Wednesday, February 15, 2012

'We like to be horrified by 19 Kids and Counting, but not like that'

You can call us pro-life: An unborn child is a life that has a right not to be exploited




The new season of 19 Kids and Counting promises to deliver lots of highs: tree planting, baby names, corn maize, music. And some incredible lows--the miscarriage of the Duggar's twentieth child. 


Last night's season premiere featured Ma and Pa Duggar worried when the doctor couldn't find their baby's heartbeat. False alarm--she finally found it. But the doomed pregnancy, according to previews, will be chronicled in its entirety, including the moment when they find out the horrible news, followed by the baby's funeral. American's latest most exploited family has lost all sense of decency and boundaries. Wrote entertainment writer and recapper Richard Lawson, "We like to be horrified by 19 Kids and Counting, but not like that." Lawson went on to write:
"The producers presumably had discussions about how to best handle this situation, and it seems they've chosen the most sensationalistic way rather than the most sensitive. The cruelty alone of the show title ending with '...and Counting' is enough to make you cringe. But to then stage a nervous yet ultimately happy doctor's visit at the end of the first episode, as if the season is looking toward new promise, when of course it's not, feels a bit beyond the pale. It feels like they're trying to trick viewers who aren't aware of what happened, hook 'em in with hope and them slam 'em down with a twist at the end."







In other news, Michelle Duggar told Today this morning, "We would be open to more if God saw fit to bless us with more."

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Unknown said...

Eh, for a normal parent, I'd say yeah, the ham and swiss sandwiches were a bit much. But we're talking about Kate, and we've seen how she short-rations those kids. Eat up, kiddies, 'cause when your momma doesn't think she has something to prove anymore, it will be back to four grapes and a cracker.

Anonymous said...

Even if some of the Duggar children leave, it's possible that they will live the rest of their lives engrained with ATI/Gothard teachings. I only say this because I have experience with it.

I can't imagine that none of the kids don't feel you know that, "middle child" affect. In a family that large surely with siblings taking care of siblings someone might feel overlooked.

Ex Nurse said...

Kate's blog "….being a mom. Period. It’s all I ever wanted…..and I am content…
…….now that is L❤VE"

Hilarious--❤h, wait--you were seri❤s? Because, y❤u kn❤w, y❤u  c❤uld just c❤ast ❤n the mega-bucks y❤u  "earned" while exp❤sing every sad m❤ment of y❤ur children's early years--s❤rry, I mean when the kids wandered int❤ the camera frame. Really content pe❤ple, as a rule, d❤n't feel the need t❤ ann❤unce it t❤ the "w❤rld"!

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Remember that retweet she did where an enabler sheeple tweeted something like Jon ruined the family but Kate healed it? Yeah, that was deserving of a retweet. She is outrageous. On what planet don't you either ignore that, or kindly tell them it's not appropriate to bash the father of her children, you know that sperm donor that submitted half their DNA they love so much and for that lone deserves respect.

Mom In Lancaster County said...

Octomom was in town today, promoting Pillow Fight Championships. I wonder who is watching the kids. Lady Gaga is here again, too, without the paps and without an entourage. Could it be a stop-over en route to Whitney's funeral on Saturday in Newark?

Paper Plates Forever! Yay! said...

I was thinking.....suppose Kate does fade into oblivion in a couple of years. Suppose she comes to terms with that. Unfortunately, she will never have privacy. Ever. People will always want to know what is going on with those kids. It is very sad to think that they will never have privacy in their lives. She will one day rue the day she ever sold their souls to TLC. I have always thought this will never turn out the way she wants. There will always be someone out there who wants to know what these kids are doing when they are 14, 15, whatever. They are far too young and are still under Kate's spell right now to know any different. I feel so sad for them that they will have the watchful eye of the public on them their ENTIRE lives. It is way too much pressure for any human being to handle. Wait until they start surfing the web. She thinks she is being so smart keeping them away from it and controlling their every move. She must lay in bed at night worrying about that day when they start questioning her motives. Way to go, selfish, greedy Katie Kreider.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Oh by the way in Jaycee Lee Duggard's book it's shocking the sheer amount of contact she had with the outside world in the last several years of her captivity before someone thought something seemed off.

Because of her sheer fear of what he would do to her or her children if she tried to escape, she didn't.

You know what she said about this? In addition to feeling very betrayed and let down by the parole workers, she also said if something doesn't seem right to you about a kid you see, or seems off SPEAK UP! Don't just let it go, say something, do something. That's exactly how she said it to, very firmly like that-- I am listening to the book on CD on my commute and it's read by herself. It's nice to hear her story in her own voice.

PJ's momma said...

Ex Nurse, that must have been extremely hard and exhausting to do, but it was awesome!

ncgirl said...

"Is it Josh? Josh has been working since he was a child and continues to work on a show that has been for the mot part wildly successful.

From what I understand, Josh's business is owned by his father, and his house is owned by his grandmother. I've always wondered how the money is handled especially when there are adult children. I assume Josh started getting his own money when he moved out to live with his wife. As it has been said, just because the Duggars are nice doesn't mean they can be free of criticism.

Kate is a twit said...

The fan who asked Kate if you had to give her gifts to get a retweet, and got that reply from Kate, had originally tweeted Kate asking for a retweet for her daughter's 4th birthday. Of course, right after Big Fan started her spiel about having to give Kate a Starbucks gift card to get a RT. That is why she asked the question. After Kate replied, this fan later tweeted:

mtnsunshine12
@Kateplusmy8 I tweeted and asked u to rt for my little girls 4th birthday .. No rt .. I was sent like 10 msg saying that u won't rt unless

mtnsunshine12
@Kateplusmy8 u were gifted .. I am huge fan and I love the show .. It was just an honest question



I'm sure Kate made this fan feel like crap. Kate basically told her that her daughter wasn't deserving of a birthday tweet.

Way to go, Kate.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

. I assume Josh started getting his own money when he moved out to live with his wife. As it has been said, just because the Duggars are nice doesn't mean they can be free of criticism.

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Josh is an adult and can protect himself, however, it sounds to me like he did not get his fair share of what he made as a child when he couldn't protect himself. I don't understand why any adult who has worked so much of their childhood claims to be struggling financially. Well, I understand how this happens, but it's shameful. How much money has TLC made off the Duggars and how can they feel good about filming episodes about Josh struggling when they know fell well how much Josh has worked FOR them? I don't see that Josh has squandered his money. He lives in a small house and works a normal job. What happened was either TLC never paid him adequately, or his parents never gave him his fair cut. Or both. Both are horrible. Of those 19 kids they're not all going to be robots, someone at some point is going to speak up. One of them is going to realize wait a minute I've worked my childhood away why am I struggling to push broken down cars?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I checked IMDB and I was shocked by this. The first TLC Duggar special was NINE years ago. Josh Duggar has been working since he was 14 years old. Where is this young man's money??? Why is he not set for life? Any actor who works for nine years would be living high on the hog if they were careful enough.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Yes but didn't we predict that Kate and only Kate would be responsible for turning the fans to non-fans? Perfect example, telling a fan only deserving tweets get retweeted when the poor thing just wants a birthday tweet for her daughter.

There's nothing more we can say to convince the fans this woman is a vile witch. Kate will have to do it herself, and she has. Twitter was the worst thing to ever happen to her.

Kate is a twit said...

Admin #10

I totally agree. Kate is digging her own grave, although very slowly, she is still digging it.

And it also says a lot for her fans, who seem to have no problem with Kate tweeting to them, rather than giving her daughters her undivided attention while playing a game with them.

Plus what does that say to Mady and Cara?

Call Me Crazy said...

Please forgive me for interrupting the turmoil of the day here, but I have a very serious special request for prayers and positive thoughts from everyone here (including those who have come here to just stir up trouble).

This morning in Chesterfield, NJ, a school bus was hit by a dump truck causing it to slam into a telephone pole. One precious 11-year-old girl was killed, and her two sisters (yes, triplets) were airlifted to the hospital where they remain in critical condition. Their father is a New Jersey state trooper. Another 11-year-old boy is also in critical condition. Other children were seriously injured.

Please keep these families in your prayers (if you pray), or send positive thoughts to help them handle their grief.

Tragedies like this should remind everyone, despite our ideological differences, of what is really important. Every single child deserves unconditional love, respect and attention. Every single second we have with our children is a gift.

Thanks, everyone. I wish you peace.

Ex Nurse said...

PJs M❤mma said 5......

Ex Nurse, that must have been extremely hard and exhausting to do, but it was awesome!
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And, s❤ w❤rth it! A rare treat to c❤mbine my l❤athing f❤r Kate, and my l❤ve of stupid symbology and empty gestures!

Grifter Overboard said...

Kate...twit said,

Of course, right after Big Fan started her spiel about having to give Kate a Starbucks gift card to get a RT. That is why she asked the question.

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I guess it was the anti-Kate personality that popped up today. BigFan won't let go with this Starbucks gifting thing. It's like a tape that plays over and over again.

Did Kate ever tweet or re-tweet this girl on her birthday, or just dismiss her as not being deserving of a tweet?

Cammie said...

I wasn't sure when I posted before if it was ok to put up other websites or blogs. The site that has researched the Duggars is freejinger . It now has expanded to discuss other families like the Duggars as well as religion in general. There are people who have met the Duggars, there are ATI/quiverful(some are active & inactive which leads to livey discussions). A few weeks ago someone dug up some of Josh's tax records from the carlot. Then the age old question "Does JimBob used the house tax free since they home church and he is legal pastor" came up. They actually do not but he had a 4.5 million lean(ironic for those that are debt free) that he paid off last year in a lump sum. Lots of money transfering, cars, homes, and land. Remember the show is NOT about money to the Duggars it is a ministry for them(Im sure the money has helped but they want to spread the word more then anything).

Josh does not own that house. It is his grandmother's house. Grandma also owns Amy's mom's house. If you check out Josh's instagram he has only worked 1 day in the last 6 weeks. The family has been touring with the Santorum campaign. Josh instagram is upsetting to alot of people (it is more like a 14 year old boy getting his first taste of freedom) lots of bragging, pictures of food(he literally eats out once a day fast food), worst is the jokes about handicapped kids. Anna's family has had 2 kids leave ATI lifestyle and they are shunned. Her one sister who left the lifestyle Suze was not allowed to come to her baby shower last year. It was sad how her sister who is leading a decent christain lifestyle(but has a job & wears jeans) was shunned. It is a clear message though leave the lifestyle, lose your family. There is a very interesting blog razingruth that is a girl who left ATI/quiverful family she was from AR as well and had to basically escape & about her having to "learn to live in the real world", she had been so sheltered & the ATI education is so lacking.

I used to think the Duugars were saints compared to Kate. I studied about religion years ago as an undergrad and got stucked into to reading all the stories of people leading the same lifestyle as the Duggars on freejinger. I now can't believe how sugar coated TLC has made the Duggars. Luckily people have screenshots of old Duggar website. They openly endorsed the controversial Pearls until recently(Josh & Anna still have a link on there website and Michael is being blanket trained in a recent video on the TLC extras video clips). There is so much to bring up but if anyone is interested that site has all the info, like 5,000 threads.

Grifter Overboard said...

Crazy said,

Tragedies like this should remind everyone, despite our ideological differences, of what is really important. Every single child deserves unconditional love, respect and attention. Every single second we have with our children is a gift.

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...and nothing with our children should ever be taken for granted.

I saw a photo of this accident on the internet. I didn't read the story - it was just too painful. Prayers going out for them. I hope the other children will pull through. What a tragedy.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Oh for God sake. Now Taylor Armstrong claims that Russell made her take a polygraph regarding whether he is cheating. Just when it couldn't get any more unbelievable. Her jaw went from broken to popped out of the socket. Even Camille Grammar was like....wait didn't you say it was broken?

No one believes more in supporting women in DV relationships than me, but this woman is a LIAR, I'll say it.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Cammie there is no problem with posting other web site links unless you're posting a link to trash that site. (Rule 4)

Thanks Cammie for the link said...

The Duggar's act like the Amish. If you leave that religion they shun you its so stupid.

Tamara said...

She only did the madlibs with the twins to be able to take a photo and show it on twitter. This is what her photoshoots have come to. People magazine? Nope. Good Housekeepig? Nope. Blurry (I'm guessing from what you've said about her previous twitpics), and no one will pay her for it. I wonder if the twins knew it was a do-it-for-the-pic activity, or were lured in. Second thought seems worse...

Tamara said...

Cammie, thank you for your post and the links. Horrible, scary, yet fascinating stuff. Especially with the Republican primaries. I'd like to put in a request for a post about where the Duggar kids' money has gone.

night shifter said...

...the newest iteration of that is this argument that by simply discussing and pointing out her continued exploitation of the kids, we are also an active part of it... Which, of course, is illogical bullshit...
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If I detest Kate and all she stands for, including her allowing cameras to film her children's every move BUT also feel that I am also guilty (to a lesser degree of course) by looking at pictures of these same kids in pics she posts...makes me an illogical thinker?

IMO, the fact that I can recognize that my behaviour is akin to re-exploitation of these precious children reassures me that I have some self insight.

And I can at least be honest with myself. Do any of you feel these pangs of guilt when ogling pics of the kids that Kate posts? It's a conundrum for me. I can't be the only one, can I?

night shifter said...

"….being a mom. Period. It’s all I ever wanted…..and I am content."

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Sounds to me like someone is trying really hard to convince herself of that now that she finally understands the lavish trips are O.V.E.R.

Maggie said...

Kate's "Love Is" blog is once again dissing her boys. She names each of her 5 girls by name. But when it comes to her boys, she writes, "having three boys who, by nature, know how to help their mom around the house. They NEVER complain about feeding the chickens or taking the trash out…and help SO much!" It makes me so mad. Alexis got named for kissing the dog. Leah and Hannah got named for asking Kate how they can help her. But she can't bother to name her boys. It is so biased. And of course, the boys do the grunt work...feeding the chickens and the dog. She doesn't even call them "my boys" instead she writes, "having three boys". She really does favor the girls and I think Kate doesn't even realize her favoritism. Way to go Kate.

Gosselin8ComeFirst said...

Call Me Crazy said... 11
Please forgive me for interrupting the turmoil of the day here, but I have a very serious special request for prayers and positive thoughts from everyone here (including those who have come here to just stir up trouble).

This morning in Chesterfield, NJ, a school bus was hit by a dump truck causing it to slam into a telephone pole. One precious 11-year-old girl was killed, and her two sisters (yes, triplets) were airlifted to the hospital where they remain in critical condition. Their father is a New Jersey state trooper. Another 11-year-old boy is also in critical condition. Other children were seriously injured.------------

My prayers go out to the Tezsla family and other families with kids injured in this accident.

Gosselin8ComeFirst said...

Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 15
Oh for God sake. Now Taylor Armstrong claims that Russell made her take a polygraph regarding whether he is cheating. Just when it couldn't get any more unbelievable. Her jaw went from broken to popped out of the socket. Even Camille Grammar was like....wait didn't you say it was broken?

No one believes more in supporting women in DV relationships than me, but this woman is a LIAR, I'll say it. ---------------

I agree. Taylor Armstrong is a sociopath
and milking her husband's death for attention and money. She can't keep her stories straight and I was glad when Brandi called her on writing her book "in a hot minute" after her husband's suicide. Her book basically demonizes Russell, yet she claims all she cares about is her daughter Kennedy. I do feel sorry for her daughter. Taylor is one twisted, selfish, fame seeker, at best. Shameful, at best.

Tess said...

Cammie - that was a great synopsis. Anyone who takes the time to research the reality behind the sanitized "brand" TLC is presenting will be quite shocked. The support of the Pearl's methods is particularly disturbing. Blanket training, infant abuse and the recommendation to buy 1/4 inch plumbing line to hit the kids with will turn your stomach. I hate the moniker "reality tv". Child exploitation wrapped up in a pretty bow is still exploitation. I just feel so bad for all of the kids who will have to deal with this forever.
If an adult wants to "cozy" up to his car and tell it to the world, hey... have at it, but, the kids, leave them out of it! I've felt this way since the nanny shows and wife swap - even if it is only a one time appearance, what kid would want those kinds of private upsets out there forever? This whole genre can not go away fast enough for me.

TLC stinks said...

What's up with the bedtime announcement every night? Lame attempt to prove how tired she is raising the kids by herself? She is not unique when it comes bedtime when you have kids who are early risers.

As far as the pot pies go, I bet they were baked in a muffin pan with each child getting only one :)

Warmth Of The Sun said...

kateplusmy8
...a lovely revelation from my kids amaz dentist:all 6 need 2c @readingorthodontics Um,life is abt2get REAL crazy Omg! Dr Nat,here we come!

Grifting again? Why not just say that the kids have to see an orthodontist? Why put the name of the orthodonstics in a tweet? On second thought, why even mention it at all? Isn't anything private for these children?

FL Mama said...

Reading Orthodontics isn't even on twitter, but she has to put it out there just in case they realize that such a huge star is mentioning them! Seriously, I feel sorry for her actually. 6 kids in braces at the same time equals BIG bucks. I put three in them, and it cost me almost $20,000 when all was said and done. I pity the child who loses a retainer in that house!!

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

And I can at least be honest with myself. Do any of you feel these pangs of guilt when ogling pics of the kids that Kate posts? It's a conundrum for me. I can't be the only one, can I?

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No, since I don't "ogle" at photos of the kids she posts, nor seek them out, nor post them here anymore. Most people here don't want to see these kids--we want them to just be able to live their lives. But when Kate shoves them down people's throats yes we comment about it. This is, as has been said over and over, not exploitation. If you're actively seeking them out just to ogle and not for the purpose of criticism of what she is doing to them, then I can see how you might feel guilty. Yes, that's wrong.

aggiemom09121416 said...

"….being a mom. Period. It’s all I ever wanted…..and I am content."

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Sounds to me like someone is trying really hard to convince herself of that now that she finally understands the lavish trips are O.V.E.R.
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My take on what she said was, that she used Jon to get what "SHE wanted'..she never wanted a husband, only kids. That is further proven with stories documenting, that even as a young teenager, she read books on multiples.

Kate has some serious emotional issues.
As for her trying to put the specific orth office on twitter? Who talks like that, other than a someone looking for a handout?

wayward said...

Where is Gosselin Give Back? said... 3
"She will one day rue the day she ever sold their souls to TLC. I have always thought this will never turn out the way she wants. There will always be someone out there who wants to know what these kids are doing when they are 14, 15, whatever. They are far too young and are still under Kate's spell right now to know any different. I feel so sad for them that they will have the watchful eye of the public on them their ENTIRE lives. It is way too much pressure for any human being to handle. Wait until they start surfing the web. She thinks she is being so smart keeping them away from it and controlling their every move. She must lay in bed at night worrying about that day when they start questioning her motives. Way to go, selfish, greedy Katie Kreider."
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Sadly, Kate's narcissisim prevents her from regretting anything. This fame has cost her her relationship with extended family, her friends, her marriage, 2 children were expelled from Kindergarten and an editor for the show is an alleged child pornagrapher. If TLC called her today and said they wanted to film the show again she'd say yes in a red hot minute. She only cares about money, not the fallout from getting it.

Unless she comes to terms with her condition and receives some intense therapy, she will be this way for the rest of her life. She will never regret selling her kids out because it gave the fame & fortune she has always felt she was entitled to. It sounds like she didn't grow up poor, but with three other siblings, money was probably tight. She exudes resentment of her childhood and has stated many times how important she thinks it is for her kids to live in that konpound.

I think she is going to spend the rest of her life being bitter and angry that her television career ended. Her narcissism has prevented her from accepting the constructive criticisim she surely has been given over the years as to how to be a more likable personality. She likes herself just the way she is and if I had to guess, I bet she thinks that celebrities who are relatable, generous, easygoing and kind to everyone (even the mediocre makeup person) are chumps.

As far as her obsessive control issues, we all know this is not going to work with pre-teens and teens. My 3 boys range from 13 to almost 19. When I hear stories about kids from their school who have gotten in trouble, it is almost always the kids of parents who have told me at one time or another how super strict they are. Without fail, these lockdown type rules always result in kids sneaking out windows, lying about who they are with & where they are and gravitating towards dating a "bad" girl or boy. In my own family, I have a cousin my age whom my aunt ruled & regulated to no end. Her attempts to mold my cousin into a perfect preppy, cheerleading princess resulted in a brooding, black wearing, heavily pierced recluse, who to this day is a very troubled adult. Appearances were/are very important to my aunt and the more she nagged my cousin to look a certain way, the more purple or green my cousin's hair became and two more body parts got pierced. We all know Kate is obsessed with appearance and perfection. The food control is an alarming sign. I have grave concerns for the kids teen years and hope the eight make it out ok with the help of their father and each other.

aggiemom09121416 said...

Another thought...she can't afford socks, yet she can afford 6 kids in braces AT THE SAME TIME..personally, I don't think braces on kids that young serves it's purpose..most of these kids have to have braces again later during their early teenage years.
It may also stem from her being unable to have braces of her own until she married jon (which, i am sure, her father-in-law provided free of charge).
Perhaps her fans can contribute to an account to pay for all these braces.....the same fans who probably can't afford it for their own children.
I really can't understand how her fans spend their money on their queen's children, while that money would be better spend on their own..how about putting that money in a college fun for their own kids? Those same fans need to ask themselves a simple question...if THEY were in need, would Kate help THEM? (uh...nope)

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I had that same question, why are they getting braces so young? All six of them?

I remember my dentist saying it was best to wait until most of the major baby teeth had fallen out before braces. Around 11-12 or so.

Kate doesn't rate said...

Kate hasn't said all six need braces or that they need them right now. She only tweeted the six need to see the orthodontist.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Yes but you see the orthodontist for braces.....or teeth correction, or whatever you want to call it. Why else do you see them but to consult about teeth movement?

I never noticed their teeth were that bad. I think she's exaggerating for maximumsympathy grifting. Maybe one or two need to see them to consult about future dental work.

Permanent Name said...

There is something called 'early intervention orthodontics' where treatment is started as early as age 7.

Usually it's just a retainer type appliance to help shape/enlarge/space the growing teeth in the jaw.

Sometimes it involves the early pulling of baby teeth to allow space for the adult teeth to come in.

In some/many cases, this early intervention treatment means the kids don't have to have braces later, or if they do the length of time in braces is lessened.

Our son had this early intervention. Two baby teeth were pulled at age 7, a retainer was worn at night and when he got braces at age 11 he only had to wear them for 11 months.

My thought - kart having all 6 plus didn't one of the twins also have orthodontics - that's going to pinch her pocketbook!

FL Mama said...

They probably need to go for a consultation to lay out a treatment plan for the future, unless they have an issue like a crossbite (which my eldest had) where one or more of the lower teeth are in front of an upper tooth. This needs to be corrected because it can damage the enamel. My kids started wearing braces in middle school and were out of them by the time they entered high school or in their freshman year.

Out And About In Berks County PA said...

The Duggar's act like the Amish. If you leave that religion they shun you its so stupid.

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The Amish have their rumspringa, or running around, a time during adolescence (usually at 16) when they are free to explore the world, adapt to new social situations, and even leave their community. They either come back into the church for baptism, or leave the church, deciding not to live as Amish. It's their way of life, their custom, their tradition, but it is not observed by all of the Amish sects.

I'm not even sure that the Duggars allow that.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Guess Kate should have thought about six braces for six kids at the same time before she got pregnant with multiples.

If early intervention really works to prevent future braces that could be a huge money saving thing.

It is annoying--dental work is her problem, not ours or her sheeples'. She had six kids. Stop grifting from good people who will struggle to put braces on their own children. Have some shame and take care of your OWN DANG KIDS.

Kate doesn't rate said...

I'm just saying the kids aren't getting their braces NOW. They are visiting the orthodontist. My kids saw an orthodontist way before they got their braces.

Out And About In Berks County PA said...

Another thought...she can't afford socks, yet she can afford 6 kids in braces AT THE SAME TIME..

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I would think that she has dental insurance - I can't imagine that she wouldn't. In addition, most places give nice discounts for siblings under treatment at the same time.

drbutchiewong said...

Maybe too, she is alerting Chris as to their trip to the dentist. Do I remember correctly that dental services would be free because Jon's dad owned the practice before he died?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I don't think there's much arguing that braces aren't going to be expensive. Dental insurance doesn't usually cover braces--you have to pay for extra orthodontist insurance and any plan I've ever been under it's not cheap. As in hundreds of dollars extra a month. Even with a sibling discount it's not going to be cheap. Insurance isn't free, you still have to pay your premiums.

The point is, this is her problem. She should have thought of this before having this many kids. She probably thought she could grift from Jon's dad forever.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Do I remember correctly that dental services would be free because Jon's dad owned the practice before he died?

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I remember something about that or a discount. At what point do you start to feel bad for continuing to take such a freebie? Eighteen years of dental work for six kids could run you in the 10's of thousands of dollars.

A dentist needs to make a living too. Why does Kate feel that all these hard working people don't have a right to get paid for what they give her? Would she want to do something without being paid?

The Bitter End said...

Why does Kate feel that all these hard working people don't have a right to get paid for what they give her? Would she want to do something without being paid?
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She may find out how that feels on the cruise.

babsy said...

I've had 4 kids in braces (the last is in them now). We began seeing the orthodontist at least 3 years prior to them getting braces so that the orthodontist could keep an eye on their growth and baby tooth loss. Typically, we were on a once-a-year recall. We paid nothing until treatment began.

We had dental insurance with orthodontist coverage, but it only covered a SMALL portion of the cost. For our first child (who is now 30), we paid about $2500. Our 2nd & 3rd children were over $3500 (they are now 22 & 23, had braces at the same time and received only a 2% reduction in cost for multi-children) and now, with our 4th child, the cost is $6700!

Kate's grifting will be heavy-duty once the orthodontist quotes her a price... perhaps she should forgo her mani/pedi's, tanning, etc. (That won't happen)

Kate doesn't rate said...

drbutchiewong said... 42

Maybe too, she is alerting Chris as to their trip to the dentist. Do I remember correctly that dental services would be free because Jon's dad owned the practice before he died?
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Wow! That included free orthodontia too? Somebody got screwed in that deal. LOL

Gosselin8ComeFirst said...

wayward said... 31
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I completely agree, oalthough the fans choose to ignore the reality of Kate. She was sending out videos to TLC of herself pregnant with six before they were ever born. Her behavior then and now indicates it is ALL about HER being in the spotlight, and trying to make money from her kids.

TLC stinks said...

Why does she have to announce the kids need to see the orthodontist? Grifting. Not so sure this dr. is the same practice that was Jon's dad. There is no way ALL six need to go, maybe a couple have dental issues. She is so TRANSPARENT.

chefsummer #Leh said...

Will Kate be paying for the dentist visit her self or does she hope by saying the doctor's name she'll get a freebie.?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

No names of the dentist! For pity sake. Or web sites. Please use discretion. We spent all of yesterday trying to explain to the sheep how we WANT the kids to be private.

Gosselin8ComeFirst said...

Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 33
I had that same question, why are they getting braces so young? All six of them?

I remember my dentist saying it was best to wait until most of the major baby teeth had fallen out before braces. Around 11-12 or so.

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Once again, Kate trying to garner sympathy that six kids need braces, before that has even been determined. Much like before the tups were even born. Opportunist much? And shouldn't she be talking to Jon about this rather than twitters? What are Twitters supposed to do?

Out And About In Berks County PA said...

The thing is that it is not known if she has dental insurance, if it covers orthodontics and if there is insurance, who is paying. It could be through Jon's company and as part of the divorce agreement, he's covering it. We just don't know, nor is it our business, really.

I just find it so typically Kate that she has to broadcast this to her tweeties, once again evoking sympathy because all of them are in treatment at the same time, and the expense. Poor Kate. Send donations.

JudyK said...

Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 15
Oh for God sake. Now Taylor Armstrong claims that Russell made her take a polygraph regarding whether he is cheating. Just when it couldn't get any more unbelievable. Her jaw went from broken to popped out of the socket. Even Camille Grammar was like....wait didn't you say it was broken?

No one believes more in supporting women in DV relationships than me, but this woman is a LIAR, I'll say it.
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Yes, Taylor is a LIAR, and I have said it from Day One.

Prayers going out for the children involved in the horrible bus crash.

Just caught up with my reading on here this a.m. and felt like my I.Q. was lowered by one digit reading the troll tripe. Looking at the positive side of it, it's probably a good indication that all-things Kate are shutting down, because her over-the-top fans are coming unscrambled.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Once again, Kate trying to garner sympathy that six kids need braces, before that has even been determined. Much like before the tups were even born. Opportunist much?

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Exactly. Odds are only some of them will need major work, a few minor, and a few perhaps only something little or nothing at all and likely not all at the same time. If I recall Cara never had dental work that we saw. They are not all the same kids with the same needs as Kate so constantly wants us to think.

She's just maxing the sympathy to achieve maximum grifting. She is a professional grifter. She grifts in advance even. You don't say one kid needs braces if you want maximum donations, you exaggerate and make it seem like all six will be wearing head gear all at the same time and if no one helps pay for it it will never come off!

Westcoaster said...

Grifting for ortho work this am, how special. And doing the Twitter thing, as if the world tweets, someone needs to put the phone down. Yes, ortho work will be a large chunk of change, a bill I am sure she thought her ongoing career with TLC would fund. She probably will get a family discount, even we did for 3 kids, but it willl still be expensive. Maybe this is what she and Jon were discussing at breakfast :-). Have a feeling she knows that this is one area that if she pulls the cheap card he might drag her ass into court.

chefsummer #Leh said...

Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 39

Have some shame and take care of your OWN DANG KIDS.
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She has no shame Kate might not even know what the word shame is or means.

And when has she ever taken care of the 8 by her self unless she was forced to.?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Yes, Taylor is a LIAR, and I have said it from Day One.

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I was slow on the uptake but I definitely see it now. I like how the other ladies gently catch her in her lies in that nice tone of theirs....wait didn't you say your jaw was broken? Now it just popped out? Wait I thought you said you just care about protecting Kennedy, now you're writing a book? Why didn't you mention this or that before? Wait, didn't you say this now it's that?

Here's my problem with Taylor. A woman in a DV relationship should feel free to tell her story without people wondering if she's LYING. But because of her, she gives some of these women a bad name and makes people skeptical when maybe they shouldn't be. It is despicable to lie about a man hurting you and an insult to women who truly have been hurt in DV relationships, and even moreso when that man is dead.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Since Jon is the only one really working full time here, I have a feeling the kids are indeed on his insurance plan. But that's a lot for Jon to pay on his own especially if he gets the full works dental package with braces. But of course, no gratitude from Kate or credit to him for his part. She has never once expressed gratitude at how he supports the kids--apparently so much she doesn't even have to work and can tweet on her ass all day. What mom of eight doesn't have to work if not for someone else supporting her?

It is hard to believe CC would actually give her benefits for a few drivel blog posts a week. Really?

TLC stinks said...

Dr. Thomas Gosselin was a pediatric dentist. His practice was Berks Kids Dentistry in Reading, so the orthodontist shout out was grifting, IMO.

Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said...

Admin said...It is hard to believe CC would actually give her benefits for a few drivel blog posts a week. Really?

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What?? Kate has benefits through Coupon Cabin? Say it isn't so.

Grifter Overboard said...

A dentist needs to make a living too. Why does Kate feel that all these hard working people don't have a right to get paid for what they give her?

$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

Is it the same dental group? Orthodontics could be a separate practice entirely, not covered under the freebies or discounts they received because their grandfather was a dentist.

chefsummer #Leh said...

Maybe Kate & Taylor can have a show together since they're both evil lying self absorbed users.

They can travel and tan and, grift together while using and abusing their husbands last name.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Grifter I think she tweeted the name hoping they would discount her or some dumb sheeple would pay up.

Kate is a twit said...

Speaking of grifting, did anyone see this exchange?

Keurig, Inc.@Keurig
Did you know that the new Vue™ brewer allows you to brew bigger? Enjoy up to an 18 oz. travel mug of your beverage of choice. #KeurigVue

5:52 PM - 16 Feb 12via web

Kate Gosselin@Kateplusmy8

@Keurig WOW! Sounds like my kind of coffee maker :) good job, keurig! It's 1 reason I love you so much! :)

6:02 PM - 16 Feb 12via
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Keuring makes a general tweet about a new brewer, and fast on the trigger Kate, 10 minutes later is right there telling them how much she loves them.

I see she is following both Keurig and Starbucks, so she can be ready to pounce when they make a tweet she's interested in.

Gosselin8ComeFirst said...

TLC stinks said... 26
What's up with the bedtime announcement every night? Lame attempt to prove how tired she is raising the kids by herself? She is not unique when it comes bedtime when you have kids who are early risers.------------------

Looks like now that Kate is no longer traveling non-stop, show ended, and she ACTUALLY has to be a mom of eight, minus the nannies. She took credit for this for years while she did not actually do the work with the kids, via hired help.

I do think Steve or her other manager told her to stop posting after 9pm, as the late wine tweets were becoming an issue.

Dallas Lady said...

Usually IF you have ortho coverage, it only covers a percentage of the ortho work.

My daughter needed an expander for a while and then braces top and bottom and then permanent retainers on the top front and bottom front and MY part ended up being about $6000 after the ortho insurance paid their part. That was one kid.

Being on the other end of the raising kids gig, I've often looked at these people having multiples thinking, "You don't EVEN know." Yes, diapers are very expensive, times however many kids you have. Yes, formula is expensive.

But just wait until you get to the real big ticket items. Kate is JUST starting to get there. All their clothes are bigger and more expensive and they aren't necessarily all happy with clearance specials at Target anymore. They eat more (well, normal kids do--Kate's undernourished eight don't seem to be allowed to eat much). There are all kinds of expenses connected to school, even when they don't go to a private school! Then you have braces, graphing calculators (WHEW THOSE ARE EXPENSIVE!), SAT test fees, you name it.

And yes, she was clearly grifting for money, sympathy, whatever she can get. She's shameless.


As to the person who asked if I don't feel guilt when looking at pics of the kids:

I don't look at pics of the kids. I barely bother to look at the pics of her pathetic little meals she serves them. I got her latest blog entry the other day and spent just enough time on her lame website to hit copy and paste and then got off. And that's the first and only time I've ever done that.

I rarely ever mention the kids by name, and when I do, I use initials. In fact, I STILL don't know which tup is which as far as who the boys are and who the girls are and I doubt I can list all their names. I never learned them all.

I'm not interested in the kids for my own personal curiosity. I know what kids are like. I have one, and I was a teacher for years.

I discuss Kate and her child exploiting, shameless grifting ways.

So yeah, no pangs of guilt. Why would I feel that way?

And you'll note in the caricature header at the top, the kids aren't even depicted below their hairline. I say good. I wouldn't mind if they and Jon were removed altogether.

TLC stinks said...

It's not the same practice. She is grifting hoping that some dumb sheeple will respond or the dentist will give her a discount. No other reason to announce dental visit other than have a pap show up and grift.

AuntieAnn said...

I just hope the orthodontist is as amazing as the dentist. Everything in Kate's life has to be "amazing!". I think she thinks if she says amazing it will earn her a discount or a grift of some sort. She needs to make an appointment with an amazing psychiatrist.

Sport said...

Once again SUPERMOM wants us to believe she is just like us, and adores her kids. As she wackily participates in MadLibs (no doubt correcting them on EACH word and using what she chooses.)

Aw shucks, these wholesome shenanigans are so heart warming and she is so into it that she is in bed with her pink f*cking phone TWEETING with 8 kids working on MadLibs?

What a caring, unselfish SuperMom.

Gosselin8ComeFirst said...

OMG- Is Kate really attempting to grift from a Reading Orthodontist/Dr. Nat - by using his name, with or without his permission? This is NOT a coffee brewer, free CoffeeMate, etc....

She is sickening that she now thinks the orthodonist will offer her freebies, but I guess that is all she knows. Grift, grift, and more grift.

A crazy suggestion, but how about if Kate uses the millions she made off her kids' backs to actually pay for braces for those who might need it. Instead of trying to grift from the orthodontist by twitter. Kate is so low class and greedy, it is beyond disgusting.

Most of us who pay for dental insurance still have huge bills to pay. Maybe she and Jon need to speak about this instead of begging from the dentist and twitters. She really is shameless..

Kate- Help me... I NEED....(fill in the blank).

PJ's momma said...

Amazing that she tweeted the name of the orthodontist. Flat out amazing. Even funnier that someone upthread said they don't have twitter.

Hey Kate, my husband and I had braces together a few years ago and guess what? Our lovely orthodontist did not give us a discount based on that. AND the dental insurance covered a very minimal amount. It did not cover extras like retainers either. At a few hundred a pop, they don't come cheap.

Stupid cow. Stop publishing everything about your kids' lives to garner sympathy/attention for yourself, and let them have their privacy, just once!

Ingrid said...

Braces at age 7? Whatever happened to letting their mouths grow a while and see if the teeth get in better alignment. They haven't had the adult teeth that long and will be losing a few more yet in years to come. (I trust some dentists about as much as car salesmen- some like to do alot more than I think is necessary to get my money)

I loathe this "woman" and "her" entire brand! said...

I can understand an ortho giving a mult-child discount- that is very common. Most orthodontia isn't covered with dental insurance and when it is- it's about 50%. If there is a college nearby that has an ortho school- braces are substantially discounted. I can't imagine an ortho completely comping this- they would lose a lot of money and time! Geesh- I loathe this "woman"...

Grifter Overboard said...

Grifter I think she tweeted the name hoping they would discount her or some dumb sheeple would pay up.

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Where's Linda Miami Heat when you need her? Busy sending ipads or socks, I guess!
Shoutout! Kate's kids need braces!

wayward said...

Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 39
Guess Kate should have thought about six braces for six kids at the same time before she got pregnant with multiples... It is annoying--dental work is her problem, not ours or her sheeples'. She had six kids. Stop grifting from good people who will struggle to put braces on their own children. Have some shame and take care of your OWN DANG KIDS.
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If Kate would downsize, sell the Konpound, get rid of the Audi and the Sequoia and ring up Kate Coyne to do a somber cover story for People ("Our Lives Are Very Different Now") I think she would find the grifting game alot easier and more lucrative. She might even get an entertainment job just from displaying a little humbleness. But as always, Kate wants it both ways. She wants to keep the exact lifestyle her show afforded her, but now that the show is over she would like to maintain that lifestyle by going back to begging.

In 2004 the public was implored to support her kids because she irresponsibly went for more fertilty treatments.

Almost eight years later, because of her arrogance and well deserved reputation for being "difficult" blacklisted her from the entertainment business, not to mention her gross mismanagement of her vast earnings, she is again looking for handouts. No responsibilty for her own actions, Kate just does whatever the hell she wants, when she wants it, no matter what it costs, then sticks her hand out for other people to finance her greed. Her shamelessness is absolutely breathtaking.

Katie Cry-duh said...

I feel sorry for this orthodontist. He WILL be taken for as
much as Kate can get out of him and she will think she owns him if she pays one cent out of pocket. Good thing she has 85% of the family paycheck to cover the kids' expenses. Roll eyes

cathyn518 said...

I don't expect that Kate will take a penny out of her own pocket to pay for the kid's orthodontia. I am sure she will petition to have the kids 15% TLC earnings pay for this necessity. This is shameful since it is probably how their private school tuition is paid, other childhood expenses are met and will be at 0 balance before these kids reach 18. While many parents work hard to stash money away for their kid's college tuition, I can't see Kate hesitating to drain this fund so she does not have to pay for her children's needs herself now and won't leave them anything for their future education

Kelly H. said...

This is how you do a love post.

http://thepioneerwoman.com/confessions/

Kate is a twit said...

Keurig actually held a contest yesterday to win the new Keurig and a 1 year supply of coffee,tea,etc. You had to tweet "If I had a #KeurigVue Brewer I would name it_____".

I am surprised Kate didn't enter. She probably thinks it's beneath her, or expects to get it free without having to enter.

Kate stop begging you stupid hag said...

Don't the kids have to lose their baby teeth before they get braces? I would never give Kate my money screw her. I'm busy buying stuff for my 2 year old Grand Daughter.

anger issues kate said...

Cammie: Actually the Anna Duggar contradicts herself, cause cousin Amy is at all Duggar functions, and wears pants and does not follow ATI rules.
As for wearing braces at an early age, I ask my dentist a couple of years ago about that. He said, once all permanent teeth are in, and a child is in need of braces, they will put them in ASAP. They no longer wait till you are in your teens. I was 5 when I lost the last of my baby teeth, I would have by todays standard, a candidate for early braces, but they did not do that back then in the 60's, by time I was a teen, I did not want to go through the pain. In my case I would have had to have 2 teeth pulled, when I was 19 I had 4 impacked wisedom teeth removed, now cause of those wisdom teeth the last molars root, grew into an s shape and the tooth to be slightly sideways. I have way too many teeth for my mouth. I have a about 3 crowned molars(2 cause they were cracked, could not put a filling in, the other had a cavaity by the root ), the rest are my own teeth.

And yes, Kate was fishing for a paps.

LaLaLandNoMore said...

The exploitation of children, living or deceased, needs to stop. My patience is very short with all of this on TLC. No family needs money that badly that they must be a part of this distasteful scene.
After memorializing my brother this past week, my opinions have changed about many things. Yes, life is too short, and we must not waste it on this sensationalism in television. Thank you for the kind comments re: my personal loss.

hey jude said...

Auntie Ann,

Have I told you how much I love you and your comments? You make me laugh even when I don't want to.I am off to write Kate a post in invisible ink now!

Dallas Lady,

You are so funny and right and prophetic all in the same post. Kate even takes credit for the kids getting good grades on a test, cause she helped them study! Myself, I would be just so darn proud and happy. The rest of that drivel she wrote must have been while she was under the influence. I wonder if I should post her son's names to her, so many names, so little time?

There are some strange ones on here to-day, was there a malfunction at the psych. centre to-day and some escaped or what? I'll have one of those tin hats and some mace, please.

I wonder if both parents quitting their jobs and making the show their job ,smacks a bit of exploitation? Love you too, in case I forgot to tell you lately.We have a fine bunch here and now some alians and right-fighters, some villages are missing their idiots to-day!

Tamara said...

All this talk of teeth movement (ha, I love that term) reminds me too much of poor Mady's filmed trip to the teeth mover. She was sooooo embarassed by it all, and so obviously hated it. Yet not only did she have to do it, if I recall she had to be compared to her twin sister's lovely, perfect teeth. Just wrong.

I wonder if Kate would even allow her sons to get braces? They are just icky boys, they don't need straight teeth, or healthy mouths.

AuntieAnn said...

wayward said... 75
No responsibilty for her own actions, Kate just does whatever the hell she wants, when she wants it, no matter what it costs, then sticks her hand out for other people to finance her greed. Her shamelessness is absolutely breathtaking.
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wayward - THAT is the phenomena of Kate Gosselin. She started out appearing to be Jane Q. Public living an average life. Little did anyone know - except maybe Jon - that underneath that mediocre exterior a greedy attention whore was waiting to be noticed. It really makes you wonder how far back she was planning to have it all without having the wherewithal of getting it.
How many different schemes did she have until she stumbled on the idea of grifting freebies by putting her ovaries into overdrive? (or ovary-drive haha).
I'd be curious to know what her alternate plan would have been if THAT hadn't worked out, because knowing what we know of her now I don't think she ever wanted to remain an anonymous face in the crowd.

Pity Party said...

I just had a thought for KT a new show. Gathering up all 8 and heading to the bank to try and wrangle funds from the kids' accounts out of a Ms. Hathaway type secretary type and a Mr. Drysdale type in charge. She could get a whole season out of it. But it's Valentine's - I have to get the heart plates, the foam cards, and my special breakfast. But I need a sports car so I can take 1 child each for a special day, and it will save on gas, but it's THEIR house don't you see...blah, blah. Unfortunately, I doubt there is enough money for anything in there since the 15% was only for the last season or so.

aggiemom09121416 said...

I guess I'm not as 'special' as Kate..what mom of a large brood (I have six, count'em six kids..boo hoo for me, guess eight makes it better, lol)has THE TIME to tell twitter world that her kids need to go to such and such ortho? Gee, I recall when my kids were young, we had quite the time just getting to and into the car..and having a conversation at the same time, to boot! (I am assuming she had to tweet this earth-shattering news the moment it occurred).
I don't know how Kate the great does it. NOT

This blog needs to compile a list of all the things she has grifted over the years..

1. solar panels
2. free orthodonics for herself
3. PA supplied baby nurse for one year
4. free clothes
5. free van
6. free home makeover when pg with the tups
7. free clothes for herself
8. free beef
9. free juicy juice
10 free bikes
11 free piano
12 free trips
13 free airfare
14 free cash from donations
15 wish list from their original blog
16 people paying their utilites
17 free laundry help
18 free babysitting from beth
18 free round the clock volunteers

anybody else??

aggiemom09121416 said...

oops, how could I forget...

the Pa college education fund
free neonatal care
last week's socks
kuerig
starbucks...
grifting her fans for cruise $
fans sending her gifts for holidays

I think this list is going to be a long one..
:)

chefsummer #Leh said...

1. solar panels
2. free orthodonics for herself
3. PA supplied baby nurse for one year
4. free clothes
5. free van
6. free home makeover when pg with the tups
7. free clothes for herself
8. free beef
9. free juicy juice
10 free bikes
11 free piano
12 free trips
13 free airfare
14 free cash from donations
15 wish list from their original blog
16 people paying their utilites
17 free laundry help
18 free babysitting from beth
18 free round the clock volunteers

anybody else??
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19. Free Dinners
20. Free Hair cuts/dies for her weaves
21. Free stuff for Steve-(who knows what he's got by being with Kate)
22. Maybe free hotel rooms when she's away

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Actually wouldn't that make a perfect charity for Kate to start? Braces for families who can't afford it. It's something that has personally touched her so it's perfect. Plus with their grandfathers dentist connections. Come on Kate do somethig good for once.

aggiemom09121416 said...

free ipads...

chefsummer #Leh said...

Kate should get free slices of pizza wrapped in foil I'd bet she would love that.

Audible Click said...

Free organic cereal.
Free ugly dresses from those "designers" in Florida.
Free ugly prom wannabe dress for The Kentucky Derby.

aggiemom09121416 said...

free goodies from cupcake ladies..
free meals during all those 'seasons'
free stove when hers cracked?
free babysitting from Aunt Jody
free DisneyWorld admission
free stuff from rarlem Globetrotters
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how could I have forgotten the organic cereal, that was hilarious.lol

Audible Click said...

Do you think Kart will demand the dentist clear the waiting room, after all we she can't stand the "mediocre" people unless she's paid for it. Perhaps she just insist they come in the back way with no waiting. Hmmm...she could require the dentist to stay open late or work on the weekend because she's the Ice Queen and she has 8, count em' 8, special snowflakes.

aggiemom09121416 said...

I sure would like to get a look at their divorce decree. It would be interesting to see which parent has to supply medical insurance; and IF dental insurance is required in this decree.
Dental insurance rarely covers ortho, and if it does, it doesn't pay much.
What galls me to no end is that this shrew thinks people owe her everything. I seemed to recall in the early yrs when she cried poor, it was written somewhere that she expected family, friends, church members, etc., to pay her bills..when all that time Jon had a trust acct given to him by his father. When questioned why they didn't use that for their expenses, Kate was on record saying that was 'their' money, and shouldn't be used to pay household bills.
A while back in a tabloid, she is quoted as saying, "I will do whatever it takes to pay MY KID"s bills....since when do kids have bills???

As far as the twins getting compensation for the upcoming cruise...why should they..since they will only be 'playing'? After all, only Kate WORKS....(snark)

The Bitter End said...

I sure would like to get a look at their divorce decree.

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Jon probably keeps a framed copy in a spot of honor in his home.

aggiemom09121416 said...

free crocs
free stride rite for the kiddos
free backpacks and lunch boxes
free dogs
free trips (that's a given)
free dental care during episodes?
free haircuts for the kiddos
free cribs
free strollers?
free baby food
free diapers
free formula
free camping stuff


it's amazing how stupid this woman is, yet she has such a talent for grifting. It's uncanny. And what is even more bizarre, her fans would do the same in a heartbeat.

readerlady said...

Free school tuition (Mady and Cara's tuition was paid for, at least initially)
Free transportation to appear at charity events
Free surfing lessons for the twins
Free hot air balloon ride
Free kitchen make-over
Free washers and dryers
Free admission to various attractions, such as
Legoland, assorted zoos, shows, museums
Free wedding gown for vow renewal
Free house rental on OBX
Free ski trip to Utah
Free deep sea fishing excursion
Free trip to dude ranch
Free American Girl dolls for the twins
Free chickens and chicken coop
Free crooked houses for the kids


More?

Winsomeone said...

Free back to school shoes...don't forget the two dogs too.

freebie Kate said...

Kate needs a face lift she looks older than 37. she's been saving for it with the kids money.

Hoosier Girl said...

Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 90
Actually wouldn't that make a perfect charity for Kate to start? Braces for families who can't afford it. It's something that has personally touched her so it's perfect. Plus with their grandfathers dentist connections. Come on Kate do somethig good for once.
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OMG. Admin has fallen and bumped her head really hard. Come back to us admin. Reality is right over here. :)

chefsummer #Leh said...

Free things from party city when they filmed the Halloween epis on Kate plus 8.

I bet she got free drinks when she & Jamie were doing her b-day epis on Kate plus 8.

Audible Click said...

Remember the free Guess red hooker heels? *snicker*

Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said...

Audible Click said... 104

Remember the free Guess red hooker heels? *snicker*
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Ah, yes, the finishing touch to her so stylish Daily Mae outfit.

aggiemom09121416 said...

The Bitter End, your response made me crack up..my dog thought I had lost my mind. That is hilarious.
Everyone here is so smart and witty. I am in awe of the posters here.
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I sure would like to get a look at their divorce decree.

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Jon probably keeps a framed copy in a spot of honor in his home.

ReaderLady, awesome list! it's unreal the stuff she has grifted.

Holly said...

Kate is her own charity it's all for MEMEME.

readerlady said...

How could we forget the free tummy tuck??!!

Unfortunately, Kate's been so successful at her grifting that she'll continue to do it as long as one person or company gives her something for free. She should change her name to Freebie.

Thanks, aggiemom. You got the ball rolling.

aggiemom09121416 said...

Grifting is a one-track way for people like Kate. I've got to share this story, it's a little off topic, so bear with me. (This is a TRUE story, I know this lady and heard it from her first-hand):
Not too long ago,she and her husband were watching one of those evangelist programs, there were spouting the 'send us 1,000 seed money, and it will be returned to you 100 times over' spiel...so, she got up, went to the phone and called them. The guy on the other end asked how she wanted to pay for her 1,000 dollar seed money, and she said "no, I don't want to send you 1,000 dollars, I want your ministry to contribute 1,000 dollars to our mission work program (they were missionaries to Belize for almost 30 yrs)...the guy on the phone's response? (and I Quote): "Lady, it doesn't work that way."
Can you believe it? This guy is just like Kate...it only works one way, and it all goes TO kate, not FROM kate.

aggiemom09121416 said...

ReaderLady, I am deeply ashamed. Forgetting the tummy tuck; the first and most brazen outing of the real Kate. I was appalled she asked for a free boob lift at the same time. When she said that, I thought, oh geez, what a freeloader.

free hairplugs for Jon...

Audible Click said...

readerlady said... 108
How could we forget the free tummy tuck??!!

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That was the same time she tried to grift some bolt on boobs. As I recall, the doctor said she just needed a good bra and we all know how that turned out, although they look sort of floppy and saggy now. Give it a few years and she'll be able to fling those puppies over her shoulder.

PatK said...

Hopefully, by the time the kids actually need their braces, she will have long been forgotten by her superfans and will not be able to grift monetary assistance from them.

What a pathetic specimen of a human she is.

aggiemom09121416 said...

To prove her stupidity, the one thing she never tried to grift, is to get rid of that stupid winnie the pooh tattoo. I've always thought that was the one permanment reminder of the REAL kate. (not to denigrate tats, I just think having a winnie the pooh tattoo is stupid) :)

Katie Cry-duh said...

Re: grifting

Medicaid from the state of PA
Probably WIC too

Tala said...

I'm going to bet that the violin was also free. Don't know if M still has the same one.

Free trip to Hawaii w/ free clothes for all for the fake renewal.
Free beds
Free carpeting in the old house
Free shelving for the garage complete with free labor.
Free framed (bogus) family mission statement
Free gifts for the children at St.. Jude's
Free birthday parties for the 6
Free toy cars for the 6
Bikes?

Tala said...

Free clothes for all the kids from Gymboree until she got TOO greedy.

Katie Cry-duh said...

$70,000/year in tuition? I'd say the tuition is so discounted that 3/4 kids go to school for free. The boys, I guess

Tamara said...

Kate doesn't want money, per se. She more wants to be like Presidents, royalty, the super rich, who don't even need to carry cash because they are so famous/powerful/wealthy. And I think she would choose fame over riches in a second.

Tala said...

I think that fame = money for KG.

Eye For Eye, Tooth For Tooth said...

Admin said...No names of the dentist! For pity sake. Or web sites. Please use discretion.

@71 OMG- Is Kate really attempting to grift from a Reading Orthodontist/Dr. Nat - by using his name, with or without his permission? This is NOT a coffee brewer, free CoffeeMate, etc....

Kate used the name of the group and the dentist in the tweet at the top of this page. Perhaps it should be removed?

Just Cruisin' Along said...

I think the travel agent, Cindy Cardella, is getting tired and punchy from tweeting about the cruise. The last 3 tweets she made about it are to @kateplus8, leaving out the "my". So those tweets are being sent to an inactive, fake account. Good job, Cindy.

The one prior to those three and sent to the right account said to "join Kate, Mady and Cara,etc.". That makes me angry that now the travel agent is also using the twins names in her tweets to draw in people. Does she really think that people who don't want to fork over money for cruise just to see Kate, are now going to rush to book it because the twins are going?

Cruisin Just As Fast As She Can Now said...

"Does she really think that people who don't want to fork over money for cruise just to see Kate, are now going to rush to book it because the twins are going?"

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It's called grasping for straws, and what she doesn't realize is that the sheeple don't give two hoots about the kids. It's all about their idol, their girl crush, or whatever you want to call her.

If Cindy would be smart, she'd tell Kate to get off her butt and name a charity, and tell these sheeple what to expect in the way of a shore excursion - which one is included in the beach romp with Kate and which one (ones) they will have to cough up the money to fund. This whole thing is so amateurish that it's not even funny. She's so busy hawking the cruise, but conveniently omits the details that they need to know.

I wonder if the fans have shopped for their gowns/formal wear!

A Pink Straight Jacket For Kate said...

Folks, EXCELLENT job gathering Kate's grifting history!

Administrator, this would make a great, quick referencing post.

NJGal51 said...

1. Free kitchen renovation while she went on free trip to bald head island.
2. Free Wrapping center and basement organization
3. Free fruits and vegetables from Henry.
4. Free organic cow meat (which she spilt with Jodi AND charged her for)
5. Free cooking lessons from Emeril
6. Free lessons on recycling and organic cooking

kris said...

My daughter is currently in braces (since the fall). I have dental insurance and an ortho plan (which is $11.00 extra bi-wkly). It covers $1500 of the total ortho plan (I think they call it lifetime), the rest (including the retainers) are all on us.

Teresa said...

That entire house was furnished by Lane furniture. FREE

New kitchen cabinets & Fridge. FREE ( Didn't she sell the old one's to Carla)? while she was vacationing at Bald Head, NC (FREE)because she didn't want to see the mess.

Downeaster Alexa said...

miloandjack
@Kateplusmy8 @readingorthodontics Now how come those cute kids did not inherit ur beautiful, straight teeth? I know they have ur smile! :)
28 min ago from web

$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$·

Apparently Milo hasn't looked at Kate's mis-aligned upper jaw! You'd think that she would know every inch of Kate's body! Gag. Didn't Kate have braces, or some kind of work done to her teeth? She wasn't born with those perfect teeth.

aggiemom09121416 said...

A Pink Straight Jacket For Kate said... 123

Folks, EXCELLENT job gathering Kate's grifting history!

Administrator, this would make a great, quick referencing post.
February 17, 2012 4:00 PM
_____________________________

Yes, great idea! How about on the other side of the ledger, let's list the things she donated..
(I'm guessing it looks like this)

Things Kate donated:

1. 0
2. 0
3. 0
4. 0
5..................

:)

Teresa said...

Sorry NYGAL....your post must have been going through while l was typing.

aggiemom09121416 said...

Apparently Milo hasn't looked at Kate's mis-aligned upper jaw! You'd think that she would know every inch of Kate's body! Gag. Didn't Kate have braces, or some kind of work done to her teeth? She wasn't born with those perfect teeth.
February 17, 2012 4:14 PM
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After she conned (oops, married) Jon, his dad put her in braces. For free.
Yrs later, TLC gave her veneers. Her stupid fans don't even know her teeth aren't genuine.

Thanks everyone, ,for giving me a warm welcome here. Been reading here for a long time, just never contributed due to my thoughts were already published by other bloggers.

oh, add that to the grift list...veneers.

Widowed Young said...

Add to the list that the whole orphanage was furnished-I don't remember the company but remember when they first moved in they didn't have any furniture-it was so bare. It makes me sick to see the $1000's of dollars of beautiful furniture she received.

It's over Kate said...

The best part of Kate getting all that free stuff is when she would turn around and SELL it.

JudyK said...

Kelly H. said... 79
This is how you do a love post.

http://thepioneerwoman.com/confessions/
_________________________________________

Kelly, I LOVE Ree Drummond, the Pioneer Woman, who is the antithesis of Kate Gosselin.

What a wonderful contrast you have presented. I would encourage everyone to look at this link...it would be a perfect contrast for a NEW THREAD between a truly loving, accomplished mother vs. the likes of Kate the Grifter.

Ree is a sophisticated, educated, award-winning blogger, who traded in city life for the pleasures and rewards of simple country living, and I have a special affection for her, because she lives on a ranch in Oklahoma with her rancher husband and four (4) children.

I fancy myself a gourmet cook and enjoy her so much...she is Food Network's newest weekly addition. Her show is on at 9:00 a.m. on Saturdays CST, and I never miss it.

Seriously, Administrator, you should take a look at this link...the blog pics are amazing and reflect the heart of this woman. Although she has the credentials to be pretentious, she is anything but. Kate, who has NO credentials, is the poster gal for pretentiousness and entitlement.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Even though Kate named her dentist which by the way I find deplorable and outrageous and a safety risk to her kids I ask that we not repeat what that negligent mother did. I have no power to remove that tweet.

Tamara said...

Grift list additions (sorry if they have been added already): shirts numbered 1-10, x-mas gifts from "fans", tickets to Bible show, stuffed animals from same Bible show, thousands of dollars in "love offerings"

And probably another hundred things we will never know about.

Tamara said...

Grift: Phillies tickets (luxury box no less), food at the ballgame, tons of Phillies stuff.

Kate is a twit said...

You can add the pool slide and whatever renovation was done to the pool to the list. What about the motorized cars the kids got. Also, the crooked houses and treehouse.

It would probably be easier to list what Kate (and Jon) actually did pay for. That would be a very short list.

Downeaster Alexa said...

miloandjack
@CindyCardella @Kateplusmy8 Ah hello Cindy? Did U get Kate 2verify she has "wheelchair license"..officially authorized 2push me around? LOL

Did Milo sign up for the cruise? She certainly is pestering the heck out of a non-existent Kate tonight. She has to know where Kate is at all times. She's not only scary...she's creepy:

miloandjack
@Kateplusmy8 So Kate..did U & the 8decide 2take a wkend off somewhere? U been gone 2long...I finally have "home alone" time & ur gone! LOL

PA Parent Anonymous said...

Places in PA:

Sight and Sound Theater (plush animals for kids)
Sesame Place
Hersheypark
Please Touch Museum
Dutch Wonderland
Young Chef's Academy
Hands On House
Shady Maple Smorgasbord
Philadelphia tour
Prestige Gymnastics
Castle Roller Rink

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Wow it's astounding to see all the freebies listed out like that.

I'm curious about the psychological impact of all that. At what point do you simply become conditioned to expect everything for free, and lose all sense of how the world normally works i.e. work hard, save hard, spend to get the things you want. Kate skips the first two and just gets the third.

Also in that same vein, part of the fun of having things is working for them. There have been studies about how the time in a vacation when people feel the most satisfied is not on the vacation or even after the vacation, but BEFORE the vacation when they are planning and saving. Kate is missing a really crucial part of the process of getting stuff that leaves a person feeling full and satisfied.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

And it also says a lot for her fans, who seem to have no problem with Kate tweeting to them, rather than giving her daughters her undivided attention while playing a game with them.

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A fan who truly cared about the kids would say to Kate nicely that's really sweet you are playing madlibs but it's okay you don't have to update us when you're playing with the kids! You're a busy mommy so seriously don't worry about us!

It's surprising, but I've come to the conclusions the fans left don't give two shits about the kids. Bizarre but true.

That's why I kind of put BM in a different category than most fans, i.e. less rabid. I actually think she cares about the kids however misguided her expression of that is, unlike most others in her group.

Ex Nurse said...

Admin said....
Actually wouldn't that make a perfect charity for Kate to start? Braces for families who can't afford it. It's something that has personally touched her so it's perfect.
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Or, she could learn from that Bermuda charity that had that Diamonds and Caviar gala that she didn't attend. She can start a non-profit with the purpose of educating people of the need for braces and distributing funds to the needy. The non-profit would pay Kate's travel expenses to educate the world about the importance of early orthodontic intervention. And then, of course, the charity would name its one and only recipient of donations---of course that would be Kate.

I know, she isn't that smart.

Jeanne said...

I think that's the place I went for my braces. What I am thinking of is there and at most orthodontist offices, the children are supposed to take responsibility during checkups. The child checks in, is called back alone, and gets the braces adjusted. My mother was only called back if there was a problem. Otherwise they don't want the parents back there. It's the same way now at the office my niece goes to. How do you think Kate will feel giving up that control?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Ex Nurse, you mean Braces & Headgear AWARENESS?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Jeanne I remember that for my braces, mom wasn't there. She waited in the waiting room.

That was really smart of my ortho. Because at the end of the day you have to take care of your teeth at that age, Mom and Dad can't brush your teeth for you anymore. This is only the beginning of Kate giving up control. I predict a downward spiral.

Kate is a twit said...

Best question I've seen yet from a FAN:

prettybowes
@Kateplusmy8 I knw haters will say neg stuff but to heck with them! How can u go this long without sex?! Its been a LONG time since jon!


Do you think Kate will reply?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

stion I've seen yet from a FAN:

prettybowes
@Kateplusmy8 I knw haters will say neg stuff but to heck with them! How can u go this long without sex?! Its been a LONG time since jon!


Do you think Kate will reply?

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Oh good Lord I guess they have no boundaries just like Kate. And what an ignorant sheeple. She goes this long without sex because she's getting plenty of sex with Steve. Silly sheeple.

Warmth Of The Sun said...

sandiebellz
@DamonBraces did you see @Kateplusmy8's six children need braces? Maybe you should contact her.
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Kate has trained her sheeple well. Now she has them grifting for her. What was the name of that cult back in the 60s and 70s? Moonies - Unification Church? This reminds me of those followers.

t said...

Hmm, Kate's charities to date:

St Jude's (one visit, toys bought by TLC and free books "by KG")

The koalas - um yeah, what about them?

And on the cruise,,,,,,,,,,,,,,?

Clearly, Kate's only charity is Kate.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Kate has trained her sheeple well. Now she has them grifting for her. What was the name of that cult back in the 60s and 70s? Moonies - Unification Church? This reminds me of those followers.

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The Moonies!

This really has taken on unbelievable levels. How does this happen?

Woman has 6 babies at once, naturally gets some freebies upfront. Then finagles a TV show about babies with even more freebies and trips. TV show ends, you would think okay it's over. But woman somehow finds a way to continue to invoke the kids without actually having to be bothered to involve the kids and continues to grift more trips and freebies. Woman uses fans to make even more money not only directly by them sending her freebies or paying for things like a cruise with her, but also, enlist other troops to do the same. Kate is now at the point where she has to do next to NOTHING, her army does it for her.

This is like....a pyramid scheme or something.

AuntieAnn said...

- giant pinecones (technically petty theft, free in Katespeak)

Kate is a twit said...

Warmth--Damon braces replied! This is getting totally ridiculous.

damonbraces
@SandieBellz SIX, wow! We'll give @Kateplusmy8 a tweet aftr Holiday weekend per ur suggestion. Feel free 2 ping us in d meantime. Take care

Tamara said...

Wow it's astounding to see all the freebies listed out like that.

I'm curious about the psychological impact of all that. At what point do you simply become conditioned to expect everything for free, and lose all sense of how the world normally works i.e. work hard, save hard, spend to get the things you want. Kate skips the first two and just gets the third.
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Considering all her other psychological problems, I think that one is around 10 or 12 on the list of issues to talk about with the psychiatrist she will never see.

And actually, in her twisted mind she does think she is working and earning all she's gotten and has been given. I mean, that's why she's been so "exhausted" for so long, nattering on about her eight kids.

Ex Nurse said...

Admin said....

Ex Nurse, you mean Braces & Headgear AWARENESS?
?????????????????????????

How about Braces Without Borders?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

damonbraces
@SandieBellz SIX, wow! We'll give @Kateplusmy8 a tweet aftr Holiday weekend per ur suggestion. Feel free 2 ping us in d meantime. Take care

&&&

Perfect example of why this is a SCAM pure and simple.

Innocent ortho thinks oh how can I help a woman with six kids at once get braces? Innocent ortho has no idea this woman is a millionaire who has and continues to make millions off her kids, who lives in a McMansion gets the majority of her life for free gets a nice hefty child support check each month and is happy to spend thousands on herself before she will ever fork over one cent for her children's braces.

If she doesn't tell that ortho thank you but to please donate his services to six needy PA children in her honor, I will scream.

Westcoaster said...

Let's see, in exchange for sheeple grifting freebie braces the tups will wear headgear that say "DamonBraces"? Theatre of the Absurd. Poor Milo better find K8 some freebies if she wants a personal tweet.

Pour me another glass of the red, barkeep. This is some sideshow.

SeeSaw said...

Add to Kate's freebie list - the pink skooter from the American Chopper guys (that she donated I think). Plus a local photo studio did a bunch of photo shoots for them -- the old black and whites from the early show opening and one in the fall at Beth's house. And Giant gave her gift cards for food when the six were small.

Kate is a twit said...

The way I interpret Kate's tweet is that the dentist said the kids needed to see an orthodontist, but not that they need braces. I found an article about when a child should see an orthodontist. This is a snippet from that article:

"Although individual problems determine the ideal time to start orthodontic treatment, the American Association of Orthodontists (AAO) recommends that every child see an orthodontist by age 7...Please be aware that, while it is recommended for your child to see an orthodontist by age 7, the majority of patients seen at that age do not require treatment. They will generally be monitored during annual dental exams by the orthodontist, enabling treatment to begin at the optimal time."

http://www.dentistry.com/treatments/dental-braces/when-to-see-an-orthodontist

To me it seems the kids are just going to be evaluated, not that they need braces. But of course, the way Kate exaggerates and says "life is about to get real crazy", I guess I can understand that assumption.

SeeSaw said...

Oops, *scooter

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I think Mady had braces pretty young, 8 or 9 or so? The tups are almost 8. THis might be one of the early intervention dentists that other people were mentioning. Are there are studies on whether this early intervention movement actually works? How do you prove it was the early intervention and not just natural growth and change? Having had a dentist I thought was very scammy, who constantly pushed Invisalign every single appointment even though there is virtually nothing wrong with my teeth anyone would notice (and now one who is not like that at all I'm much happier with) I'm pretty sensitive to some of this up-sell stuff. Read up on the Invisalign scam by the way. A GREAT product but one that is being pushed on people who DON'T need it for thousands more than braces and one being pushed by dentists NOT TRAINED in ortho. I see a class action coming.

Either way I think Kate is thinking ahead. She only thinks ahead when it comes to freebies. She knows sooner or later some of them will need braces, so might as well start planting the seeds.

PA Parent Anonymous said...

Oops - I forgot - Crayola Factory in Easton (how could I forget that disaster?)
Pre-school church school for the tups. I don't know if it was free, but it wouldn't surprise me if somebody paid for it or if Kate got huge discounts.

HollyMo said...

Just something funny I thought I'd share with the class...

This is an actual post from a "friend" of mine on facebook:

"I dare anyone to say you were busier than I today: I did six loads of laundry, cleaned parts of the house (detail work like polishing glass), went to yoga class, went to two grocery stores, changed sheets on three beds, made the house look perfect for a real estate showing with an hour's notice and took the kids to the playground, made dinner, arranged flowers (lots of flowers), took two showers, and hosted a bunch of neighbors for wine and hors duerves"

She is a SAHM of 2 in a ritzy suburb in Connecticut and one of those women who is oh SO much better than you in every way. I keep her around for the laughs and the insight into how the other half lives (and lies).
kHate should take a page from her book!

PA Parent Anonymous said...

If she doesn't tell that ortho thank you but to please donate his services to six needy PA children in her honor, I will scream.

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When has she ever declined a freebie, especially one this expensive? She's not going to start now. She'll jump on this one like fleas on a dog. I hope you don't have bronchitis, because you're going to have to let out a holler and we'll hear you in PA!

Regarding scammy dentists. We had one here who wanted to do jaw surgery on one of my kids, somewhere in the ballpark of $10,000. He pushed it to the nth degree. Thank goodness I went elsewhere for a second opinion. He was appalled that the other dentist even suggested it and said there were other options. Everything worked out fine without any kind of invasive procedure. You have to be so careful.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

PA I don't think second opinions are encouraged enough when it comes to dental work but they should be! I think people think dental work is more exact than medicine but not if you have a used car salesman.

What was quoted as a $4300 invisalign treatment (and that's on the low end for that) was fixed by another dentist with a tiny bar behind my teeth I can't even feel. Final cost was a few hundred bucks or so.

PA Parent Anonymous said...

Kate is now at the point where she has to do next to NOTHING, her army does it for her.

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Kate could make money if she took some of her sheeple with her, and conducted grifting seminars around the country. One thing that Kate does well, and knows how to gets results, is grift. She could charge big bucks per person for the classes.

koopdedoo said...

fleas on a dog & a monkey on a cupcake...

these things make me smile!

I have 2 kids in braces, 1 graduated from braces. Expensive, we have no orthodontic coverage (and even the extra plan we could purchase had a 3 year waiting period (had to be enrolled for 3 years before you could use the coverage - no adult orthodontic coverage at all), and it only covered a minimal amount.

In my experience, they check the kids at this age, there are a few things they could do to make later orthodontic work go easier - cross bite can be fixed, palate can be expanded, lip bumper can help lower teeth gain more space.

My kids all started braces later than their classmates - just due to how late we lost baby teeth.

Anonymous said...

Since were kind of all talking about ortho care, you know teeth and all that kind of stuff. So Kate's kids might need braces. Most normal parents find ways to get them for their kids.

Today, it broke my heart because I had to take my 9 year old cat for dental surgery. Three teeth fell out on their own, he got a infection, tarter build up and all that. Brushing a cat's teeth is pretty hard to begin with but I honestly feel so miserable for him. The amount of pain he was in and he never had any signs of it.

I'm a college student, a little broke on occasion aren't we all in those days? But someone I managed to pay the over $100 to have my cat healthy again.

I mean I know braces are a fortune, I had them as a kid, but come on, Kate, I know you have the money you just won't put in any actual effort to really honestly provide for the ones you love.

If I recall, he got rid of the cats when the twins came along for some reason and she got rid of a dog with no explanation whatsoever. That dog who swallowed the stuffed animal, never sure if she paid the bill for the poor animal, even if she did I'm sure she complained to high heaven about it!

Providing is doing the best within your ability to do just that, provide. It doesn't even have to be your child it could be your pet. Right now I feel like the worst pet owner in the world. Heaven help if her dog ever has a stroke, needs a hip replacement as it ages and she "doesn't have the money."

PA Parent Anonymous said...

I think that's the place I went for my braces. What I am thinking of is there and at most orthodontist offices, the children are supposed to take responsibility during checkups. The child checks in, is called back alone, and gets the braces adjusted.

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I would make sure that an assistant is present AT ALL TIMES. I have always "gone back" with my kids. I don't care if they don't want parents there. Remember the Delaware pediatrician?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Whoa. When I saw the dentist without my mom there, it was a busy dentist office with two or three chairs lined up and two or three other kids being worked on. I was by no means alone in a room with a dentist.

One incident of something happening that is so rare I don't think by any means outweighs the value in a kid taking responsibility for his or her own teeth and care and to have a little sense of independence. I was 13 or 14 years old at the time, the last thing I want is my mom hovering over me every second on the .00001% chance I might get molested.

Tamara said...

With my orthdo doc my mum never came back but I was never alone either. Because there were at least 5 dentists chairs in a row back there, and nurse/assistants everywhere. Picking the two colours of the rubberbands (orange and black in October etc) and making sure I brushed well enough were the main concerns I had. That and the initial pain for about a day every time they were tightened.

readerlady said...

Admin, you better start warming up your vocal cords, because you're going to need to scream loud and long!

More freebies:

The train they took the kids to (with Thomas the Tank Engine)
Hannah's horseback riding
Mady's ear piercing
The hands on museum
The bakery where they made the tups birthday cupcakes (that the boys weren't allowed to eat)
The ceramics shop
Where ever that place was that the kids did the art work that Kate dictated
Teeth bleaching
Trip to San Diego for Kate and Mady
Trip to Utah for Jon and Cara
Jon's motorcycle that he wasn't allowed to keep
Skates for Cara
Music lessons (?)
Kate's spa visits
Free "bodyguards"
Free trees for the "estate"
Dolphin cove
Everglades airboat ride
Trip to Alaska
Trip to NYC and Statue of Liberty
Hockey game

Grifty has managed to con enough out of people for 2 lifetimes.


One more "charity" for Kate - Pediatric cancer. Proceeds from the "yard sale".

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Readerlady I don't know why I keep hoping Kate will decline whenever Kate gets a freebie. The definition of insanity is hoping for the same thing over and over expecting a different result, right? Or maybe I'm an eternal optimist.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

With my orthdo doc my mum never came back but I was never alone either. Because there were at least 5 dentists chairs in a row back there, and nurse/assistants everywhere.

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Exactly. I think some parents watch too much news and it's sad how it scares people. It's one thing to put your kid in real danger, like having him crawl under a van or filming him for five years and broadcasting it to millions and having a child molester edit the film--but quite another not to let your child at least go sit for the dentist in a busy office on his own like a big boy or girl--speak up for himself about problem areas, learn to clean his teeth himself, etc. Because of what a scary world it is I think it's a real worry that we're raising completely dependent kids never without their mommies holding their wrists. Necessary, maybe, but to what end.

Downeaster Alexa said...

Someone should tweet a link of Kate's house and cars to Damon Braces!

readerlady said...

Admin, no, you're someone with a moral compass who can't believe her eyes and ears when confronted with someone who has none. OTOH, maybe that does make you an eternal optimist.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

How many dental treatments can one Audi pay for? That front grill does kind of look like a pearly white smile!

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Actually if I recall I don't think parents were ALLOWED back at the dentist where I went. Maybe different offices have different policies. It's supposed to be a sanitary place. It's harder to do that with a lot of people back there with their purses and phones and jackets etc. It also can be scarier for kids to see mom watching them and maybe getting nervous or upset. Some kids will actually do better without Mom there pacing. Also, a dentist is trying to work on tiny mouths. That must be hard with parents there distracting them with questions and so on. I see why any dentist I've known doesn't allow it, and it never once crossed my mind there is a molestation risk. How can there be with lots of people around? You might as well go with your child to school and sit next to him in class if that's a worry.

Though...I guess with the recent semen spoon fiasco, anything is possible. What a sick world.

PA Parent Anonymous said...

Exactly. I think some parents watch too much news and it's sad how it scares people.

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It depends if it's a busy dentist's office or not. In a small town, there may not be a flock of assistants running around. In my case, there is one treatment room and one assistant at the time (I usually go after school, close to closing). I was in the waiting room, my child was with the dentist, and the assistant came out front to take a phone call about some insurance concerns. Then the light bulb went off. My child was alone with the dentist and we were new patients. I didn't know him. You can bet I went back there fast, and still do.

Call me paranoid, but I'd rather be paranoid on the side of caution. These are our kids!

Check Please! said...

Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 136
Even though Kate named her dentist which by the way I find deplorable and outrageous and a safety risk to her kids I ask that we not repeat what that negligent mother did. I have no power to remove that tweet.
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Considering the fact that this same orthodontist (not dentist-just FYI) had no problem being filmed, and having her office and staff filmed for an episode with Mady and Cara, I'm going to have to disagree that the tweet was deplorable,outrageous and a safety risk.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

So we can't leave our kids alone with anyone anymore? Not even professionals who are mandatory reporters? Sad.

As a kid we all used to have teacher meetings all the time, I've been alone with all kinds of adults. Girl scout leaders, Sunday school teachers, various relatives. Though I don't think my parents were bad parents or careless for letting me do that.

PA Parent Anonymous said...

I think that you're talking about an orthodontist being alone with kids and parents not being allowed in the treatment room. Kids are older at that age. I was commenting on an experience with the dentist. My child was three, not quite four, at the time.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

CHeck please how do you figure? What does the fact that they were being filmed years ago have to do with a tweet advertising the kids are going there NOW?

It's outrageous not because I give two shits about the dentist, but rather it advertises where the KIDS ARE.

It puts them at risk, period. Some perv can hang out at that office the next several days until they showed up. Someone could call up pretending to be Kate and get information. Like asking for an appointment reminder. How many times have I called a place like that asking or my appointment time. They just want my name. It's as easy as that.

WIth just one episode showing them going there there's no way anyone would assume they still go there or when they will go there.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

PA you were the one who questioned the other mom who let their good go see the dentist. Now you seem to be saying it's okay if your kid is older.

A three year old is a whole other story.

Check Please! said...

Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 142
I'm curious about the psychological impact of all that. At what point do you simply become conditioned to expect everything for free, and lose all sense of how the world normally works
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At what point indeed? Kate is well passed that point and has been for some time. Hence her whole, "I want to work in television" attitude. What is really unfortunate is how this has affected the children. They have grown up with constant attention and free crap; they know no other way of life. It will take time to get them back to a sense of normalcy.

Anonymous said...

'I was commenting on an experience with the dentist.'----No um you told someone who said they let their kid see the orthodontist by themselves that they shouldn't leave their kid alone. You made a rash judgment not knowing any of the facts like how old the kids are or what the set-up of the office is and made that person feel like a bad parent whose kid is gonna get molested and it wasn't necessary. Do you also post as out & About in berks? You sound the same.

PA Parent Anonymous said...

So we can't leave our kids alone with anyone anymore? Not even professionals who are mandatory reporters? Sad.

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Who can you trust? The pediatrician in Delaware who was charged with 33 felony counts of first- and second-degree rape (including an infant), sexual exploitation of a child by photo or film, and endangering the welfare of a child? He was a mandated reporter.

It is frightening that almost on a weekly basis we pick up the newspaper or hear a report on the news of an adult educator (a mandated reporter) who has been charged with molestation.

It certainly is sad that we can't trust anyone, and for that matter, can't always trust mandated reporters to do their job.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

It certainly is sad that we can't trust anyone, and for that matter, can't always trust mandated reporters to do their job.

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Of course then we're raising kids with trust issues. What are we to do.

I did have to laugh though at the sheep the other day who said the Gosselins don't need US they have plenty of people who are trained professionals who can handle it if need be and we should stay out of it. Ha! Like those people have done a thing for them. Maybe one tried, Murt. Please read Jaycee Lee Duggard's book where she begs readers to PLEASE speak up if they see anything wrong. It is astounding the amount of contact Jaycee had with the outside world and no one said anything if they felt something was off. She went to the vet for her cats, to various customers, made phone calls, had MANICURES, went to the beach. The beach! Went on a road trip to stay at another house once.

And FYI, some of us ARE trained professionals when it comes to child psychology, child abuse, and similar issues. I can't tell you how many MCLE's I've had on those various issues. Look that up. Hi sheep!

I still think the odds of anything happening at the dentist office are downright miniscule. I worry much more about other scenarios.

koopdedoo said...

I was kissed by a young dentist (on the cheek) at the end of an exam at the age of 15 (in the mid 1970s). Creeped me out, I didn't know who to tell, took me 6 months to tell my Mom.

Starz22 said...

Does this Milo person really think that kate is going to be pushing her around the ship? These people really don't know her do they? Kate is the ONLY one who gets a free ride!

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

The fact that one or two examples have been found of this happening doesn't mean it's still not minuscule, PA.

I am horrified about the LA teachers, but I still know that the odds of it happening are miniscule.

I am petrified of plane crashes, but it doesn't take away the fact that the odds of it happening are small.

It may not make you any less scared to get on a plane or send kids off to the big bad world, but the statistics are what they are.

If the dentist were a breading ground for child molesters it would be front page news. Most offices are just not set up to foster such a thing. It's rare any which way you slice it--though of course people will worry because people watch the news.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I had wondered that myself actually are you Berks? Something about your styles are very similar. And you both claim to be locals.

omg what if I get cancer!! said...

You could also get a brain tumor and die but I don't let it ruin my life asking for brain scans every time I go to the doctor. Live your life and do your best and not let the news keep you from having a happy life.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

lol so true.

Overbearing mothers let them breathe said...

until i hear one out of ten dentists are child molesters, I'm not changing my next appointment for junior. I'd rather a professional see him I think if I put the braces on it would be quite uneven.

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