siblings right now. They have known her since she was a child, they love her, they love her children, and they want what's best for her. She should hear them out. Cutting them off accomplishes nothing. I don't get the sense her brother is playing games. I get the sense he loves his sister deeply and is desperate to get her out of a TOXIC situation.

Caroline said...

Sorry, part of my earlier comment disappeared. :)

Do you think the cabin is actually the foreclosure Josh and Anna purchased?
I thought it also funny that the picture of Michelle looking out her front diir shows her holding a pink iphone. It's funny how this sheltered ITA family, who supposedly shuns the outside world, is more plugged into social media than the worldly mediocre masses!

Wasn't it reported that Josh created the fake facebook account YEARS before he married? If so, he did that under JB's roof.
What a trainwreck this family is. It's worse than I ever imagined.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Also I really have to disagree she should just be with the kids right now. The kids are like two and four and infants. They are of no help.

This is an adult problem. She needs to talk to adults about it. Family, friends, a therapist.

She should not be apart from her children at all, but she also shouldn't rely on a four year old for emotional support or to get her through something like this. That's not healthy for her OR the child.

The kids might even unduly influence her. I'm sure they love their dad, probably have no idea about any of this, and she might be influenced by a four year old saying she misses daddy or just wants to be with daddy. She could easily, having just had a baby, be emotionally manipulated by that and feel like well I can't hurt my child by leaving him.

She needs an adult, a professional, to help her understand that even if she decides to divorce him and even if that will be sad for the kids, it's probably better for the kids in the long run than staying with a pedophile and sexual deviant. It's a case of doing something painful now will avoid great pain, and even danger, in the future.

Localyocul said...

Why isn't Shoka facing the camera?

NJGal51 said...

Kate is a Twit - I noticed everything that you did. LOL, great minds and all that. I'm glad that she included Collin in the picture but if he's going to public school (we don't really know this though) he probably doesn't start until either next week or the day after Labor Day.

I won't say anything about Cara coloring her hair at her age because I started putting streaks in my hair (Sun In & Lemon Go Lightly) right around the same age. We were on the beach every day but sill needed to help the sun out a bit. Tat being said, my natural color is a darker blonde so it wasn't too bad. Cara's will be a lot of work becasue in order to go from dark to light they had to strip out all of her natural color, put a new color on and then a drabber or some sort so it doesn't become brassy. Not the best choice but her choice so who cares.

Sue_Buddy said...

I believe the #MissEm in Kate's tweet is "miss them." And yes, the tweets back to Kate after she posted the pic are few. I don't think Milo being gone has anything to do with it though. People are moving on.

Regarding the political discussions, or any others, if I'm not interested or I'm getting annoyed, I use my option to scroll instead of trying to dictate to others what they should and should not discuss. If it's a particularly boring day on the blog, I go elsewhere.

Formerly Duped said...

I thought I saw that Mady's hair was colored in one of those tweet pics from someone who recognized the kids when they were with Jon? Maybe it's a temporary dye. I think dye at their age is a little young and does not suit them, although I know teens like to experiment.

lol ...Did not notice the coat-rack at first- that's pretty odd, all right, Caroline.

One of these things is not like the other..." -from Sesame St.

fidosmommy said...

Admin, I saw the cropped picture of the kids too, but when I tapped it for a closeup, the whole picture showed up. 8 Little Faces, all whole!

handinhand said...

And why is Collin in this picture, dressed the same as the other boys? Kate said there were other school plans for him, have things changed?
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You know Kate.

She always buys the boy's clothes 3 sizes too big so new school or no new school, that child has 2 more good years to get out of those outfits dammit.

P.J. said...

Re the school photo, is C dressed in a white shirt so that he feels like part of the group or so she can pretend everything is fine, nothing to see here?

I know where I fall on that question.

P.J. said...

So, C isn't wearing a backpack? Maybe he set it down? Wouldn't his new school have things that need to be carried? He's likely not starting back today, but she needed him to complete the six-pack for the photo.

I'm glad he's included, but I suspect the motives from her.

P.J. said...

Horrific shooting of reporter and camerman on Live TV. Both victims are dead. Cops are in pursuit. Heard gunman filmed the shooting and posted it on his facebook.

http://www.cnn.com/2015/08/26/us/virginia-shooting-wdbj/index.html

MikeB said...

I personally think Cara's hair color is OK. At least she didn't go totally bleach-blonde like Kate. What I think is a little off about her in the picture is her smile. In the other pictures I've seen of her she is smiling broadly. Her smile in this picture looks forced and unauthentic.

P.J. said...

Shooter is former reporter.

Jane said...

Sue_Buddy said... 20
I believe the #MissEm in Kate's tweet is "miss them." And yes, the tweets back to Kate after she posted the pic are few. I don't think Milo being gone has anything to do with it though. People are moving on.

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You may be right about the #MissEm. We haven't heard much from Emily since the mess when she was DMing with non-fans. At least I think it was non-fans. Who can keep this all straight?

fidosmommy said...

The thing about the school picture is that it's SO OBVIOUS that Collin has been stuck in the back for some reason. The front row clearly has a place for him, the logical place for the 6th member of the 6-pack.

AuntieAnn said...

Has anyone else noticed that Kate's door wreaths are always off- center? Pet peeve of mine lol.

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ha. The lantern by the broom is crooked too. I don't think Kate pays a lot of attention to details like that. Better Homes and Gardens photographer she's not, but then again she's shilling her kids not her photography skills.

JoyinVirginia said...

This is awful news about the news reporter and cameraman murdered. I used to live in Roanoke many years ago. Lovely, friendly place. Smith Mountain Lake is in lovely country surroundings. Even the governor is on the news talking about law enforcement efforts. State police and probably every law enforcement officer available are looking for this murderer.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...


Admin, I saw the cropped picture of the kids too, but when I tapped it for a closeup, the whole picture showed up. 8 Little Faces, all whole!


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No, what I mean is that she positioned the kids so that two of the children have their faces partially blocked by a sibling.

Photography 101. Everyone's faces need to be in plain view. Simply asking the kid blocking another kid to move one inch would solve it. Simple.

One of the girls, you can only see half her face because of a sibling in front of her!

Formerly Duped said...

Yes, AuntieAnn, the lantern is really wonky!

The kids generally look the same to me- Hannah must be growing her hair again- remember the fit Kate pitched when she wanted it cut? I gather she's still with Kate- no custody win for Jon as far as we know. I don't think Cara really smiles widely unless forced like in that photo shoot on the special- then it fell off her face.Oh well, I guess Kate can go back to bed after she dumps the kids off- unless she's 'stuck' with Collin if his school has not yet started- or he can go and work for Forrest.

AuntieAnn said...

P.J. said... 161

But I don't expect this blog to follow my every whim. It's not my blog. I'm free to come and go as I please.

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My 'sediments' too. Unless there is an exam later on, and I don't think there is, it's not mandatory to read every comment nor participate in every discussion. Different strokes.

(and lol @ yours and Flimsy's 179 comment -- even though I'm deeply embarrassed by it ;-)

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

There's video the shooter himself took as he shot that beautiful reporter. Besides that there is video from the station's camera although you can't see as much.

Please try to avoid both of them if you don't want to see this.

AuntieAnn said...

Please try to avoid both of them if you don't want to see this.

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OMG. I went to the link but didn't have the courage to watch. Horrifying news this morning.

P.J. said...

Shooter dead, shooter not quite dead. Apparently he has a pulse. I suspect he won't live long. Self-inflicted.
I contacted youtube and requested they take the video down. Nobody needs to see that except law enforcement.

JM said...

Regarding the shooting of the news station people, the state police now report the shooter killed himself on I-66 in Faquier County, Virginia (northern Virginia).

P.J. said...

AuntieAnn said...

(and lol @ yours and Flimsy's 179 comment -- even though I'm deeply embarrassed by it ;-)

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Let's see if I can remember everything my kids used to say.

He who observed it served it.

He who detected it ejected it.

Whoever did the rhyme did the crime.

Whoever smelt it dealt it.

The one who speaks is the one who reeks.

JoyinVirginia said...

Local news station reporting murderer shot himself when cornered by police on interstate, but he is not deceased.

Jane said...

InTouch is reporting that Josh Duggar is entering rehab

http://www.intouchweekly.com/posts/josh-duggar-rehab-68188

P.J. said...

Jane said... 42
InTouch is reporting that Josh Duggar is entering rehab

http://www.intouchweekly.com/posts/josh-duggar-rehab-68188

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What's he going to do, build a whole village? (snark)

localyocul said...

JM said... 39
Regarding the shooting of the news station people, the state police now report the shooter killed himself on I-66 in Faquier County, Virginia (northern Virginia).

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Now they're saying he's alive and in critical condition

localyocul said...

"In Touch has learned exclusively it is a faith-based rehab." Great. More house-building?

Anonymous said...

I did not mean to imply that Anna should be looking to her young children for emotional support, but rather since she has just had a baby, she may simply want to cocoon right now. If Josh is indeed entering rehab, then even better for her. As for her siblings, who knows what her relationship with them is, and if they are really the support system she needs. Frankly, IMO, her brother has been saying some pretty raw things about her husband to the media. How does that help her. I suspect that he, like Cousin Amy, may have a need for media attention. I just hope she gets some help, think it unlikely given who surrounds her.

OrangeCrusher1

FYI said...

Jane said... 42
InTouch is reporting that Josh Duggar is entering rehab

http://www.intouchweekly.com/posts/josh-duggar-rehab-68188
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The Duggars posted the following on their website:

Duggar Family Statement
August 26, 2015

We are so thankful for the outpouring of love, care and prayers for our family during this most difficult situation with Josh. As parents we are so deeply grieved by our son’s decisions and actions. His wrong choices have deeply hurt his precious wife and children and have negatively affected so many others. He has also brought great insult to the values and faith we hold dear. Yesterday Josh checked himself into a long-term treatment center. For him it will be a long journey toward wholeness and recovery. We pray that in this he comes to complete repentance and sincere change. In the meantime, we will be offering our love, care and devoted support to Anna and our grandchildren as she also receives counsel and help for her own heart and future. During this time we continue to look to God—He is our rock and comfort. We ask for your continued prayers for our entire family.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Her brother is acting like any good brother would when they find out the man they have entrusted to honor and take care of their sister has spit in her face.

Yes he's raw, he's angry, but the emotions are real. I would expect any brother to act the same. If a brother is not angry about something like this, then you're not really feeling that natural protective instinct to your sister, and that's odd. Her dad sure isn't protecting her.

Rehab is a very good thing, if only to get him out of that house and away from her. There's no way she can really think with him hovering over her. This is the best chance yet she has of making a different choice for her life, if ever there was one.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Momma and Daddy again speaking for him.

Why doesn't JOSH let the public know that he's decided to enter rehab to repent? He's not a 12 year old.

Anonymous said...

The In Touch article states that he has entered faith-based rehab, his primary issue being sex addiction. The porn star says he has dark secrets and became violent during two of their encounters.

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