Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Study: Lying makes you happier

Not that this is a big surprise, but here goes:

On April 7 Kate tweeted this:

“@XXXX you're so energetic miss gardener:) tomorrow we plant our organic veges inside then will move outside when they sprout yay!” 

However today, when someone asked if she had a garden, she tweeted this:

"no but my kids seem to think we need one"


Oh no she didn't!


According to studies, small embellishments can have positive psychological effects. In a 2008 study, researchers found that college students who exaggerated their GPA in interviews later showed improvement in their grades. Their fiction, in other words, became self-fulfilling. "Exaggerators tend to be more confident and have higher goals for achievement," said Richard Gramzow, a psychologist at the University of Southampton in England and one of the study's coauthors. "Positive biases about the self can be beneficial." People who deceive themselves also tend to be happier than people who do not, some research suggests. There are social payoffs, too: Studies have shown that people who lie frequently are viewed as friendlier and more amiable than their more truthful counterparts.

Kate's web of lies has caught up with her time and time again, and yet something keeps driving her to keep on spinning them. Is it because it makes her happier to put up such a facade?  


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Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said...

AuntieAnn said... 190
TLC stinks said... 144

Whaaat! No tweet concern about Gulf Breeze where she just spent her FREE beach vacay.
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I should say not. Yesterday or the day before she said she has eight "tornadoes" of her own to deal with. That's far worse than a silly hurricane somewhere where it's no concern of hers.
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What major event was going on that a pap asked her about when she was going to the dentist and she replied that SHE has a broken crown? Hells bells, a broken crown!!! Now that's a disaster?

FYI said...

Kate's twitter is no more than an ego trip for her. Tweets about how much her kids and her fans love her-retweets about how her fans love her. It's all about HER.

Still waiting for her tweet re the Special Olympic event next weekend. Oh wait, that's not about her, is it?

Mel said...

Right after this Mady, who thought the dinner was disgusting, says a scripted-sounding line about how appreciative (yes she actually says that) they all are for her making meals like this for them. (WTH)

Yeah, that was clearly scripted. Mady had an index card or piece of paper that she was holding under the table that she was reading from.

The realest of reality shows all right. Even the kids get scripted lines.

Localyocul said...

Mel said... 198
Right after this Mady, who thought the dinner was disgusting, says a scripted-sounding line about how appreciative (yes she actually says that) they all are for her making meals like this for them. (WTH)

Yeah, that was clearly scripted. Mady had an index card or piece of paper that she was holding under the table that she was reading from.

The realest of reality shows all right. Even the kids get scripted lines

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At one point you can also see where she starts to say her line too early and stops herself. LOL

The Bitter End said...

Crazy did as good of a job as anyone could do answering those questions. Just because you have a different opinion doesn't mean you are "ridiculing."

And really, it's very hard to have a reasoned discussion with some of the absurd things said. It's one thing to debate whether apples or oranges are better, quite another when someone tries to tell you apples are blue and oranges have rainbow colored polka dots.

Also I'm not sure what the point is of trying to gain insight into opinions. For what purpose? If it were peace in the middle east sure but it's Kate Gosselin for pity sake, lol. PLEASE move on from the blogs on blogs discussion. If you don't like the blog, then go away. Given how hard this is for people, I have this funny feeling they DO like this blog.
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There is no purpose in gaining insight into opinions on this, but just to see what I missed, I went back and read some of that discourse. It does seem that agreement is made as to whether Katie makes questionable decisions regarding the children. They will admit that things could have been done differently.

The line in the sand is the ex., or for that matter any other person that could be considered as being in authority such as Palin, TLC editing people, the sky jump guy or the river raft guide.

My take on this is it that there is a good deal of transference going on. There is no compassion for Jon's position or the reality of what went on in that marriage. They were in what they considered a bad marriage. Their ex didn't like their cooking - so Katie's a good cook. Their ex didn't spend enough time with the kids - so Jon didn't as well and of course Katie need help, who doesn't?. Their ex spent time at the sports bar watching games and flirting with the wait staff - so Jon did/does as well. Their ex banged the (whoever - neighbor, work associate, babysitter), so of course Jon did/does. They'll never reconsider this issue as they are looking at the situation from the point of view of their own failed marriage.

I think the "any other person of authority", deal is just a general stick it to the man because their life could have been so much better if that a$$hole they originally married had been a real husband.

Tucker's Mom said...

The kids applauding Kate eating dessert screams bad example for the girls. I sure hope none of those kids ever is overweight.

The Bitter End said...

I sure hope none of those kids ever is overweight.
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If they continue to eat Katie's slop, that won't be an issue.

Formerly Duped said...

The kids really slimmed down since their toddler days( and the divorce)...kids often do, but it's quite noticeable.

I watched a bit here & there of Home Roost. WHAT was that ugly centerpiece of brown balls in a dish at the table where Kate was showing off her empty manual of 'running our piece of the world?'

Kate freaked out about various tiny matters several times, from the mess form the PB sandwiches, to the hose, to the glass door. If the kids have to walk on eggshells so as not to set her off, it can't be a lot of fun around there.

They have alot of tables !

Maggie said...

I think the person responsible for the sitting, helping with homework, and even the housecleaning is Carla. If Carla is helping Kate out with all of this I wonder what Kate pays her and is it a fair pay.

Does anyone that lives in Kate's area know how far Carla lives from Kate?

Dwindle said...

Respectfully Disagree said... 186

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If I am the one who called you or someone else 'clueless' and you took offense, I apologize for offending you.

If I replied to one of your posts, or someone else's, in a nasty manner, calling names, accusatory about something, I deeply apologize.

I dont think I did, as I have been trying to ignore this whole topic till it goes away, but I may have posted something and dont recall it. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

My daughter and I have a running joke, based on the old Mad About You Tv series.
"was there at TONE?"
"No! Who, me? there was no tone."
"I heard a tone!"
"I didnt intend a tone!"
"There was definitely a tone..."
"Well, now YOU have a tone about me having a tone, which i definitly did not have!..."

What's done is done, can we please drop it already? I say this with all respect, but I cant tell what you hope to accomplish to continuing this an additional day.

Formerly Duped said...

Loved that show (Mad About You) And good point !

KAT said...

I say move on too....I mean...... I'm probably clueless 50% of the day...

Jane said...

Dwindle - it's lovely that you've offered an apology. I can't ever remember a fan apologizing, and they have plenty to apologize for!

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I'm not sure if Carla may help out but I was told they have an actual nanny who happens to have the same name as one of the girls. Maybe one of the locals could confirm if they're comfortable.

Sherry Baby said...

Dwindle said, "I dont think I did, as I have been trying to ignore this whole topic till it goes away, but I may have posted something and dont recall it. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry."

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I'm sorry, too, and I'm not sure if apologizing is enough. To quote President Andrew Shepherd in "The American President," -- "Well, I haven't worked that out yet, but I'm sure groveling will be involved."

readerlady said...

The fans don't apologize because they want to emulate their idol and KK has said she doesn't believe in apologies.

Interesting to read all the comments since I signed off at odarkthirty this morning. Put me down for the "I think it was well-done and respectful" re the Q&A session the other day. I mentally applauded Call Me Crazy at the time. She showed more patience and tact than I'd have been able to muster.

I loved "Mad About You" too. Wish I could find the complete series on DVD!

The Bitter End said...

I'll give one of the all time great Katie Irene lies...

Yes, yes, yes, sign up for the cruise!!!!!!!!!!!! The ship is great, we'll have so much fun!!!!!!!!!!! I can't wait to meet you!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

I don't think Kate's tweet about the garden really qualifies as a lie. Her intention to move plants outside may have never happened for any number of reasons and she probably forgot that she tweeted about the plants back in April so why would she need to qualify her "no garden" tweet?

And I am not saying that she never lies but I just don't see it regarding the garden tweets.

Maggie said...

Oprah will be having a TV series featuring the McGhee sextuplets. I think they are 2 years of age now. They were on her TV show a long time ago and Oprah gave them some goodies but I can't remember exactly what they were.

No doubt she is filming these 2 year olds hoping for a boost in rating for her sagging OWN network.

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White Organza said...

Altough I didn't participate in the exchange with Kate's fans, still, I would like to apologize for the shadenfreude I felt while reading Crazy's arguments after they sent their answers. There. I said it. I'm sorry. It's heartfelt. But it's worth what it's worth, tough: like KAT, I the first one to admit I'm clueless 50% of the time...

JudyK said...

Wow, am I ever behind...and I mean way behind. Too many real-life issues to deal with Kate's phoney-baloney facade.

Before I start reading from the beginning on this thread, I just LOVE your graphic on this thread, Adm!

Maggie said...

Oprah is having a TV series featuring the McGhee sextuplets this fall. They are around 2 years old. No doubt she is filming these toddlers in hope of boosting her sagging ratings.

NJGal51 said...

Another WTF moment on Toddlers & Tiaras where the parents sent a 4 year old on stage as bad girl Sandy (Grease) with a fake cigarette and told her not to forget to smoke. I didn't watch the show just saw the new article.

http://tinyurl.com/9rjvvgk

Crusin Just As Fast As She Can Now said...

Organza, 14..."There. I said it. I'm sorry. It's heartfelt. But it's worth what it's worth, tough: like KAT, I the first one to admit I'm clueless 50% of the time..."

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When it comes to figuring out Kate, I'm clueless 100 percent of the time. She's an enigma.

JudyK said...

Dwindle #4: Whoa (er, I mean "Woah"), I HAVE missed a lot. What the heck is goin' on! LOL.

Okay, I'll keep readin' and a readin'...maybe I'll get clued in.

Tucker's Mom said...

Maggie said... 16
Oprah is having a TV series featuring the McGhee sextuplets this fall. They are around 2 years old. No doubt she is filming these toddlers in hope of boosting her sagging ratings.
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OWN is really tanking.
I won't be watching. I think people have got to be getting clown car uterus fatigue. Yeah, seen it already. Ends badly. Moving along...

Sweet Tart said...

I just wanted to share my own personal brief experience with a compulsive liar. In college, I had a roommate who was a compulsive liar, although I didn't realize it at first. As we mutually exchanged personal info about ourselves, and shared stories of our past experiences, it slowly dawned on me that she had a whole slew of extreme life experiences. For a 20-year old girl, she'd experienced a lot. An example: She explained the reason she had to take birth control pills was because she had lost an ovary when she had been kicked by a horse in high school. According to her, she worked at a local horse riding school, cleaning out the stalls, helping to groom the horses, etc. One day, she happened to walk behind a horse who then spooked, kicking her with its hind hooves. This sent her flying ____ feet (the number of feet was ever changing).

Another story was about the time she was biking with a large group of high school students and some parents, including her father. Her father was just ahead of her when a car came dangerously close. In fear for her father, she yelled out and then lost control of her bike, sending her plummeting down a steep embankment. If not for her helmet, she would have probably suffered permanent brain damage.

Another story involved how she was a package courier for international corporations during summer breaks, and the various dangerous situations that she got mixed up in; how she nearly ruptured an eardrum in some freak hot air balloon accident; and on and on.

Like Kate, this girl also seemed lie even when the truth was perfectly fine. She would lie about the simplest things, almost as if she was nearly incapable of being honest. If I asked her if she'd seen a mutual acquaintance that day, she might say yes when she hadn't seen them at all; or say no, when she spent an hour chatting with them in the common room earlier that evening. Why? I have no idea.

Like Kate, she would also shrug off any attempts to point out her lies, or "mistakes." She would say the other person was mis-stating what she said, or had misunderstood her. She would get upset and have a melt down, start crying about how her mother was sick and her dad couldn't send her any money, try to get people to feel sorry for her and forget about her lies. It was all very weird for me, as I'd never experienced anything like it.

Like Kate, this roommate could never accept responsibility for any of her actions. It was always someone else that caused her to behave that way, or some situation that stressed her out and "made her do it."

This roommate ended up trying to leave me footing the bill for over $400 in telephone charges. Who knows why she and Kate compulsively lie. It doesn't really matter, because they both live in an alternate reality than the rest of us. The sad thing in Kate's case is that she has 8 young children under her care, forced to go along with their mom's twisted view of reality.

AuntieAnn said...

Miss Marple said...

And I am not saying that she never lies but I just don't see it regarding the garden tweets.
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It's more the idea that she makes it out as if it was a figment of someone else's imagination. It never existed. Period. No seedlings were inside or out of her house. Kate makes you think you're nuts for saying there ever were seedlings and talk of a garden. Someone said it was gaslighting and could not have called it better.

AuntieAnn said...

Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said... 196

What major event was going on that a pap asked her about when she was going to the dentist and she replied that SHE has a broken crown? Hells bells, a broken crown!!! Now that's a disaster?

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Tweet-le - that's right. How dare there be disasters other than her own?

I found it on Celebrity Gossip:

"As she walked past on-hand paparazzi, the former TLC reality star was asked if the recent Italian cruise ship disaster would derail her summertime Royal Caribbean fan voyage, which she opted not to answer while simply saying that her tooth was killing her."

Tucker's Mom said...

I dated a liar. Thought I was going to go crazy. He'd constantly lie about where he was and what he was doing. It was so frustrating and I always felt off balance with him.

chefsummer #Leh said...

Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 118
I have to say homework can quickly get over a parent's head when they start to reach the twins age, especially math and science.....but eight year olds, come on Kate. Get off your lazy butt and help them yourself.
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Yes but did Kate take some sorta of math and science in order to become a nurse.

I think she just to freaking lazy to put effort into help the 8 with the HW.

AuntieAnn said...

Dwindle said... 4
If I am the one who called you or someone else 'clueless' and you took offense, I apologize for offending you.

If I replied to one of your posts, or someone else's, in a nasty manner, calling names, accusatory about something, I deeply apologize.

I dont think I did, as I have been trying to ignore this whole topic till it goes away, but I may have posted something and dont recall it. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
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Dwindle - I suggest we do some gaslighting of our own.
What topic?
There was no topic about this.
You're crazy if you think there was a discussion about cluelessness. Didn't happen.

Tamara said...

Sweet Tart, that is an amazing experience. Any idea what happened to your ex roommate? Did you ever get to meet her parents?

It must be absolutely maddening, confusing, and just plain scary to be the child of a compulsive liar. With the Gosselin kids it's just another form of abuse they have to survive. It seems so little in their lives is stable.

AuntieAnn said...

Tucker's Mom said... 17

OWN is really tanking.
I won't be watching. I think people have got to be getting clown car uterus fatigue. Yeah, seen it already. Ends badly. Moving along...
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HAHAHA!! Clown car uterus fatigue. Medical journal contributors should write that one down.

Sweet Tart said...

The Bitter End ... 200
.. They were in what they considered a bad marriage. Their ex didn't like their cooking - so Katie's a good cook. Their ex didn't spend enough time with the kids - so Jon didn't as well and of course Katie need help, who doesn't?. Their ex spent time at the sports bar watching games and flirting with the wait staff - so Jon did/does as well. Their ex banged the (whoever - neighbor, work associate, babysitter), so of course Jon did/does. They'll never reconsider this issue as they are looking at the situation from the point of view of their own failed marriage.
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Wow, that is very insightful and it makes a lot of sense. I have always wondered why a large number of people who identify as fans of Kate absolutely hate Jon, and will refer to his brief period where he drank too much and ran a little wild as if it were ongoing, or happened recently. It sure seems fresh in their mind, and they seem unable to accept that he's not behaving that way anymore, nor that perhaps he had good reason to run a little wild.

I will always believe Jon stayed in that marriage and did his best for waaaaaaaaaaaaay longer than almost any other guy. I don't understand how Kate's fan cannot see that the way she treated Jon was disgraceful. Neither spouse should yell at their husband/wife in the middle of Toys-R-Us, and berate them like a little kid. Neither spouse should slap the other in the face and then joke it was a "love tap." Neither spouse should tell the kids, "Mommy/Daddy is so mean" or otherwise talk negatively about the other parent to the children.

Kate did all of those things and more, yet her fans absolutely refuse to admit it. It was shown right on the show, episode after episode. They refuse to admit that Kate has an inappropriate relationship with her "body guard" and in fact never needed a body guard in the first place. They refuse to admit she put her wants and desires first, and dismissed Jon's wants and desires completely. They will not admit that Kate allowed the film crew to film her children involved in activities that should always remain private!

But the fact that Jon -- in the midst of having his marriage dissolve, being told that the marriage was in name only, conflicted and suddenly set adrift after years of being micro-managed by Kate -- pounds down some beers at the local bar and parties a few times in Vegas, is a sin for which they can neither forgive nor forget.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

And yet when Kate leaves crying kids behind to go get drunk in NYC all weekend it's totally fine because mommies deserve a break.

NJGal51 said...

Testing....I posted something which appeared then disappeared. Strange.

Tucker's Mom said...

But the fact that Jon -- in the midst of having his marriage dissolve, being told that the marriage was in name only, conflicted and suddenly set adrift after years of being micro-managed by Kate -- pounds down some beers at the local bar and parties a few times in Vegas, is a sin for which they can neither forgive nor forget.
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Agree. I can certainly forgive Jon for his crazy behavior when the marriage ended, and I've been very critical of him at times.

Tucker's Mom said...

Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 26
And yet when Kate leaves crying kids behind to go get drunk in NYC all weekend it's totally fine because mommies deserve a break.
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It must have hurt the kids feelings that Kate would pick up and leave them behind. The divorce was fresh and they needed her physically there. Didn't Cara cry?

AuntieAnn said...

Yes Cara cried. She cried when Ashley left too on the RV trip. How many times has she felt abandoned when other people left her life that were not shown or talked about? I worry about her.

JudyK said...

What's going on here? What happened to my post...it was here, then it totally disappeared.

chefsummer #Leh said...

Admi

Sure kids homework can go over a parents head but didn't Kate math & science.

In order to become a nurse.-lol

I mean the kids are 8&12 it not like their in high school so how hard can their homework be?

AuntieAnn said...

Magical thinking Judy.

chefsummer #Leh said...

STUDY: Lying makes you happier.

Kate must be in a euphoric state then cause she lies like no tomorrow.

Sweet Tart said...

Hi Tamara,

No, I don't know what ever happened to her. We were roommates for the first half year of college. After the fiasco with the telephone bill, I requested a move to another dorm room, and she continued on in the same room, but alone.

She was not ostracized, and she had friends at our small college. I did hear from mutual acquaintances that this was her third year in the dorms, and that she had barely passing grades. People assumed her parents continued to foot the bill because they didn't know what else to do with her. Unlike Kate, she seemed to have some fairly decent social skills and I could see her landing a job either with or without a college degree, but eventually her perpetual lying would have to catch up with her.

chefsummer #Leh said...

Administration.

Sure homework can be over a parents head.

But didn't Kate have to take math & science in order to become a nurse?

Also the kids are 8 & 12 so how hard can their homework be?

It's not like the twins are in college & he six are in HS.

Their doing grade school homework.

Kate's just to lazy to help the 8.

Formerly Duped said...

Lie: fake Christmas. I wonder if other holidays and birthdays were staged? A really false sense of reality for those kids.

jclentie said...

Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 52

Crazy did as good of a job as anyone could do answering those questions. Just because you have a different opinion doesn't mean you are "ridiculing."

And really, it's very hard to have a reasoned discussion with some of the absurd things said. It's one thing to debate whether apples or oranges are better, quite another when someone tries to tell you apples are blue and oranges have rainbow colored polka dots.

Also I'm not sure what the point is of trying to gain insight into opinions. For what purpose? If it were peace in the middle east sure but it's Kate Gosselin for pity sake, lol. PLEASE move on from the blogs on blogs discussion. If you don't like the blog, then go away. Given how hard this is for people, I have this funny feeling they DO like this blog.
August 29, 2012 10:02 PM
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I don't think this discussion is blogs on blogs. This is a discussion of a subject that is always rampant here; sheeple and what they say or how they justify things.
Crazy was respectful in her questions. But no where did Crazy say she wanted to discuss those answers.

And the sheeple didn't ask her for a response to her statements. The only questions asked by the sheeple were for clarification.
Crazy said she wanted to understand the sheeple better. All she did was ask questions, then take the answers and try to refute everything they said. That's not discussion or trying to understand the "other side".
Admin, you can try to justify it but the fact remains that though some sheeple are tolerated here for a short time, most of them are ridiculed and called names (Kate) and trolls and others.
I don't agree with the sheeple in lots of areas but I think even they, especially the ones who post here politely, should be ignored at the most and treated nicely.

Formerly Duped said...

" I was just at Target again today! I know all my target employees by name- It's social hr for me too!I love them all'

Doesn't the MY employees irk everyone? Is she wanting be a spokesperson? She somehow manages to make them sound 'mediocre' and to feel the largesse of the love she bestows upon her employees..

Tucker's Mom said...

Does anyone know what "discount grocery" Kate goes to? Just wondering because places like Bottom Dollar don't do organic much, so she can't be buying organic everything for cheap.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

It's blogs on blogs because it's discussing the posters and how the blog is run and not the issues, period. So stop.

The sheeple didn't ask for a response? Lol. Don't post on a blog active like this one then act surprised you get a response.

jclentie said...



Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 152

What's also pitiful is that someone gave that much airtime to a bunch of kids, their mother, friend, sucking on lollipops on a ferry- AND presuming that it's entertaining t.v.

PAINFULLY BORING. Running through the streets in frustration boring. Jamming forks into my eyes, because it's more entertaining than that sh*t boring.

Dear God, thank you for eliminating that stupid series. How about getting rid of the other stupid shows on Discovery/TLC?
August 30, 2012 9:39 AM
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Just wondering why if it was that horrible why you watched it? Why would you faithfully watch something you abhor?

Ex Nurse said...

Admin--
Didn't see the "peanut-free" comment until now. I tried to post the Section 504 information yesterday, before I left for a few hours--, but it was too long and didn't go through. By the time I edited it down, you had put up new post, so I copied it in to this thread before reading.

BTW, I had figured out that the google names weren't secure when I was setting it up, but didn't say so because I didn't want to tip anyone off. I really wish that you would get rid of the "Anonymous" and just put instructions on choosing a name in the rules. It is a small thing, but it may slow the drive-bys down.

Berks Resident said...

Still waiting for her tweet re the Special Olympic event next weekend. Oh wait, that's not about her, is it?
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Nope. I had gone to the Y102 website and the flyer doesn't list Kart's name. I don't usually listen to that station but yesterday when I was at school it's the only station I can get, so I turned it on. They had a commercial on for it and her name was not mentioned either.

I have a friend who is running in this, and I just might have to check it out myself...

SeeSaw said...

I know all of MY Target employees? WTH? I go to Target all of the time and there are dozens and dozens of employees there. Okay, maybe you might recognize one or two if you go often enough. But the only way you would know "MY" employees is if you demand special treatment and the same poor folks have to help you each time.

Tamara said...

Formerly Duped said... 36
Lie: fake Christmas. I wonder if other holidays and birthdays were staged? A really false sense of reality for those kids.
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A LOT was staged, rehearsed, and filmed and never shown. Trips were taken that were never even eluded to on the show. One of the bigger dupes was that the younger 6 didn't even know all of the shows were being watched by the general public, or that the JK8 DVDs they watched so much were being sold and watched by the rest of the world.

jclentie said...

Heide said... 183

Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 132

I agree with the poster who says they come here to prove we are "haters." They come here and post outlandish things about Kate that couldn't possibly be true then get upset when someone calls them out on their ridiculous statements and run away crying about how mean the people are here.
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Yes!!!
August 30, 2012 10:56 AM

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Whyy would you call all the posts from Kate fans outlandish? They aren't all outlandish. Some are well-thought out and thought provoking. They may be different from our opinions but that doesn't make them outlandish or justify being mean to them. IMO anyway.

Berks Resident said...

" I was just at Target again today! I know all my target employees by name- It's social hr for me too!I love them all'

Doesn't the MY employees irk everyone? Is she wanting be a spokesperson? She somehow manages to make them sound 'mediocre' and to feel the largesse of the love she bestows upon her employees
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If she only knew how some of her Target employees felt about her! No lie!

jclentie said...

Mel said... 198

Right after this Mady, who thought the dinner was disgusting, says a scripted-sounding line about how appreciative (yes she actually says that) they all are for her making meals like this for them. (WTH)

Yeah, that was clearly scripted. Mady had an index card or piece of paper that she was holding under the table that she was reading from.

The realest of reality shows all right. Even the kids get scripted lines.
August 30, 2012 11:27 AM
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That is not true, it was her napkin.

Midnight Madness said...

Doesn't the MY employees irk everyone? Is she wanting be a spokesperson?

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I wonder if Kate knows how HER employees turn around and talk about her behind her back?

Everything is MY, My, My -- she can't even tweet without suggesting that everything belongs to her, even employees.

Does she realize that she's doing this?


"Crazy was respectful in her questions. But no where did Crazy say she wanted to discuss those answers. All she did was ask questions, then take the answers and try to refute everything they said. That's not discussion"

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So she had to qualify it first, by writing a disclaimer saying that the answers may be subject to further comments? Come on...

"That's not discussion."

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If responding to answers isn't a discussion, then what the heck is it?

"I don't agree with the sheeple in lots of areas but I think even they, especially the ones who post here politely, should be ignored at the most and treated nicely."

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I think that most posters try to ignore them, but they just keep hammering away, trying to get everyone riled up. Please tell us how to get them to move on if they refuse.

capecodmama said...

As a parent who had to hire a tutor (along with the extra help from her teachers) to help my youngest daughter with her math from 8th grade right through high school, I will give Kate credit if she does have a tutor to help the kids. When it came to math, my poor daughter, unfortunately, was just like me. Math was a brick wall. Luckily my oldest daughter was just like my husband. Math and science was a breeze.

LaLaLandNoMore said...

I did not wake up soon enough where the Gosselin's are concerned, but did learn a lot from Aunt Jody's sister when she wrote for GWOP. One of the worst examples is how all of that food at the "fake Christmas" was furnished by the network and Jon kept complimenting Kate on so many "family traditional" dishes. Joke was on us, until we came out of our TLC coma. We were being fed their story over and over again. Twists and turns like no one could believe. I do know one thing. Michelle Duggar would never, never disrespect her "wonderful" husband Jim Bob. We saw Jon put down over and over again. He seemed to try. Kate didn't. I know the Duggar's might be scripted, too, but Michelle appears to be sincerely sweet. Kate never appeared to be nice, not even a little bit. Kate wants to be a "stah." Lies to try to make herself more important than she really is. She is uncomfortable in her own skin. Easy to see it and trying to relive her glory days isn't working.

readerlady said...

Sweet Tart and Tucker's Mom -- I agree with you 100%. What Jon did just before and just after the divorce was immature and not very smart, but it was completely understandable. Unfortunately, there are always going to be those who won't let him move past it, regardless of what he does. He could walk on water, or rescue a hundred threatened orphans from some unimaginable disaster and some in the media and all of KKs fans would still portray him as a deadbeat dad who deserted his wife and 8, count 'em 8, children.

Don't you just LOVE the way she posts a drive by like she got 2 whole carts of organic food for only $109, but doesn't bother to say HOW she did it? And this is the person who is supposed to be writing a couponing blog teaching others how to save money in their daily lives? In what universe?

Anonymous said...

Berks said, If she only knew how some of her Target employees felt about her! No lie!

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I'll second that!

"Some are well-thought out and thought provoking."

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I think you could omit the word "thought" before provoking, and you'd probably be accurate.

Dwindle said...

"... Duct Tape that made 8 kids squeal w delight!"


ROFLMAO!!! Ok, Kate, you win this round, for now! I didnt know, ummm... honestly... umm.... that you had this much sense of humor! All 8 kids SQUEALED WITH DELIGHT over Duct Tape. 8 years old and nearly 12 year olds. LOL! Duct Tape! OK, you made a little jab at us and my hat is off to you coz this one is funny!!! Good job Kate.

Tomorrow will they 'dance happily with joy about a box of garbage bags!!!'???

Stay tuned!!!!

At least ya spelled Duct Tape correctly, Kate. Good job, alot of folks call it duck tape.

"... Duct Tape that made 8 kids squeal w delight!" I am still laughing at your joke at us, Kate. Good one! You arent quite ready for Comedy Central, but this one was funny.

jclentie said...

readerlady said... 52
What Jon did just before and just after the divorce was immature and not very smart, but it was completely understandable. Unfortunately, there are always going to be those who won't let him move past it, regardless of what he does. He could walk on water, or rescue a hundred threatened orphans from some unimaginable disaster and some in the media and all of KKs fans would still portray him as a deadbeat dad who deserted his wife and 8, count 'em 8, children.

August 30, 2012 2:03 PM
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With all due respect this is exactly how some people see Kate. Some of her fans seem to see that she has moved on from some behaviors and don't hold her responsible for all the things she has done in the past.
I can do that with Kate same as with Jon.

Dwindle said...

" I was just at Target again today! I know all my target employees by name- It's social hr for me too!I love them all"


OMG, Kate, get a life. A social hour? Oh, Kate... Do you know how they ridicule you behind your back? And it's a social hour for you? Oh, dear God... Kate, cant you try to make just one friend? Just one? Read a book about how to do it, take a class on it, get therapy, something. Now I am back to pitying you a bit, again.

jclentie said...

Have you seen all the new duct tape designs? They are awesome. My kids get very excited over them too.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Wha??? behavior hasn't changed. It's gotten worse. Examples please. I stand by my outlandish statement. What behavior have the fans forgiven. I've never seen them say that because Kate never does Anthing wrong.


A fan gave her Justin Bieber duct tape. WHY????? Hey fan many kids with cancer are huge Bieber fans. Send them something.

Tucker's Mom said...

Life's like a box of chocolates for Kate, ya never know what your going to grift.

Anonymous said...

Readerlady said 52
Don't you just LOVE the way she posts a drive by like she got 2 whole carts of organic food for only $109, but doesn't bother to say HOW she did it? And this is the person who is supposed to be writing a couponing blog teaching others how to save money in their daily lives? In what universe?
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That was exactly my thought! That would have made a perfect blog for Kate- tell us how you bought 2 carts of groceries- organic no less- for 100 bucks. That would be some useful tips.

KAT said...

"My employees"...I'm still laughing at that one. Everything is hers, she owns everything, she's the best at everything, she knows everything, she the biggest star in the world, shes the most important person in the world, she the most beautiful, the most fortunate, she should be the highest almighty queen of the Universe...how could we survive without her? Her delusions are OFF. THE. WALL....SORRY..I JUST WANT TO THROW THIS WOMAN OFF A CLIFF...

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Jcpentie I recapped the show for the blog so I watched it. Any other comments you want to dredge up from over a year ago?

Fleecing The Sheeple said...

Calling Crazy!

We had a discussion today, well not-a-discussion about your responses to a sheeple's answers for which you didn't ask permission to give which were followed by comments by disrespectful clueless posters who weren't really uninformed, but simply cluelessly stupid (and disrespectful) for allegedly suggesting that the aforementioned sheeple were morons.

What did I say? I have no idea because I'm clueless. Bring on the Rumspringa!

AuntieAnn said...

I do applaud duct tape myself. If something can't be fixed with duct tape it cannot be fixed.
However, the last time I bought it at the local co-op and brought it through the door there was no cheering crowd to greet me, I was not crowned queen for a day, no one poured me a rumspringa or rubbed my feet.

I feel so unappreciated at times.

jclentie said...

Oh I don't think so. I think her behavior has changed a lot. I saw her take responsiblity for being harsh with Jon on national tv. I see her speak lovingly of her kids.
I don't see her as being mean to her kids. I think she has mellowed since the tups have gotten older, doesn't seem to be so anxious over every little thing.
Seems to me that Kate is getting argged on for things that people saw on their program years ago and think that she is still like that. The fact is you and I and everyone here really do not know. As it should be.
So I'll put the question right back to you:
Examples please.
Examples of Kate treating her kids badly. Examples of Kate treating Jon badly. He said things were fine between them now. He called her a great mom. He knows far better than we do how Kate is. Again, as it should be.

Dwindle said...

AuntieAnn said... 22
Dwindle said... 4
If I am the one who called you or someone else 'clueless' and you took offense, I apologize for offending you.

If I replied to one of your posts, or someone else's, in a nasty manner, calling names, accusatory about something, I deeply apologize.

I dont think I did, as I have been trying to ignore this whole topic till it goes away, but I may have posted something and dont recall it. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
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Dwindle - I suggest we do some gaslighting of our own.
What topic?
There was no topic about this.
You're crazy if you think there was a discussion about cluelessness. Didn't happen.

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What didnt happen? What? And who are you calling a gaslighter or gasbag or whatever you called me? You call me a gasbag and then immediately say it didnt happen!

It is not my fault that I have gas! How dare this blog ridicule and criticize people with disabilities!! Are you saying I am not welcome here because I fart so much you can light it!??! All you people ever do here is lie lie lie! I bet you dont mind it when JON farts, since every single one of you loves him so much you each wanna have his baby!

A bunch of mean old Aunties, that is what you all are! The Old Aunties Club, that is what you all are! And your Admin, I happen to know brags about knowing her letters J&D, only because she got a B+ in Nursery School shoe tying! And I know letters too!

aggiemom09121416 said...

Auntie Ann #64 said
I do applaud duct tape myself. If something can't be fixed with duct tape it cannot be fixed.
However, the last time I bought it at the local co-op and brought it through the door there was no cheering crowd to greet me, I was not crowned queen for a day, no one poured me a rumspringa or rubbed my feet.

I feel so unappreciated at times.

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Add to the list a glue gun and zip ties! yay!
I am sorry you feel unappreciated....can I send you a gift card??
(be sure and squeal with delight when you get it! just send me your address!)

Dwindle said...

I said I was sorry for whatever, and I meant it, but I REFUSE to walk on eggshells around here.

THAT would just be plain Anti-Rumspringa, and I dont swing that way.

Unless of course Admin tells me to come down off the chandelier and behave myself. :-)

Crusin Just As Fast As She Can Now said...

Some of her fans seem to see that she has moved on from some behaviors and don't hold her responsible for all the things she has done in the past.

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Which fans might those be? I thought all of the fans have thought Kate to be a saint, the Mother of all Mothers, the perfect woman, the role model, the one they are dying to meet who has never done anything wrong because everything has been Jon's fault. What behaviors have they excused?

Julianna said...

JClentie said: Examples of Kate treating her kids badly. Examples of Kate treating Jon badly.

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You're serious, aren't you?

Dwindle said...

AuntieAnn said... 64
I do applaud duct tape myself. If something can't be fixed with duct tape it cannot be fixed.
However, the last time I bought it at the local co-op and brought it through the door there was no cheering crowd to greet me, I was not crowned queen for a day, no one poured me a rumspringa or rubbed my feet.

I feel so unappreciated at times.
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Poor Auntie. (sad face).

HunnyBunny first day on the new auto mechanics job last week at a car dealership, and of course no official uniforms yet for the first day.. I suggested that black work pants and black Tshirt would appropriate.

So what do I see coming out of the bedroom that first morning? A black T shirt with a saying on it that says "Show me the Duct Tape and I can fix anything!"

No, Hunny, let's go change now... you can wear that on your SECOND day...

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Jc respectfully you can look back through the blog to see the 100s of examples of Kate's terrible parenting. Or start with her own blog and the globe peeling post. I am not interested in justifying once again why I feel the way I do when it's all documented so thoroughly here. I'm not interested in proving it to you.

KAT said...

Awwww AuntieAnn....I'll rub your feet....for a small fee!!

Formerly Duped said...

jclentie:

Even if was a napkin, the line was definitely scripted by TLC or by Kate. Mady said she hated the disgusting egg meal. Looked like an index card on her R leg IMO. If you want examples of Kate NOT changing, either read her Twitter or look at the images, read her CC blog. She is fake and pathetic. I would love to see her change for the better for the kids' sake.

OK, that's as far as I will play .

AuntieAnn said...

LOL Dwindle! We'll make sure to hold the Old Aunties Club Rumpsringa Fall Social on the patio of a nursing home.

I won't walk on eggshells either. I don't care if they don't like me. I WILL ignore them until they acknowledge there is something horribly wrong with Kate's behavior. I wish they'd turn their concern about us into concern about her. She seriously needs to seek PROFESSIONAL THERAPY.

jclentie said...

Julianna said... 69

JClentie said: Examples of Kate treating her kids badly. Examples of Kate treating Jon badly.

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You're serious, aren't you?
August 30, 2012 2:35 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Read the whole thing. Now is the operative word.

Dwindle said...

butterfly said... 60
Readerlady said 52
Don't you just LOVE the way she posts a drive by like she got 2 whole carts of organic food for only $109, but doesn't bother to say HOW she did it? And this is the person who is supposed to be writing a couponing blog teaching others how to save money in their daily lives? In what universe?
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That was exactly my thought! That would have made a perfect blog for Kate- tell us how you bought 2 carts of groceries- organic no less- for 100 bucks. That would be some useful tips.
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Actually she has in the past. I will try to remember what the topics were. Not groceries. But her secrets are to watch for sales, use coupons and use gift cards.

NO LIE! If you make her post about this, she will say she 'found' gift cards she didnt know she had and that is how she did it.

Moose Mania said...

A black T shirt with a saying on it that says "Show me the Duct Tape and I can fix anything!"

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Was his Justin Bieber tee shirt in the laundry?

NJGal51 said...

Well I know that my husband is going to buy me the new iPhone when it comes out becasue I just bought him a roll of....you guessed it....DUCT TAPE!!!!! All I heard were squeals of delight as he and the bulldog danced around the room in joy! Maybe DUCT TAPE should be the password at the next party.

AuntieAnn said...

Oh KAT thank you. I will even take my socks and crocks off and wash my feet first.

(Dmasy has turned me into a fashion ho)

KAT said...

jcientie@65....ARE YOU FOR REAL????!!!

Dwindle said...

jclentie said... 75
Julianna said... 69

JClentie said: Examples of Kate treating her kids badly. Examples of Kate treating Jon badly.

8888888888

You're serious, aren't you?
August 30, 2012 2:35 PM
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Read the whole thing. Now is the operative word
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Well, I dont have anything TODAY, but there was the globe incident, where she had the kids vote on who looked the guiltiest and they decided it was Joel. that is emotional abuse.

capecodmama said...

Dwindle...

OMG you crack me up. Have a Rumspringa on me and you can swing on that chandelier as long as you want. Have fun!

jclentie said...

Not interested in proving it to me but you want me to give you examples?

Even if it were a napkin...

As far as I will play?

That doesn't sound like a back and forth tome. It sounds unfair, deflecting, and condescending.

I wasn't being facetious I was being serious. I don't have a problem with some of Kate's actions being talked about and not liked. It just doesn't seem like there is any room for other than hate. I'd sure like to see that changed.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Globe peeling. Start there. Current.

I didn't refuse to provide examples I said they are all documented here. I'm not a personal research assistant who wants to regurgitate whats all here if you can do your own reading.

Read this blog cover to cover them report back if you have any further questions.

Julianna said...

"Read the whole thing. Now is the operative word."

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I read..."Examples of Kate treating her kids badly. Examples of Kate treating Jon badly."

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Sorry! I didn't see the word "now" after those two sentences!
I am so clueless. Now I have to look up the definition of "operative." Is that like a CIA operative?

jclentie said...

What was so bad about the globe thing? Joely peeled a part off the globe. The other kids told. Really? Did you hear or see that Kate whipped him? Sent him to bed with no supper? No.

Next? Here's the thing. Jon acted horribly before and during and after the divorce. Kate acted horribly. Jon is getting a pass. Kate isn't. Kate is getting ragged on because of things that happened years ago. And don't bother saying it isn't so. There are so many references to years ago that it isn't funny. Just be fair.

pink slime said...

Looks to me like Katie has hired a PR blogger to help her out here. Sorry, we are on to you.

Amy2 said...

I was just at Target again today! I know all my target employees by name- It's social hr for me too!I love them all about an hour ago
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Don't Target employees wear nametags. Ha ha, know them all by name. As for "my target employees...", good grief.

Anonymous said...

jclentie said... 83
Not interested in proving it to me but you want me to give you examples?

Even if it were a napkin...

As far as I will play?

That doesn't sound like a back and forth tome. It sounds unfair, deflecting, and condescending.

I wasn't being facetious I was being serious. I don't have a problem with some of Kate's actions being talked about and not liked. It just doesn't seem like there is any room for other than hate. I'd sure like to see that changed.

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That will never change here. The Administrator and regulars like to talk big about their ability to disagree, but the reality is that unless you agree that Kate Gosselin is the devil incarnate, your opinion is not and has never been welcome here. Only if you subscribe to the basic principle that Kate is Satan are you allowed to disagree on subjects such as public vs. private school without being spoken to in the manner in which you are being addressed now. There is no room for moderate viewpoints.

Fleecing The Sheeple said...

jclentie said... 83, I don't have a problem with some of Kate's actions being talked about and not liked. It just doesn't seem like there is any room for other than hate. I'd sure like to see that changed.

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YOU don't have a problem? Is a blog hijacking in the works?

jclentie said...

pink slime said... 87
Looks to me like Katie has hired a PR blogger to help her out here. Sorry, we are on to you.

August 30, 2012 2:59 PM
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And it begins. I am not a blogger or anythinf FOR Kate. I am not a fan of Kate. I just don't see all this the same way most of you do. And like I said in my first post, my main point was that posts like yours is why I lurk mostly. Any dissention from the hate on Kate leads to meanness.

Mel said...

That is not true, it was her napkin.

Well, whatever it was, piece of paper or napkin, she was reading off of it. She started to read her line too early, caught herself, stopped mid-sentence, then read the whole sentence a few seconds later.

Mady did something similar at Mount Rushmore. Actually saying to Kate, who tried to shush her, that she didn't get her line right and she wanted to say it over.

How many kids in regular conversation with you, say, "Oh, I didn't get my line right. I want to say it over"?

Uh....what line, kid? The one the producer gave you to say? That one?



KAT said...

I think there's room for a second person on that cliff......

jclentie said...


Fleecing The Sheeple said... 90

jclentie said... 83, I don't have a problem with some of Kate's actions being talked about and not liked. It just doesn't seem like there is any room for other than hate. I'd sure like to see that changed.

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YOU don't have a problem? Is a blog hijacking in the works?
August 30, 2012 3:01 PM

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Not at all. This was much like when a poster (not Admin) here says "Move along" or "If you don't like it here don't come back".

See? That should be simpe for you to understand, no?

KAT said...

If you don't see things like we do...maybe you should leave and stop wasting our time....I. for one am not changing my mind about that monster. I'still find it amazing she's not in jail after all the scamming she has done...

jclentie said...

Mel said... 92

That is not true, it was her napkin.

Well, whatever it was, piece of paper or napkin, she was reading off of it. She started to read her line too early, caught herself, stopped mid-sentence, then read the whole sentence a few seconds later.

Mady did something similar at Mount Rushmore. Actually saying to Kate, who tried to shush her, that she didn't get her line right and she wanted to say it over.

How many kids in regular conversation with you, say, "Oh, I didn't get my line right. I want to say it over"?

Uh....what line, kid? The one the producer gave you to say? That one?



August 30, 2012 3:04 PM

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Watch them again. That is not what happened.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Jc apparently you didn't read closely enough. Joel didn't do it. He was innocent, one of the girls did it, and yet for No ReASON was falsely accused. It was bullshit. Oh and Kate never apologized to the poor kid.

I don't know what to tell you. If you can't see that then we have a fundamentally different set of values and any discussion is in my opinion pointless. It's not that you aren't allowed to say, but you can't force anyone to have much of a response of they're tired of beating a dead horse.

jclentie said...

KAT said... 95

If you don't see things like we do...maybe you should leave and stop wasting our time....I. for one am not changing my mind about that monster. I'still find it amazing she's not in jail after all the scamming she has done...
August 30, 2012 3:10 PM

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If you don't ike my posts why don't you just skip over them and not respond? Maybe you don't want to stop hating Kate but maybe others might want to see her as a person who has made and will make mistakes but doesn't deserve to be crucified for the mistakes.

Maybe Kate isn't in jail for anything because she hasn't done anything illegal. All you see is a few tweets. You have no idea what Kate pays or doesn't in taxes.

Parent In Lancaster County said...

The Administrator and regulars like to talk big about their ability to disagree, but the reality is that unless you agree that Kate Gosselin is the devil incarnate, your opinion is not and has never been welcome here

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I've never felt unwelcome here, and I don't think she's the devil incarnate. I have been known to point out quite a few things for which she has been accused that simply aren't true. I happen to think that the haters on Twitter are obsessed in their hatred that it's taken over much of their lives. I've read so many vile, untruths about her there that I've cringed when reading them, but know that nothing I could say would change their minds (and I don't have Twitter so I can't refute their claims, nor would I want to).

I do hate that she's put those kids on display and continues to do so. I do hate that she puts herself above everyone else (ME ME ME) and that humility isn't a word in her vocabulary, and I hate that she grifts because what she is doing is teaching her kids entitlement...that if you ask, you shall be given, and I hate the way Jon has been treated.

KAT said...

Admin....don't give this trouble maker any satisfaction.... this is clearly one of Kates 6 fans....Hey...don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out jc.... don't take Kates failures out on us...

aggiemom09121416 said...

KAT said... 93

I think there's room for a second person on that cliff......
----lol!

I say BLOCK AND IGNORE!
:)

Fleecing The Sheeple said...


"See? That should be simpe for you to understand, no?"

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No, but then again, I'm stupid. But I can read posting rule #3 and understand it.

KAT said...

Is this you Kate?? If you had a job you wouldn't have time to defend your sorry ass...NOW GO AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR LITTLE MONEY MAKERS....child exploiter and con artist....

Blowing In The Wind said...

I say BLOCK AND IGNORE!
:)

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Block and ignore ASAP and join us in the fun!!!!!!

KAT said...

Sorry Admin...maybe I should take my own advice. Can't help it...I'm an Italian with a hot temper.....I don't understand the mentality of someone that.....just blind to the facts is all I can say...

Warmth Of The Sun said...

"And like I said in my first post, my main point was that posts like yours is why I lurk mostly. Any dissention from the hate on Kate leads to meanness."

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Seems to me that the meanness has been on YOUR part.

Tamara said...

I think a post dedicated to what a compulsive liar Khate is, and what that means about for her and the kids overall psychology and life is hitting a little too close to home for someone. So they decided they had to turn the conversation.

chefsummer #Leh said...

jclentie said... 65

1.RV break down-(Maddy has dusting hands cause she touch Steve's pizza.

2.Kate missed Halloween.-(on sale day late candy no Trick or treating)

3.One of the boy crawled under the hot BBB to get his water bottle.-(instead of Kate doing it).

4. Kate called Jon & every hard working person
mediocre.

5.They spent they spring vacation in the basement or in a cold park.

6. Leaving the kids to do marathons

7. Leaving the kids to go to Australia NY, Chicago LA, LV with Steve when she say she can't afford a vacation.

8. Telling the world that the twins are wearing bras.

KAT said...

I'll end this by saying...GET THE EFF OUT OF HERE jc BFORE THIS GETS UGLY...I can get pretty nasty...don't try me...

pink slime said...

Hey JC....you are going to have to convince 99% of America that she is a nice person. Don't try to imply that this blog is misguided.

Tucker's Mom said...

2.Kate missed Halloween.-(on sale day late candy no Trick or treating)
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While Kate was getting full on Halloween hair and make up for The View. It was a fluff appearance, she had nothing to promote or sell. Nothing. Yet, she gets a couple days of fun and relaxation and her kids get to trade candy bars.
Without the cameras, there's not going to be another dress up Halloween for them.
Let me tell you the cruelest thing Kate's done to her kids--she's cut them off from their family. No aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents.
I will never believe that anyone in her family is sooooo terrible that they should be cut off. They got in Kate's path and no one but no one else besides Kate makes money off her kids.
I could go on and on, but I'm not going to respond further because I don't have any burning desire to change anyones mind or opinion.

chefsummer #Leh said...

9. The kids are all over her website.

10. The kids are all over her twitter.

11. She still using the kids.

12. She still grifting.

13. She still using the kids 2 get a show.

14. She still using the kids to grift.

15. She accepts gifts from teen fans.

Anonymous said...

To the people talking about Mady wanting to say her line over:

That was in Yellowstone. Mady says, "I know a fact."
Hannah says something, and then Mady starts yelling, "Hannah! That was my fact!"

Kate talks over her.

Mady starts saying: "I wanna start over. Hey! No! I wanna start over."

Kate says, "No. Nobody's listening to us."


Here's a time when Kate was so lovingly interacting with the kids (not):
As they're leaving, one of the girls is happily saying to Kate about Old Faithful, "That was the beautifulest thing I ever seen in my whole life."

Kate's response? She doesn't acknowledge the little girl at all. Only says, "Let's get out of here before we're photographed to pieces. Let's go." And picks up her purse and starts walking away.

Poor put-upon Kate.

Lynn said...

Maybe the name of the store where she "discount shops" is Shady Maple Farms? One of the episodes featured them taking the kids to their smorgasbord (sp?) As far as JC goes watch the episodes. Enough said.

KAT said...

...and who said anything about her taxes??? Do you know something I don't? That sounded like a little guilt...

chefsummer #Leh said...

9. Kate still using the kids-(How u ask)
-Her website
-Her Twitter
-For her grifting

10. Where has the kids been since the show was cancelled?
- A working vacation so Kate can use them to run the kids marathon.
- A grifted beach vacation.

11.Where has Kate been since the show was cancelled?
-NY
-Las Vegas
-Chicago
-New Zealand & Australia

KAT said...

You guys are so nice and patient..I admire restraint....

just a mom and grandma said...

jclentie said... 86
What was so bad about the globe thing? Joely peeled a part off the globe. The other kids told. Really? Did you hear or see that Kate whipped him? Sent him to bed with no supper? No.

jclentie - Joel did not do it, he just got blamed by your idol. Then she publicized it!

Parent In Lancaster County said...

Maybe the name of the store where she "discount shops" is Shady Maple Farms? One of the episodes featured them taking the kids to their smorgasbord (sp?) As far as JC goes watch the episodes. Enough said.

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I don't consider to be Shady Maple Farm Market to be "discount" or organic. Nice place, yes; cheap, no. Has she ever mention Amelia's?

Layla said...

Hmmm, how long has it been since Kate has been on TV whining about how how much the kids "honestly" miss filming? It's been awhile...can we hope that we have seen the last of her on television?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I'm sure it goes without saying that "whipping" and sendin to bed without supper are not the only ways a mother caN hurt a child.

Blowing In The Wind said...

Did you hear or see that Kate whipped him? Sent him to bed with no supper? No.

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So because we didn't see or hear it, that means that punishment never happened? It did, or it didn't. The fact is, we just don't know.

"You guys are so nice and patient..I admire restraint...."

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Admin has been more than patient!

Dwindle said...

jclentie said... 86
What was so bad about the globe thing? Joely peeled a part off the globe. The other kids told. Really? Did you hear or see that Kate whipped him? Sent him to bed with no supper? No.
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oops, no. All we know is from Kate's own blog, but she said no one would admit to it, so they took a vote on who to blame and Joel won/lost because 'everyone heartily agreed' he "looked" guilty. And yes, she admits she did berate him quite a bit for destroying property and then lying about it. She continues on to say that later the REAL guilty party, a girl, came and confessed but begged Kate not to tell the others who it REALLY was that peeled a sticker off the globe. Kate agreed to NOT tell the other kids as a way of validating that the girl eventually did the right thing by telling the truth better late than never.

This was all Kate's own blog post that discussed this. She does not say if anyone ever apologized to Joel.

I am fairly certain it is on her real site, not the coupon site. Go look for it!

JC, how many names do you go by anyway? JC seems alot like CJ but I am only just learing my letters. I stopped after MSW.

Dwindle said...

I should delete my last post and reclaim a bit of my dignity, but I wont. I cant believe I let myself get drawn in.

ENOUGH!

What is every one doing for Labor Day? We know what LovesMyGrandsons is doing! Heading out of town armed with sticker charts!

Any cookouts? Pool closings? Gardenings?

Anonymous said...

While Kate was getting full on Halloween hair and make up for The View. It was a fluff appearance, she had nothing to promote or sell. Nothing. Yet, she gets a couple days of fun and relaxation and her kids get to trade candy bars.

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She conveniently forgot all about spring break this year (although kids talk about it for weeks and weeks before break) but she could make a trip to NYC. The kids got a chilly day at the park.

Working Woman said...

Jclentie...

Thank you for taking the time to post your issues. I want to try to answer your questions, you are clearly not the only one who feels that way.

You asked how Kate has recently treated Jon poorly. Perhaps Kate has publicly acknowledged her poor treatment of Jon during their marriage, and that is admirable. But I, for one, still dont respect the way she speaks about her ex. Every single time a recent interviewer has asked her if things are more peaceful between them, she says something to the effect of "Yeah, and its really nothing that I am doing differently...I guess he's just come around..." insinuiting that any conflict there EVER was has been his fault and that she was a perfect angel. Passive-aggressive and utter bs, if you ask me.

And, it was pretty recent that she made that mediocre comment. And since she no longer has a television show, she posts pictures and private sentiments from her children all over twitter, thus taking away the privacy that they are entitled to.

And of course, her behavior on the RV trip to everyone: Mady, Ashley, Jamie, the man who took them water rafting. And who can forget the young man at the Sky Tower in Australia?

I truly respect that you have a positive view on Kate, and I do not try to change it. I am sure you have your reasons and that she has done and said things that you have appreciated. But what I have seen, I have not been impressed with. I do not know and her and have never met her, so I cannot say for certain, "She is a mean person." And I certainly do not think she is the devil incarnate, but many of her behaviors and the way she has treated people have rubbed me the wrong way. And I think other posters feel similarly.

We did not wake up one morning thinking that it would be fun to hate on Kate Gosselin and pick apart every thing she does. She is the one who originally said, What you see is what you get. This is the realest reality show there is. Okay, so people took her actions to heart, what did she expect? In my humble opinion, she has brought a lot of it on herself and does not do a whole lot to endear herself to the public.

chefsummer #Leh said...

Kate never really said she was sorry to Jon publicly.

She said-" I was tough on him"-then blah blah blah.

Dwindle said...

KAT said... 109
I'll end this by saying...GET THE EFF OUT OF HERE jc BFORE THIS GETS UGLY...I can get pretty nasty...don't try me...
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WAIT A MINUTE while I get the popcorn.... Ok I am ready.

KAT? I got a nice rumspringa on ice for ya here for when you need it...

pink slime said...

My last post on this...for someone who isn't really a Kate fan, JC seems to know all the details of her life. Hm, I can picture Kate sitting at home right now, the kids at John's and she is feeding all these details to her paid PR blogger and blogger types away...interesting, there have been no Kate tweets since this started. I know, that may be a bit conspiracy theory but it wouldn't surprise me given her past behavior.

Jumping In said...

I pride myself in not taking the bait from those who use this blog to promote Kate.
They are die-hard followers who cannot/will not give up their defense of a celebrity who brought something to their lives, whatever that may be. Just be happy with that feeling and move on, I respect your right to stick to your guns.

What does grind me though, is this never-ending belief that we are all "haters". That is black/white thinking, love/hate thinking with no room for middle ground. I will, as others have done, give credit to Kate when she does something without having a side agenda or ulterior motive. Although those moments are rare, they are recognized here, and Admin. has set that tone from the outset. I have never been, nor could I ever be a "mean girl"

angie said...

If Kate is hiring tutor(s) to work with her children, bravo! I would not be able to help children with today's math/science/history/geography as all of this has changed. Where is the USSR? Get my point? Thanks.

What bothers me more is Jon.
Since he left Kate, how many years ago is it now? He has been with Haily Glassman, Kate Majors and I don't know how many more women that the 8 children have seen him sleeping with.

Think about how that affects the children. We never speak about this. We tear Kate apart, of course I do too. But when I thought about how many women these kids have been exposed to, how many different apartments or houses Jon has moved to,how many jobs? I realized that Kate has provided stability for these kids. We don't give her credit for that. If she has every penny, that good for her. I can't imagine providing for 8 kids in today's world.

This last statement to Star that Jon made must, somehow, find it's way back to the twins. They have friends who are exposed to all of this.

Kate does do a few things that bug the hell out of all of us including going to NY to get that terrible hair job and eat lunch there. But Jon can't keep a job, a place to live or the same woman in his life.

What do you think those kids think about all of this? Will it be Kate or Jon who will leave them with the most scars?

No, I am not a fan of Kate, but I also am not a fan of Jon.

Having these 5 girls seeing Jon in bed with so many different women is sad. I don't know what Kate does with Steve but somehow I just don't think the kids see her with him in a compromising position at any time. Unless someone can tell Admin differently.

Can this be a Comment we can post about? Just who is providing a better life or a more stable life for the kids and what the kids must think of how their parents live.

I don't personally care about the chickens and whether they have been sold to a butcher or a farmer but I do care about young children and how they perceive their parents living with so many different mates.

As anyone any examples of their own marriages and how the parents live differently while raising the children?

secrert2 said...

Kat your husband said a lot of OCD sufferers are also compulsive liars is this was a symptom of the OCD or part of the diagnosis?

Dwindle said...

capecodmama said... 82
Dwindle...

OMG you crack me up. Have a Rumspringa on me and you can swing on that chandelier as long as you want. Have fun!
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Thanks cape. :) I wish I would have worn slacks instead of this sundress, though. SORRY, EVERYBODY DOWN THERE.

AuntieAnn said...

If I had a house full of eight kids all under the age of 13 and the equator was peeled off a globe, I think I'd drop down on my knees and thank the gods of fragility that is only thing that got wrecked in a day. But Kate writes a whole blog about it and the lessons learned. Does this seem normal or rational to anyone? Really a piece of paper a thirty-second of an inch thick gets peeled off a litlte round map and she writes a blog about narking out the culprit and the virtues of being honest? Good grief. Truth & honesty is about as foreign to Kate Gosselin as speaking the Quechua language is to most people.

Anyway, point is....What does she do to them if they break a glass?

aggiemom09121416 said...

Why spend time and effort talking to a brick wall?
Labor Day plans? nothing special, think the kids and I might take a nap, it's been a long first week of school! And we might squeal and shriek!
:)

Dwindle said...

Moose Mania said... 77
A black T shirt with a saying on it that says "Show me the Duct Tape and I can fix anything!"

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Was his Justin Bieber tee shirt in the laundry?
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HunnyBunny wouldnt know who that is. But fixing a car in a dealership service department with duct tape was worthy of a Monday morning giggle!

chefsummer #Leh said...

AuntieAnn....131


This is the same woman who on TV said if the kids got one bit of sugar on the counter.

They would be on their hands & knees cleaning.

And yet she can make pizza on the same counter.
Stand barefooted with Jamie on the counter.

Try not to over think Kate you'll get a headache if you do.

Working Woman said...

Angie, that's a very interesting idea. Posters on this blog seem to have varying opinions on Jon. Some feel he a good father who has made mistakes in the past, others feel he is only a notch above Kate, some think he is worse.

I happen to like Jon okay. I do NOT think he is perfect and do not defend some of his past actions, but I also have to respectful disagree that he is so unstable. Yes, he dated Hailey Glassman, during his wild phase. Was it ever confirmed that he was with Deanna? Because other than that, his relationships have been long-lasting and with seemingly respectable girls, such as Ellen and his current one (pardon me, I forget her name).

I don't think Kate has it easy as a mom of 8 kids. I don't think any parent would, I just don't think she has it anywhere near as rough as she would like the world to believe. That said, I do acknowledge that every day she feeds, bathes, and puts 8 kids to bed. So it is only fair to give Jon credit where credit is due.

When he was married to Kate, he did a ton for those kids and for that household, a ton. After the divorce, he has remained present in his children's lives and has proven that he can get by without sharing every detail of their lives with the public. I am only being fair, I am trying to see the good in both of them.

Kokomo, Cocktails and Dreams said...


Having these 5 girls seeing Jon in bed with so many different women is sad

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Wait a minute. You're making it sound like he hires hookers and lets the five girls watch. That's a bit an over-the-top assertion.

"I don't personally care about the chickens and whether they have been sold to a butcher or a farmer but I do care about young children and how they perceive their parents living with so many different mates."

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How many "mates" did Jon live with? He didn't live with Ellen. Who did he live with, allowing the kids to watch him in bed?

How many "mates" did Kate live with?

AuntieAnn said...

Chef - I know. Double shots of Rumpsringa for the headaches are the only cure. Kate has exploded my brain so many times I've taken to wearing a helmet and safety glasses when I read her tweets.

chefsummer #Leh said...

Also if Kate is with Steve and he's married.

What's that teaching the girls?

Also what's it teaching the boys?

Both J&K seems to have inappropriate relationships around their kids.

Tucker's Mom said...

angie said... 128
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Well stated opinion that I mostly agree with. I think Jon's dating early on was outrageous. He was away with Haley way too much and she was way too young and way bad news.
I really felt that Kate was more stable than Jon at the time.
Now, it's years later and a man can date! I would assume that he's appropriate with his girlfriend in front of the kids. If it's so horrible, can you imagine how the kids would feel if mommy dated on national TV.
Joe Millionaire "slurp slurp" anyone?

KAT said...

Secret2@129......ocd is the symptom...not the diagnonis....its just another bi-product of a compusion.....i know im confused myself....

chefsummer #Leh said...

AuntieAnn said... 135
Chef - I know. Double shots of Rumpsringa
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LOL I hope it's non-fat organic shots.

Dwindle said...

angie said... 128

(((((((((((((((((

I agree and have said something similar. I know some feel his relationship with Ellen was long term, but at my age I dont consider 2 years long term. Just my opinion.

At least 3 of these gals Jon has publically said that this is THEE one, or perhaps marriage, or this is my soul mate. I dont know what the kids see with their eyes, but they could end up with the impression that true love happens on the 2nd date; or perhaps feel that their dad is promiscuous.

You couple that with their mom publicly BEGGING for dates, she needs a MAN, they see their mother planning for Kate's New Husband (any warm body with money will do, it seems) at the holiday dinner table, her tatas and stilettos are her big concern... As soon as the rest of them actually figure out what the act of sex technically IS, they are going to feel pretty weirded out and embarrassed that their parents are both so publicly horny.

I think he is trying to be a really good dad. But he seems lost without a relationship, and he wants a relationship that feels serious to him. Perhaps he is just so lonely for the daily permanance of his children... I dont know.

Not blue said...

Angie, one thing that you stated jumped out to me and that is Kate provides stability for the kids.

I know that this is a sore spot here but I just don't think that Jon spends a lot of time with the kids. When he was with Ellen he seemed more stable and was consistent with his visitation. Now, not so much.

In regards to his past girlfriends I do remember a video being shown on the entertainment shows of Deanna's brother videoing Jon leaving Deanna's house very early in the morning with the implication that Jon spent the night with her. Jon and Kate were still together and not separated. I think Deanna moved out soon after her brother sold that.

readerlady said...

Angie -- No evidence that the kids ever met Hailey Glassman. Kate Major CLAIMED to be involved with Jon. He denied it, and since he's owned his other relationships, I tend to believe him. Someone named Morgan. Again, no evidence that the kids ever met her. Ellen -- Jon was involved with her for nearly 2 years and she spent time with the kids, but they didn't live together, so why would the kids see Jon in bed with her? Liz -- again,they don't live together, so why would the kids see Jon in bed with her? Since Jon came back from NYC (and I still believe TLC was behind that move), he's had one, maybe 2 apartments and the house he currently rents (or is buying?). He's had several jobs and has his own business, which involves working on contract for various businesses, so of course he has different jobs. He's working. KK isn't. KK has kept the kids in the same house and same school, but there's also a lot of instability there, with her mood swings; her taking off hither, thither and yon for appearances; pulling them out of school for filming; filming the crap out of them up until a year ago (and still publicizing intimate details of their lives); etc. By reports, there's a revolving door of caretakers when she isn't there, and even often when she is. I think both parents have provided a degree of stability for the kids, but also have contributed to an instability. Neither one gets a pass from me on that.

Twittering And Twattering said...

miloandjack
@Kateplusmy8 Wowzer...Im impressed w/that! Organics R so expensive! What all did U get? Mainly canned/boxed foods or even some fresh stuff?

miloandjack
@Kateplusmy8 @justinbieber Well, LOL, if duct tape makes them squeal w/delight that opens alot of possibilities 4fun! Wonderin abt them? :)

MiloandJack
@Kateplusmy8 @deannatweeting BTW..what happened 2Mady's "Grow A Boyfriend" present?Never heard the end of that? U & him still an item Kate?

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I don't know when I've seen anyone as nosy as this person!

Dwindle said...

KAT said... 137
Secret2@129......ocd is the symptom...not the diagnonis....its just another bi-product of a compusion.....i know im confused myself....
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Oh I am so sorry but I must disagree. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is indeed a stand alone diagnosis. It does not occlude other dx's however.

"Formal diagnosis may be performed by a psychologist, psychiatrist, clinical social worker, or other licensed mental health professional. To be diagnosed with OCD, a person must have obsessions, compulsions, or both, according to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM)."

"The phrase obsessive–compulsive has become part of the English lexicon, and is often used in an informal or caricatured manner to describe someone who is excessively meticulous, perfectionistic, absorbed, or otherwise fixated.[2] Although these signs are present in OCD, a person who exhibits them does not necessarily have OCD, and may instead have obsessive–compulsive personality disorder (OCPD), an autism spectrum disorder, or no clinical condition."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obsessive_Compulsive_Disorder

Anonymous said...

Dwindle said... 126
KAT said... 109
I'll end this by saying...GET THE EFF OUT OF HERE jc BFORE THIS GETS UGLY...I can get pretty nasty...don't try me...
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WAIT A MINUTE while I get the popcorn.... Ok I am ready.

KAT? I got a nice rumspringa on ice for ya here for when you need it..

*************

She needs a hell of a lot more than a drink. Every one of her posts is seething with rage. Her level of anger over something ultimately so trivial as a disagreement on a freakin' Gosselin blog is downright scary.

Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said...

I know that this is a sore spot here but I just don't think that Jon spends a lot of time with the kids. When he was with Ellen he seemed more stable and was consistent with his visitation. Now, not so much.

We don't see or hear what's going on now. Do you know something we don't?

Dwindle said...

AuntieAnn said... 135
Chef - I know. Double shots of Rumpsringa for the headaches are the only cure. Kate has exploded my brain so many times I've taken to wearing a helmet and safety glasses when I read her tweets.
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I keep my puke bowl at my side, and read them only while on the linoleum floor.

chefsummer #Leh said...

Dwindle said... 145
AuntieAnn said... 135
Chef - I know. Double shots of Rumpsringa for the headaches are the only cure. Kate has exploded my brain so many times I've taken to wearing a helmet and safety glasses when I read her tweets.
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I keep my puke bowl at my side, and read them only while on the linoleum floor.
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We now use buckets now for puke-fest.

just a mom and grandma said...

Angie - Jon can't date, key word - date- but Mady (an 11 year old) can give Kate a grow a boyfriend doll that everyone talks about, get her foot licked on tv, and that is ok?

Don't get me wrong, I'm not a Jon lover, I think Jon made a lot of stupid mistakes, but at least he isn't tweeting and posting pics of his kids constantly. He is giving them some privacy.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Yes. Jon doesn't tweet or post pics of the kids at all actually. He never has. Not once.

Dwindle said...

Anonymous said... 143
Dwindle said... 126
KAT said... 109
I'll end this by saying...GET THE EFF OUT OF HERE jc BFORE THIS GETS UGLY...I can get pretty nasty...don't try me...
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WAIT A MINUTE while I get the popcorn.... Ok I am ready.

KAT? I got a nice rumspringa on ice for ya here for when you need it..

*************

She needs a hell of a lot more than a drink. Every one of her posts is seething with rage. Her level of anger over something ultimately so trivial as a disagreement on a freakin' Gosselin blog is downright scary.

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Oh dear. And away I go on the chandelier! Anon at 143, I was referring to poster KAT @109. I HAVE followed her posts today, and while she did get frustrated I sure didnt see that "every one of her posts is seething with rage." Are you sure you were referring to KAT?

Please dont say accusatory things like that about Kate, or about anyone else who was part of this dustup for the past 3 days.

Sorry gals, and sorry Admin, but this is way too middle school for me. Taking a break.

Will my Facebook friend please let me know when it is safer to come back? ;-)

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...


I know that this is a sore spot here but I just don't think that Jon spends a lot of time with the kids. When he was with Ellen he seemed more stable and was consistent with his visitation. Now, not so much.

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What's this based on? He never talks about it to know. But a few people have tweeted sightings of him, the most recent one being seeing him at the park. WITH THE KIDS. There was another where he took them to an employee picnic, and another where he was going to a sports game.

All three sighings were with his kids. He's batting 3 for 3.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

On another note, when it's 50-50 there is no such thing as "visitation" anymore. Visitation dissolves and it becomes shared custody arrangement. If Jon has visitation than so does Kate.

Visitation is only when one parent has custody.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

It's easy to get a court order to restrict a girlfriend from being around your children. It's incredibly telling there has never been such a court order. If Jon were being inappropriate Kate would do that first thing. She never has. And she has never complained about his significant other.

She made a few jabs about dating but other than that she never mentions it. She actually didn't even seem to mind when Mady was talking about Ellen in that episode where they went to Baltimore. I give her credit for that and have said that many times. I too give Kate credit where it is due. It's the worst when you like your dad's girlfriend but your mom doesn't--puts you in a horrible position.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Uh, I thought it was obvious KAT was being facetious. I don't seriously think she is "seething with rage." I thought it was funny.

FYI said...

kateplusmy8
It's parent night in our middle school... Just left Public speaking class and I'm currently in Spanish class! :)

Can she not turn off her Iphone and enjoy Parent's night without tweeting about it? Again, she needs to validate what a great mother she is.

LoveMyGrandsons said...

I have not read any comments yet, but I just have to say that it is PATHETIC that she is at parent night, in a classroom, and tweeting strangers! To me, this proves how little interest she has in her children and their lives. How absolutely shameful!

Anonymous said...

Sweet Tart said... 18
I just wanted to share my own personal brief experience with a compulsive liar. In college, I had a roommate who was a compulsive liar, although I didn't realize it at first. As we mutually exchanged personal info about ourselves, and shared stories of our past experiences, it slowly dawned on me that she had a whole slew of extreme life experiences. For a 20-year old girl, she'd experienced a lot. An example: She explained the reason she had to take birth control pills was because she had lost an ovary when she had been kicked by a horse in high school. According to her, she worked at a local horse riding school, cleaning out the stalls, helping to groom the horses, etc. One day, she happened to walk behind a horse who then spooked, kicking her with its hind hooves. This sent her flying ____ feet (the number of feet was ever changing).

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My NPD/liar coworker was exactly the same. She was 24 years old, and had held down about 20 different jobs. We actually kept a list, just for fun. A few of my faves: secretary at a chiropractcor's office, photographer of parrots at the zoo, clown for b-day parties and phone operator at a national call center for a thrift store chain.

it's the kind of experience that makes you speechless. Literally.

She would also adjust her story midway through a conversation depending on the reactions of the few who could get a word in. One conversation was about a problem another coworker was having with her cell phone. Her response was, Oh I never heard of that. When we tried to troubleshoot the problem, she said: Oh my friend has that problem ALL THE TIME. Within a five-minute conversation.

It makes YOU feel like you are losing your mind, like you are the crazy one.

heather

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...


kateplusmy8
It's parent night in our middle school... Just left Public speaking class and I'm currently in Spanish class! :)


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This is getting insane. Good Lord woman. Can't even be present and aware at Parent's Night. I really wish her sheeple could find a kind and gentle

Speaking of examples of bad parenting JC was asking about, there you go.

It is shameful Grandsons, If not one of the most neglectful things she's ever done.

Any parent at parents night, especially one with 8 kids, knows it's not appropriate to let your mind wander elsewhere. Jon is probably there hopefully he'll catch everything she isn't listening to.

Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said...

The more adulation she gets the more she needs. She can't even get through Parent's Night without seeking thunderous tweeting cheers.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Sorry didn't finish that thought....I wish her sheeple could find a kind and gentle way to get her to pay attention to her own darn children. For one, stop tweeting her during the evening hours.

just a mom and grandma said...

LoveMyGrandsons said... 156

I agree, why isn't she getting to know her kid's classmates parents? Are they too mediocre?

Tucker's Mom said...

I would not have the cajones to pull out my phone and begin tweeting during someone's presentation. It shows great disrespect and lack of maturity.

silimom said...

I can't speak for everyone but I have to agree with Lancaster Parent and her points. I have never considered myself a Kate Hater. A hater is someone, IMO, who says vile, reprehensible things about someone usually with lots of vulgarity thrown in for good measure simply to be mean and hurtful. There are "haters" on both sides of the Gosselin fence.

I have given Kate credit when credit is due. Sometimes others agree with me sometimes I am trolled. Sometimes people can be rude to first time posters or those simply asking questions. Other times people can be supportive and caring above and beyond the call.

None of us are perfect. People post for different reasons, IMO. Sometimes it's just to gossip. Sometimes it's to just hang out. Sometimes it's to work out past or present issues, usually involving a narcissist.

You can't control what other people do or in this case write. You can always control your own attitude, however, and how you choose to respond. If people are being rude, ignore them or don't respond. There are no rules requiring you to answer back every comment someone makes.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Can you imagine as a parent what a turnoff it would be to see another parent on her iphone/ipad tweeting away? I mean I wouldn't have the slightest interest in getting to know them. I would assume well they are too busy with work or whatever, they're not interested in me.

I'd want to get to know the parent who was smiling and engaged with what was going on and being friendly and open to conversation.

FYI said...

IMO, if you're tweeting during Parents Night-you're bored out of your mind and don't care what is being discussed. How pathetic can you get? It's like she's saying "Hey, I showed up-arent't I a great mother".

KAT said...

Im seething with rage......ha ha ....good one......actually i enjoyed it.....it was fun...sometimes its the only way to get through to these trouble makers.....if thats what they think then thats o.k......i think i'll take that drink now girls..... Btw.....pathological liars can be deviants says my husband so i dont think she qualifys for that....that term is a little over the top for her....

DebbieDowner4 said...

My college roommie was a pathological liar too.

She would not let me in the room when she was getting dressed (the dorm rooms were very small and had no walls for privacy. After this happened several times I basically said to her "look, we're both women...I'm not going to be looking at you getting dressed, but even if I caught a glimpse, what difference would it make? I've got the same parts!" Well, she got all teary eyed and said that as a young teen she lost a breast to breast cancer. I was stunned, and cried with her for the next hour. Guess what....she never had breast cancer, just wanted "privacy" when getting dressed.

2nd big lie (two parts to this one)- she had a childhood friend, who lived next door. She and this boy grew up together and when they were in high school, they became boyfriend/girlfriend. One day, when they were both at her house, alone, he wanted to be intimate, she didn't. So, she said he raped her on the kitchen floor. She felt guilty and tried to commit suicide. Both events never happened. I found that out one night when she told me she was a virgin. I've never seen anyone try to change the subject so quickly after she was caught in that lie.

Needless to say, I switched roommies after that - just didn't trust her.

Well.....the stars aligned, and I bumped into her about 5 years ago when I was visiting my hometown. We made small talk, etc, I told her I was married with 2 kids. She said that she and her hubby tried for years to have a baby, and when she finally got pregnant, her hub died - he was one of the passengers on one of the planes out of Boston on Sept. 11th. The stress made her lose the baby. Guess what......you got it....all BS.

Last I heard through another fellow graduate this chicky still lives at home with mom and dad, never married, never had any kids, and even though she has a college degree, she works part time at Wendys.

That woman is clearly a sociopath/psychopath, whatever you want to call it....she is bat sh-t crazy. I never found out if she got professional help, but I hope she did. We were friends for a while, but you can't be friends with someone who lies about EVERYTHING. (I'm not talking about telling your mother-in-law that her dinner is delicious, even though it looks and smells like Alpo...I've done that to spare her feelings.)

I wish people like that could wear a sign/tee-shirt/tattoo that says "Pathological Liar" so we know not to trust them.

Just kidding....kinda

librarylady said...

If she's tweeting away during a school event, especially if she's "between classes", then she doesn't have to interact or mingle with the other mediocre parents, right?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Maybe she's not so much a liar as she is delusional.

Or maybe the lies are all about building up her own hype into this big facade of who she is. Only she has no clue. She tweets to build up this image of a mom who is so attentive that she actually goes to parents night, and yet seems to have no clue that it isn't just about punching in and being a body sitting there, you tool, it's about going there and ENGAGING with parents night, especially with the teachers and the info they give you, especially with the things you see of your child's, and lesser so with other parents.

chefsummer #Leh said...

kateplusmy8
It's parent night in our middle school... Just left Public speaking class and I'm currently in Spanish class! :)
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And this is why people/we get annoyed with Kate.

She can't/won't stay off the phone when it involves her kids.

I mean come on she can't stay off the phone for a few hours? In order to take care of her kids school business?

And she has to tell the world about it.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Maybe her phone is just a crutch because she is petrified to be around all those people--fair point, huh?

Sillimom what a great post....I only wish I were more disciplined to follow it. I try!

gotyournumberKate said...

I thought this article on buying Facebook and Twitter followers was very interesting. I guess all the reality stars do it. lol

http://famewhorgas.wordpress.com/

chefsummer #Leh said...

I think Kate lies so much she believes her own lies.

So to her she's not lying.-lol

KAT said...

I told my husband i was seething with rage....hes cracking up.....especially since i barely ever raise my voice......just a blog.....havin some fun....and make that drink a double...

chefsummer #Leh said...

I wonder if Steve is there with her to protect her from other people.

wayward said...

librarylady said... 168
If she's tweeting away during a school event, especially if she's "between classes", then she doesn't have to interact or mingle with the other mediocre parents, right?
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Right ;)

aggiemom09121416 said...

As usual, you guys are right on the money about her tweeting instead of giving her attention to the teachers and students. Kate is her OWN biggest fan.

I'm flabbergasted. She is the epitome of rudeness.

(some of my posts are posting and disappearing...have I been placed in time out??lol)

Parent In Lancaster County said...

IMO, if you're tweeting during Parents Night-you're bored out of your mind and don't care what is being discussed. How pathetic can you get? It's like she's saying "Hey, I showed up-arent't I a great mother".

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I was wondering if she was going to tweet tonight. I was watching it. She didn't disappoint.

chefsummer #Leh said...

aggiemom09121416 said... 175

(some of my posts are posting and disappearing...have I been placed in time out??lol)
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LOL

I was thinking the same thing.

Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said...

Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 170
Maybe her phone is just a crutch because she is petrified to be around all those people--fair point, huh?
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That's what I'm beginning to think. If someone looked like they were coming over and since she always has her phone in her hand, she could have just started tweeting. She may feel socially inept or maybe threatened. There's just something not right.

If that's the case her tweetie friends who think they're going to ever have a get together are in for a surprise:

@fostermom62
@Kateplusmy8 So much fun tweeting last night! I think the fun group would be a blast 2gether on a girls night out!! We'd laugh til dawn!

@fostermom62
@Mydmaxx @kateplusmy8 It would be amazing to laugh all night over cocktails ...talk of kids, makeup, men, fashion!!!

KAT said...

How do you even think of tweeting in between classes....its so crazy at those things.....why is tweeting even a thought in her head at a time like that...what is the thought process with this woman......oh i got it.......its killing her its not being filmed

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